kaze4blues:
I met a babe recently. she has a bf according to her. But we have been getting unusually closer lately.

She does things for me such as cleaning my house and I also send her to buy foodstuffs for me. Yet she claims she's in a relationship with another guy. I've tried getting intimate with her a couple of times with little resistance from her.

This whole scenario gets me confused. What does the babe actually want? At times she claims her bf knows about me even when she comes to my house.

What do you think guys??

Bodmas94:
Where's harddon please??

tooawesome:

Dude has realized his skills are Ineffective and a learner

tooawesome:

Dude has realized his skills are Ineffective and a learner

Bodmas94:


No I believe he's being busy...... He's not going to abandon this ship

magikalz:
Add me, add me everywhere yet the group is as quiet as a grave yard. Only a handful of people making their presence known so far.....

Introduce yourself and tell us what you do in the group. Let's know ourselves a bit.

DavidTheGeek:

magikalz What's up in the group? Is it lively now?

magikalz:

To an extent, yeah.

funkmrflexx:
gurus in the house. I've been using drills I learnt here in chyking one girl. she's responsive but she says I'm too proud. I recently told her and know she misses me and I'll make time for her during the week. she then told me if I ever want to see her I'll have to be humble and admit I miss her and want to see her. I've already crossed my mind not to do something like that. i told her the last girl I told I missed out of happiness nearly use gutter to do swimming pool. she was just laughing and said I should just admit I like her. I told her she was just using reverse psychology. how do I handle the meeting part cus I'm never telling her I miss her and want to see her .

urgent reply needed

She wants to feel like she has some sort of power in the relationship. You're acting like a boss so she wants to humble you and show you she's tough too.

Don't allow her.

Use humour to defuse things and then tone down your cockiness a little.

There's nothing wrong in telling a girl you miss her and want to see her AS LONG AS YOU DO IT ON YOUR OWN TERMS and SAY IT WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE A COČK ON HEAT.

You can send her a text like this: One of the characters in the cartoon my lil cousin is watching reminds me of your big cheeks You know what, i've missed your smile. Let's do something crazy on Sunday. What time would you be free? Let's meet at [A VENUE/YOUR PLACE].

Go out and meet other girls so this girl wouldn't occupy your mind.

Whatever you do, don't succumb to her petty antics. Don't beg her for a meeting. Have the mindset that you're a fun guy and it's her loss if she doesn't get to see you.

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damilare96:
wecome back bro

Lionpikin:
Welcome back boss, but what about the blog？

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krissconnect:
Pls guys help. I have this gal who caught my eye since last year. She keeps passing my office like once every week to get something and each time she passed, we alwes locked eyes. I'm not convincingly saying she's in love with me, no! I know gals are unpredictable somtyms, but I knw when someone is interested. But cos of the unpredictability of gals, ive not bn able to meet her and talk to her cos am afraid of bn shamed in public. Pls how do I go about this cos I cant continue just staring at her each time she passes.

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DavidTheGeek:



Next time you see her, walk up to her and say something. Say anything other than a compliment (DON'T COMPLIMENT HER).

DavidTheGeek:

Look who's back!
Double DON!

HARDDON:


DTG!
You speak my mind most times but the finishing touch just needs some sleek oiling.

Case in point, could you give him ample ideas ( as I always do), on the Line of Note ( LON) to drop when next he sees her?
How should he kick off the convo knowing fully well that it has the potential of making or marring their bond flow?

HARDDON:


Missed me? Ya, he did!

Ehmm, don't count on it though, I might just pop off again!

DavidTheGeek:

He: Hi, *pause-and-looks-at-her-in-a-funny-way* you know what, i'm tired of seeing you pass by without saying hi. I'm David, what's your name?

She: Genevieve

He: So Genevieve are you married?

She: *surprised-look* No, I'm not. Why do you ask?

He: Oh! I see. So that's why you've been eyeing me all this while huh? You want to kidnap me and marry me huh? *smiling* I cover myself with the blood.

She: *Laughs and denies wanting to kidnap him*

He: *Teases-her-more/gives-her-a-nickname(My by-force Wife)/ask-questions-based-on-her-answer*
............

JhyMedex:


Ah...Maths on top woman matter..?....

Tanx boss 4 d advice bt d meal has already bn served and consumed!..

Was deli!!

HARDDON:


Yet to make up my mind about this....
Another one

DavidTheGeek:

He: Hi, *pause-and-looks-at-her-in-a-funny-way* you know what, i'm tired of seeing you pass by without saying hi. I'm David, what's your name?

She: Genevieve

He: So Genevieve are you married?

She: *surprised-look* No, I'm not. Why do you ask?

He: Oh! I see. So that's why you've been eyeing me all this while huh? You want to kidnap me and marry me huh? *smiling* I cover myself with the blood.

She: *Laughs and denies wanting to kidnap him*

He: *Teases-her-more/gives-her-a-nickname(My by-force Wife)/ask-questions-based-on-her-answer*
............

LivingFree:

In 4 days
Bless her

LivingFree:


'My By force' what I would've walked away after names were exchanged...

Natural is sexy, ask your friend up there who got ass in 4 days... Say less it's so sexy! Women work themselves up for you if your 'packing' the less you say the better but I don't know what you look like... so

You? LivingFree? You would have loved it and called him "My by force husband"

You can tell a girl she wants to rape you. [DONE]
You can tell her she's the one chasing you. [DONE]

I have seen a guy call a girl "a prostitute".

These are extreme things that should make a girl furious but it didn't/wouldn't.

You can get away with ALMOST anything, as long as you can say it in a funny way.

In this guy's case, "Say less it's so sexy" will NOT work.

Kindly prove me wrong by giving us an example of how he would say less and pull it off.

DavidTheGeek:

The worst she can do is scream or walk out on you and even if she does that, why should you care? 1. She's socially and mentally sick. 2. She's rude. 3. She just missed the opportunity of getting to know a cool guy like you.

That's the mindset.

The funny thing is she wouldn't do any of that. In fact with all the locking of eyes, she's been waiting and wondering why you haven't approached her yet.

Next time you see her, walk up to her and say something. Say anything other than a compliment (DON'T COMPLIMENT HER).

HARDDON:


Yet to make up my mind about this....
Another one