Hi guys, am having this particular problem of getting a good girl that will love me geniuely. I don't know if its possible to get a girl that can be with me without putting money first.
I have been trying my best to get a good woman that can be my girlfriend and possibly my wife in the future.
Yes am very good at toasting girls and have been able to get many of them but it didn't just work, all the girls I got are too money conscious which I hate with passion, mind you am not a stingy man but my problem is just that I want a woman that can be independent, industrious and working for her money instead of depending on her man for her upkeep. Remember am not going for her body, I just want someone I can be very serious with and possibly be my wify as Obi is not getting younger any longer. The last one I dated pushed me out because of over demanding, could you imagined she wanted me to pay her house rent as if am her father, I hate spending unnecessarily to girls that don't have nothing to offer accept her body, am saying this because my sisters don't depend on men to survive and I always make sure they don't do such. I can't just see myself paying a woman's bill just because I love her, I think relationship suppose to be a mutual stuff. PLEASE I NEED A GOOD LOOKING, God FEARING, HARDWORKING WOMAN FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. Am a business man and base in Abuja. Please interested lady should dim me here. Thanks

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You guys are funny set of people.... Independent lady ko stingy guys always want independent ladies that is why those independent ladies no send una. You people don't want to build but expect them to perform wife duties rubishhhh........

OP do inform me when a female finally applies so that i can create my own thread on same topic too.

ebube123 the day you will tell the different between your right and left. Then you will know why you should pay more attention to your business than all this ladies you want as wifey

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ebube123 the day you will tell the different between your right and left. Then you will know why you should pay more attention to your business than all this ladies you want as wifey[/quote

But no matter how successful you are you still need woman in your life. Am just tired of golddigers, I believe I will soon get one. Thanks though

press005:
OP do inform me when a female finally applies so that i can create my own thread on same topic too.

Lol... Are u experiencing the same thing with me? If I were a woman capturing a man's would be so easy but they don't just know men this days want a hardworking and successful women too. Anyway, I will inform when I finally succeed.

agbonkamen:
You guys are funny set of people.... Independent lady ko stingy guys always want independent ladies that is why those independent ladies no send una. You people don't want to build but expect them to perform wife duties rubishhhh........

Did u even understand what I wrote? Am just looking for someone that's hardworking and successesful, I always feel happy whenever I see successful women

ebube123:


Did u even understand what I wrote? Am just looking for someone that's hardworking and successesful, I always feel happy whenever I see successful women

that is to say your dick get hard whenever you see successful women I see

I hope you will meet the kind of Independent lady you are looking for.

Note: Kanye still spends on Kim, changes her wardrobe, pays for some of her trips round the globe, even though she's successful in her business.

That's just one example I know of.

So if u need an independent woman , don't think u wont take her for trips, Buy her gifts sometimes. Don't think you will just tie your money around your waist with padlock! . Both of u would have to spend wisely on each other. All independent women want their men to share with them, when spending. Especially if the man is working. Don't expect her to use her money alone to prepare meals and buy B-Day and Valentine gifts for u. While u seat back and smile like a Cheshire cat.
It's mutual spending. Or else it won't last.

victorian:
I hope you will meet the kind of Independent lady you are looking for.

Note: Kanye still spends on Kim, changes her wardrobe, pays for some of her trips round the globe, even though she's successful in her business.

That's just one example I know of.

So if u need an independent woman , don't think u wont take her for trips, Buy her gifts sometimes. Don't think you will just tie your money around your waist with padlock! . Both of u would have to spend wisely on each other. All independent women want their men to share with them, when spending. Especially if the man is working. Don't expect her to use her money alone to prepare meals and buy B-Day and Valentine gifts for u. While u seat back and smile like a Cheshire cat.
It's mutual spending. Or else it won't last.

You got me wrong, I never say I won't spend on her rather it should be mutual. What you just described is the the kind of relationship am praying for. Some of Nigeria girls no work abeg, you will send airtime for a girl and she will flash you to thank you

agbonkamen:
that is to say your dick get hard whenever you see successful women I see

Exactly, and I advice all my sisters to be hardworking too. That's the only way a man can value and admire you more. But you are funny sha

ebube123:


You got me wrong, I never say I won't spend on her rather it should be mutual. What you just described is the the kind of relationship am praying for. Some of Nigeria girls no work abeg, you will send airtime for a girl and she will flash you to thank you

Oh OK, that's perfect then.

It's good for both couples to share what they have between themselves, It increases the intimate bond. You don't need those kind of girls who flash after sending credit. Nope u don't need such.

Best of luck!


Also indicate the age bracket, u prefer.

victorian:









Oh OK, that's perfect then.

It's good for both couples to share what they have between themselves, It increases the intimate bond. You don't need those kind of girls who flash after sending credit. Nope u don't need such.

Best of luck!


Also indicate the age bracket, u prefer.

The bracket is 22-29 years, I don't like small girls. I need someone that's matured enough to take best decisions in my absence. Thanks

ebube123:


Lol... Are u experiencing the same thing with me? If I were a woman capturing a man's would be so easy but they don't just know men this days want a hardworking and successful women too. Anyway, I will inform when I finally succeed.

Guy, no babe wan suffer ooo.......so they always go for already made.....

press005:


Guy, no babe wan suffer ooo.......so they always go for already made.....

Even the already made men this days go for hardworking lady. Gone are those years you used to hear about house wife nobody does that again, everyone needs a helping hands.

ebube123:


Even the already made men this days go for hardworking lady. Gone are those years you used to hear about house wife nobody does that again, everyone needs a helping hands.

true shaaa

op show us your pics

Aldolase:
op show us your pics

before you apply?? �

op upload your pic and drop your watsapp contact so they can apply.....we need more nairaland marriages

Aldolase:
op show us your pics

show ur own pix too

ebube123:


You got me wrong, I never say I won't spend on her rather it should be mutual. What you just described is the the kind of relationship am praying for. Some of Nigeria girls no work abeg, you will send airtime for a girl and she will flash you to thank you

d fact dat u re always meeting d wrong ones does not mean ladies re dependent. I always tell my frwnds 2 always go 4 essence nd not d looks, but dey will always prefer slay Queens,

But setting up a gud business for ur wife 2 b will not cost u ur whole life, rather it will put an end 2 her dependence, we'll need backbone in 1 way or d other. Abi person Neva help u b4?. All dis stingy guys wey full nairaland

Aldolase:
op show us your pics

Hmmm... I can't show my picture here but you can pm me so we can get to know more about ourselves. Please I love good looking girl and must be fair in complexion.

fancy4eve:
d fact dat u re always meeting d wrong ones does not mean ladies re dependent. I always tell my frwnds 2 always go 4 essence nd not d looks, but dey will always prefer slay Queens,

But setting up a gud business for ur wife 2 b will not cost u ur whole life, rather it will put an end 2 her dependence, we'll need backbone in 1 way or d other. Abi person Neva help u b4?. All dis stingy guys wey full nairaland

Hi, if u read what I wrote well you could have seen where I said some Nigerian girls, for Christ's sake I can't refer to all girls since I have sisters and female friends too. For your information am not stingy and you can't advice your brother too to waste his money on some lazy girls that won't add any value to his life.

ebube123:


The bracket is 22-29 years, I don't like small girls. I need someone that's matured enough to take best decisions in my absence. Thanks

marry Victorian na. she's a single 35yrs old fashion designer looking for husband. She's rich too. So Oga, na style she dey use apply but you no get the code