Dear Jzhane,

My girlfriend has serious trust issues. I have tried to accommodate her issues but it looks like this might be the end of our relationship. However,I confided in colleague who thinks that I should be patient and give i more time before making a decision.

I met Anabel last year. She had just ended her four years relationship with a guy who cheated on her. It took a while to convince her that I was real. I liked her alot cos she is very beautiful,kind and homely. Some would consider her wife material,I do too. She is the most responsible girl I ever dated. She prays alot,a very good cook and my folks really like her.


But she wants to know every female around me. If any lady comments that my facebook pictures are fine,she begins to troll them. I have had to sit with her and talked to her several times about her trust issues. When I do,she cries and says its as a result of the hurt she experienced in the past relationship she had. She always promises to work on herself but it looks like she is not working hard enough.

Because of her issues,when I recently chatted with my ex who just wished me happy new month. I didnt even think it would ever be an issue but as usual now,my babe just went off ,demanding.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/to-break-up-or-not-to-break-up-she-wont-let-go-of-the-past/

My advice is if you cant sort it out now, quit the relationship.

Samuelgr8:
Dear Jzhane,

My girlfriend has serious trust issues. I have tried to accommodate her issues but it looks like this might be the end of our relationship. However,I confided in colleague who thinks that I should be patient and give i more time before making a decision.

I met Anabel last year. She had just ended her four years relationship with a guy who cheated on her. It took a while to convince her that I was real. I liked her alot cos she is very beautiful,kind and homely. Some would consider her wife material,I do too. She is the most responsible girl I ever dated. She prays alot,a very good cook and my folks really like her.


But she wants to know every female around me. If any lady comments that my facebook pictures are fine,she begins to troll them. I have had to sit with her and talked to her several times about her trust issues. When I do,she cries and says its as a result of the hurt she experienced in the past relationship she had. She always promises to work on herself but it looks like she is not working hard enough.

Because of her issues,when I recently chatted with my ex who just wished me happy new month. I didnt even think it would ever be an issue but as usual now,my babe just went off ,demanding.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/to-break-up-or-not-to-break-up-she-wont-let-go-of-the-past/

Gbam!!!

Kumar4india:
My advice is if you cant sort it out now, quit the relationship.

Yes ohhh. Break up is better than divorce

Samuelgr8:
Gbam!!!

Oh

Hmm

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OP, not that the girl doesn't trust u o, she is still nursing the wounds of the past relationship.
Please help her overcome her past by assuring her she's the love u desire always.
From all u said above, u didn't talk about her engaging in violence instead she always cry.

I would have said break up if she was violent, but I don't think her issue is serious. She's already attached to u and she is afraid of going through heart break all over again.

Don't break up with her bros, try to make her understand that u are serious with her. She wants u to keep assuring her.

Jjh