armylord:
here u go again with this cheerful giving ishh, before she met him who was buying food for her,infact before she ever had any dream of having a boyfriend who was feeding her, if she wants to be fed ,she should cook for herself, I detest dependent women

you guys are the cause of your own problems..

stop dating broke ladies ..99% of broke babes in naija have that mentality so you're wasting your time.

date someone that is made if you're made.
never settle for less

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Your boyfriend doesn't care about you he only wants you because it's convenient for him and you are available.
All those kids typing rubbish don't know what they are saying. If two of you are in a relationship and appreciates it he would bought something when coming back even if there's food in his house. And if you are the one coming back to meet or visit him you should buy too. Except you guys are just Bleep mate and don't care about anything apart from sex. One thing my ex won't miss then was buying something when coming back once he knows I'm at his place even though there was always food. I am good at buying things no matter how small when visiting so I learned from me and started buying. He wasn't stingy but you know guys might not think of buying things like fruits or biscuits when they are coming back. There were times when the best thing one could get for me was milkose sweets . But he become conscious of it and would even call me to ask if I preferred any particular thing. I didn't ask him to start buying, he saw I was good at that, liked it and join in buying.
I hope you also buy when you are going to visit him?
But I blame him for not biyin knowing that you were in his house waiting for him and there might have been nothing for you to cook or you guys might not have gotten to that level

Anyone who doesn't say something in your favour is now a kid

do you think all guys like spending for ladies anyhow

it depends on your bf or husband.. stop saying trash

MissRaine69:


It’s not his/her duty
I know the financial situations of people I am friends with or people I am acquainted with and how to diplomatically navigate around those that are struggling without being offending. I have friends if I visit I know they will never cook even with an abundance of food in the house. Then there are those that love to cook but are terrible at it . Or the ones who can but don’t have much. I don’t visit with the specification of being fed. And if I am not I don’t make a big issue about it. That’s me being factual and objective.

The thing with some ladies is.. they think any guy who doesn't spend is stingy or not financially stable..

It depends on the kind of guy you're with..
Not all guys like spending for ladies anyhow even if they're loaded

khiaa:


No, I am not, my grammar is fine, but aren't you the pot calling the kettle black, using "ain't" when it isn't a word!!! Check your own grammar before you judge someone else's. SMH!!

it's normal in American English

kingkakaone:

Insults is the defense of unintelligent people who have nothing to say.
When someone that is intelligent is mentioned, he speaks like a wise man but not so for the opposite set of people.

And when did the word "Shut up" become an insult

dude you need exposure.. real one

TheUpsetGirl1:


Anyone who doesn't say something in your favour is now a kid

do you think all guys like spending for ladies anyhow

it depends on your bf or husband.. stop saying trash

I don't even advise guys to spend for ladies and I don't allow guys to spend on me cos they spend a little and feel they are your God. No guy can give me what I don't have already.
I'm sure you didn't read my comment.
So you support a guy who had a babe waiting for him in his house all afternoon just for him to show up empty handed? What if the babe doesn't know her way around d the place?
Anyway, I'm not arguing wit you. You can treat your babe as you like. She's your babe and not mine. Don't spend on your babe and don't expect you her to spend on you. Spending also include time you know.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I don't even advise guys to spend for ladies and I don't allow guys to spend on me cos they spend a little and feel they are your God. No guy can give me what I don't have already.
I'm sure you didn't read my comment.
So you support a guy who had a babe waiting for him in his house all afternoon just for him to show up empty handed? What if the babe doesn't know her way around d the place?
Anyway, I'm not arguing wit you. You can treat your babe as you like. She's your babe and not mine. Don't spend on your babe and don't expect you her to spend on you. Spending also include time you know.

she went to his house to wait for him?

...why didn't she tell him she's hungry?

maybe he didn't know

TheUpsetGirl1:


she went to his house to wait for him?

...why didn't she tell him she's hungry?

maybe he didn't know

.
Keep waiting for people to tell you they need something before you can give them. You are looking for a chance to say they are demanding.
I dated a guy for 5whole years. Never demanded for anything. He didn't have much but wasn't the type that waits for you to beg before he gives you even when he knew that I had he still tries his best to make sure he gets something across though I always protest. Probably that's why I don't uderatand how a guy would be waiting for a babe who spent so long a time in his house to request for food before he gives her.
I'm done with you.
Stay off my mention Mr stingy.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
.
Keep waiting for people to tell you they need something before you can give them. You are looking for a chance to say they are demanding.
I dated a guy for 5whole years. Never demanded for anything. He didn't have much but wasn't the type that waits for you to beg before he gives you even when he knew that I had he still tries his best to make sure he gets something across though I always protest. Probably that's why I don't uderatand how a guy would be waiting for a babe who spent so long a time in his house to request for food before he gives her.
I'm done with you.
Stay off my mention Mr stingy.

Ladies are more stingy.....


stingy indeed..

must you eat if you visit a guy? just like a guy asking for sex anytime you visits him.. smh


since your bf was always trying to impress you what were you doing to impress him?

some mumu guys though..

One mistake a wise man should never make is "dating a broke lady"

they'll always look for excuses and complains to make.

if you're made, go for a made lady.

never settle for less.

Sex starved mugus y'all should step up.

TheUpsetGirl1:


it's normal in American English

He's not American and being normal doesn't make it correct.

mamagee3:
Boyfriend did not buy me anything even though I spent the whole day with him.


He went out to go send some money to his family back home and I wanted to come along with him, he said no that he can’t wait for me.But then after waiting for about three hours, he came back empty handed.
And then said, “If I had known, I could have bought you something to eat”.

How cold is that?

he didnt do well!! as far he said wait for me n already knew u would be hungry ,that's not nice, but on another note he might hv forgotten!! Talk to him

U all talking very childish!! She didnt say he should feed her everyday or something.. based on the situation she has every right to feel awkward!! U cant tell a lady to wait for u for hours n atleast don't get her something to eat, is not abt hving plenty money , these r the little things that matters

ehix89:
This could push her to suicide you know, we should all be mindful of what we tell people online a lot are living on the edge..... Cheers dearie

Suicide Lmao We should be so lucky. Do you realize how many years she has been on this forum creating the same assinine topics, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year? I would suggest that you take a look at all 1432 of them. She is just a desperate attention seeker. She creates these topics and very very rarely reply to the comments. That is why I said what I said.

khiaa:


Suicide Lmao We should be so lucky. Do you realize how many years she has been on this forum creating the same assinine topics, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year? I would suggest that you take a look.

i've been here for quite awhile and I sure do know her, I read her thread just like every other.

khiaa:


No, I am not, my grammar is fine, but aren't you the pot calling the kettle black, using "ain't" when it isn't a word!!! Check your own grammar before you judge someone else's. SMH!!

hmmm you didn't disappoint me for I was expecting that reaction......I wasn't really judging you but tactically nodding or agreeing with your apt interpretation of the issue using those expression/ phraseology you employed...... lols

TheUpsetGirl1:

And when did the word "Shut up" become an insult
dude you need exposure.. real one

I already know Ur reaction... Thank you.

ehix89:
i've been here for quite awhile and I sure do know her, I read her thread just like every other.

If you already knew what a attention seeking nut case she is then you shouldn't have made that comment to me.

Babacele:
hmmm you didn't disappoint me for I was expecting that reaction......I wasn't really judging you but tactically nodding or agreeing with your apt interpretation of the issue using those expression/ phraseology you employed...... lols

Then be more specific, I'm not a mind reader neither do I follow your sarcasm.

TheUpsetGirl1:



Ladies are more stingy.....


stingy indeed..

must you eat if you visit a guy? just like a guy asking for sex anytime you visits him.. smh


since your bf was always trying to impress you what were you doing to impress him?

some mumu guys though..

He was not doing it to impress me, was doing it cos it's the right thing to do. In a relationship, giving should not be one sided. I'm an advocate for that. I remembernduti g my service year I met my course mate and he went for lunch one day and I paid for it. I knew he wanted to pay but I met him on my way to lunch, I had my lunch money and extra money with me and I paid for what we both ate. I didn't do it because I had too much money, I did it because I wanted to. He didn't know I had paid for it and when he asked them how Mich was his bill they said I had paid for it. He felt embarrassed but was greatful and suprised. Some girls that were sitticlose to us told me they can't do that. I told them it's not a big deal. Remember he was my course mate back in school and not my guy. I can't even visit a guy without eating or having enough mo ey on me cos guys like you see girls as parasites. And when a guy sees girls like that, he feels that giving is a favour. I don't think you have been in a relationship anyway.

khiaa:


Then be more specific, I'm not a mind reader neither do I follow your sarcasm.

oh the word ' succinctly' should have given away the meaning but not to worry...wasn't judging you at all.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
He was not doing it to impress me, was doing it cos it's the right thing to do. In a relationship, giving should not be one sided. I'm an advocate for that. I remembernduti g my service year I met my course mate and he went for lunch one day and I paid for it. I knew he wanted to pay but I met him on my way to lunch, I had my lunch money and extra money with me and I paid for what we both ate. I didn't do it because I had too much money, I did it because I wanted to. He didn't know I had paid for it and when he asked them how Mich was his bill they said I had paid for it. He felt embarrassed but was greatful and suprised. Some girls that were sitticlose to us told me they can't do that. I told them it's not a big deal. Remember he was my course mate back in school and not my guy. I can't even visit a guy without eating or having enough mo ey on me cos guys like you see girls as parasites. And when a guy sees girls like that, he feels that giving is a favour. I don't think you have been in a relationship anyway.

lols.. I'm not a stingy guy.. I spend too but my point is the lady should also spend no matter how small it is.

I can afford the Samsung S9 but my fiance bought it for me... I can't reject it you know


At least when I'm spending 150k I'd expect you to spend up to 50k.


Lmao.. I've paid bride price o

I will invite you for my marriage if you're interested

TheUpsetGirl1:



lols.. I'm not a stingy guy.. I spend too but my point is the lady should also spend no matter how small it is.

I can afford the Samsung S9 but my fiance bought it for me... I can't reject it you know


At least when I'm spending 150k I'd expect you to spend up to 50k.


Lmao.. I've paid bride price o

I will invite you for my marriage if you're interested

not coming biko. You might not give me food and I can't carry my own food when I know I'm going for a wedding where there will be food. I would rather stay in my house and drink my carry than to come and be embarrassed.
Congratulations in advance

MISSCONGENIALITY:
not coming biko. You might not give me food and I can't carry my own food when I know I'm going for a wedding where there will be food. I would rather stay in my house and drink my carry than to come and be embarrassed.
Congratulations in advance

I'm a civilized man.
In America people don't get served during marriage.

only during reception

MISSCONGENIALITY:
not coming biko. You might not give me food and I can't carry my own food when I know I'm going for a wedding where there will be food. I would rather stay in my house and drink my carry than to come and be embarrassed.
Congratulations in advance

I'm a civilized man.
In America people don't get served food during marriage.

only during reception

TheUpsetGirl1:


I'm a civilized man.
In America people don't get served food during marriage.

only during reception

Thanks for your invitation. Happy married life in advance.

khiaa:


If you already knew what a attention seeking nut case she is then you shouldn't have made that comment to me.

I'm sorry I did, maybe I shouldn't....Peace

TheUpsetGirl1:


such an expensive joke..
better than my fiance indeed the Samsung S9 I'm currently using ,she was the one who bought it for me.

next time don't quote me if your brokeness won't allow you say something without being provocative

the lazy youth Mr president is talking about

[quote author=FRoosevelt post=67111424]You had to wait 3 hours?? You're so loyal to a fault. [/qu...ote]..... what is 3 hrs.......i used to stay from morning to nite in my bf place while he goes for his business......i will eat,sleep,wake up,bath before he comes back.........but he normally buys things while coming back

khiaa:
Mamagee3 are you re.tarded It's common courtesy to feed a guess when they come to visit you. Next time provide for yourself or don't go at

all. Your boyfriend doesn't care about you if he did he would have made sure you were fed. You wouldn't have to ask him for food, another thing

he didn't want you to go with him and he stayed away for three hours while you are visiting him should tell you that you are nothing more than

a screw. I really can't blame the man, going by these assinine topics you create lets me know that you aren't wrapped too tight, a screw

is loose, the elevator doesn't reach the top, you are one brick short of a load, and stuck on stupid and glued to dumb.

...........congrats you just suceeded in typing nonsense

fancy4eve:
Your boy frwnd is stingy nd selfish. He's telling u dat he would hv bought sumtin 4 u, so u will start jumping or dancing. As a man dat claim 2 luv sumone, u should know wat makes ur partner happy nd do it @ d ryt tym. Afterall u waited for good 3 hours, who does dat?.

My dear, luv is about caring nd sharing, so try nd teach him sum ethics.

............maybe he doesnt have money on him then........he had concience by mentioning he could have bought food

[quote author=amakadihot87 post=67141667][/quote] Interesting.