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Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by bebe2(f): 5:20pm On May 02, 2018 |
Mums are human beings. There are good mums and bad mums, unfortunately u got one of the bad ones, I would advice u move away and set urself free from the emotional traumas 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Nazaretha1(m): 5:21pm On May 02, 2018 |
Seriously, I thought they banned codeine, must've been a misconception. ( LuciferChrist: 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by willi926(m): 5:23pm On May 02, 2018 |
Nazaretha1:seriously oo, there was a time I challenged her oo, she asked me is it ur concern. Is it ur child. The woman just carry frustration dey put on top the children head. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Baobab4loan(m): 5:28pm On May 02, 2018 |
Kontinue |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Pavore9: 5:32pm On May 02, 2018 |
willi926: The painful aspect is that most feel that parents have every right to abuse their children and when they turn out dysfunctional they still look for who to blame! Parental abuse is the most difficult to forgive. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Nobody: 5:34pm On May 02, 2018 |
Some persons are busy insulting the lady. It is not necessary. You may not have an idea of what she passed through unless you were in her shoes. Your mum or mine may be good. There are people out there, even on Nairaland that prefer the devil to their mum. Not every woman with a child deserves to be called a mother. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Eagba(m): 5:36pm On May 02, 2018 |
Why is it that uncaring parents demand the most from their children later in life? 8 Likes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 02, 2018 |
Abuse is not discipline. 'Spare the rod and spoil the child' is an ineffective, outdated, archaic, and violent method of child raising. You might think you are helping, not knowing you are destroying you child emotionally. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by mitchyy(f): 5:47pm On May 02, 2018 |
If you didn't grow up with a VERY abusive parent, you wouldn't fully understand and feel her pain. The emotional scars never leave you... There is a big difference between discipline and outright abuse. What would you say about a teenager in University asking her dad for school fees and he angrily says she should go and sleep with men to get money, simply because he is quarreling with their mother? Now that the lady has hustled her way through school by herself, taking up menial jobs and amounted to something good in life, he expects her to still recognize him as her father. That is just the least compared to the physical and mental abuse the lady has gone through in her so-called father's hands. The scars on her body tell the story. And no, she wasn't a stubborn child. People have no idea how abusive some parents can be. And a lot of them don't speak up 8 Likes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 02, 2018 |
carpmam:He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.”. This doesn't mean you must break the head of your child to drive a point. Discipline doesn't amount to death sentence 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by otunbadan(m): 5:49pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed: Are you not ma.d ![]() |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Obason22(m): 5:51pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed:Is like u don't understand English 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by johnsmhelia15(m): 5:53pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed:Abeg c this mumu |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by mechanics(m): 5:57pm On May 02, 2018 |
I feel her pain, she should forgive and forget and delete all that sad memory from her mind. |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Nobody: 5:59pm On May 02, 2018 |
Amagite: My own mother has refused to see or talk to me or her grandkids for over 1 year now. Their offense, their father didn't ring her when she was on vacation in Spain. No one should even bother telling where she's buried after she dies and passes the Fvck away. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by HoodBillionaire: 6:01pm On May 02, 2018 |
i no get hate for my fam im a grown ass man |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Kinggnicole(f): 6:15pm On May 02, 2018 |
carpmam: You are too dumb. Just had to say. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by OkoAnike(m): 6:35pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed: Op, u are wicked... Wish you all the best in your adventures |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Dinieoj(f): 6:35pm On May 02, 2018 |
You are not alone on this, mine was my dad. I wanted to run away but nowhere to run to at a time I thought I was adopted, I wished for a day to be told I wasn't his biological child no way,but today am stronger .Wishing she dies is too much. |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by theunnamed: 6:36pm On May 02, 2018 |
Obason22: The day her mom kicked her was the day she started her monthly flow, so her mom is responsible for making her a woman... All these village witches are wise sometimes 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by theunnamed: 6:37pm On May 02, 2018 |
OkoAnike: Did you even read the story sef? |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by theunnamed: 6:38pm On May 02, 2018 |
Bidobado: You are just ranting ni It is you that will cry the most when the time comes |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by OkoAnike(m): 6:39pm On May 02, 2018 |
carpmam: Even to her grand children that are mentally unbalance now... Ur comment is a wicked one 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Martinez19(m): 6:41pm On May 02, 2018 |
carpmam: ![]() 1 Like
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Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by OkoAnike(m): 6:41pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed: I did... Are you aware of the status of her grand children, they are mentally unbalance courtesy of the special mother. I don't know what to say again... It's well. |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Adefemiaderoju1: 6:45pm On May 02, 2018 |
Obviously your mum is cruel but I will advise you to forgive her and move on because she's still your mother |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Martinez19(m): 6:46pm On May 02, 2018 |
mitchyy:Abuse is traumatic and the abuser approaching the abused as if nothing happened is also traumatic. I too have been a victim of abuse. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by crazybee069(m): 6:48pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed:Abeg see idiot o |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by kmaster007: 6:49pm On May 02, 2018 |
bad child |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by Sexyolori(f): 7:02pm On May 02, 2018 |
carpmam:Just Shut up if u dnt have something sensible 2 say. |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by oglalasioux(m): 7:05pm On May 02, 2018 |
theunnamed: You had love and that's why you won't understand. Why give birth to a child you enjoy being cruel to? She owes no gratitude to the monster mother. My mother is worse so I understand. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom's Death Would Be A Relief To Me, She Hurt Me A Lot - South African Lady by ChykeBivins(m): 7:13pm On May 02, 2018 |
I emphatise with you.. Try and picture her in those scenarios she explained..It must have been hell |
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