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Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 7:59am On May 04, 2018 |
edoman2016:Exactly. Many African ladies interpreted feminism as being belligerent and arrogant to men. Other factors are double dating for money and selfish and greedy attitude of many ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by pressplay411(m): 8:01am On May 04, 2018 |
Provabz: Cos mankind is lost. We've so deviated from God's plan. There's no limit to the moral and social decadence that ensues. Homosexuality, Transexuality, Bestiality, Terrorism, etc. "Baby Mama-rism" is what bothers you?? We have a lot of repenting to do lest we self-destruct. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:02am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Morning dear Longtime |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:05am On May 04, 2018 |
chillychill: You spoke well all through the thread, don't let anyone play mind games with you that you hate your fellow ladies.God blessyou for speaking the truth and the parents that raised you, leave the others to turn their relationships/marriage to battle ground, their end is certain and predictable. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:07am On May 04, 2018 |
Arondizuogu:It depends on your definition of equal rights. A man did not spend his money, time and energy to marry a lady to come and drag right up and down with him while he is taking responsibility of her upkeep or will gladly do if she can't. Those white ladies who invented feminism etc take responsibilities of expenses right from the dating process, even can house and polish even Africans just to be their wife. Also a ship cant have two captains. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Conceptman: 8:11am On May 04, 2018 |
Once they start having a side-bobo their husband becomes an irritating thing to them especially when one man is out there telling those women how beautiful they still look even after childbirth, they start developing stupid feelings, they start losing respect for their husband and boom they run out of their matrimonial homes and slay with their side-bobo. When a woman does not know her limit with men in her marriage, Problem kicks in |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Plusstreet(m): 8:14am On May 04, 2018 |
ImaIma1:OK.l understand. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:17am On May 04, 2018 |
greiboy:No see,Hope you are doing great? |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:18am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred:Same way two heads are better than one.A captain in a ship earns the post and is not given because of the gender he/she came with. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:19am On May 04, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Omg... you don't even comment for the sake of communication, you comment to shine Why do you need approval from strangers? All these monikers and all you do is spew nonsense for likes Personal question... Did your aunties 'touch' you as a kid? Or do you have the Oedopus complex Nah... you couldn't make it in the UK... you would get sold for parts. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:20am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: You just said it all with this comment " Many African ladies interpreted feminism as being belligerent and arrogant to men. Other factors are double dating for money and selfish and greedy attitude of many ladies " It is extreme bad luck to cross paths with many of these kinds of ladies we see frolicking around thesedays 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:22am On May 04, 2018 |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:23am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: You just typified what many men have been saying on this thread with this part " A captain in a ship earns the post ". Why earned? Why settle in a relationship where you can't respect freely? You're posturing, and locked in combative mode even without a fight? This is the belligerent and contentious culture permeating the minds of many ladies that makes them remain single. Many of you folks just don't understand what a man's inner soul yearns for, i feel sorry for you. No one licks honey and spits it out, the same way no sane man will dump a good lady,failed relationships can be grossly attributed to bad character of the female no matter what anyone says. Even God in his infinite wisdom through Solomon clearly states " A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish one tears it down " negative vibes and energy like the one that emanates from it should be earned will only push you into divorce. If you can't respect a man without a basis for it, remain single, it's not by force to accept proposals. Chillychill, what do you think about this? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:26am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:A captain in this case is earned by who paid bride price first and foremost. Then, mostly the man older than the wife so why should that respect for a senior just die because ge married. Also house/rent etc are responsibilities of the man. Hence the captain. Why should a woman be the captain how did they earn it? |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Adamummya(f): 8:26am On May 04, 2018 |
Ifakiland: senseless ...post |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:28am On May 04, 2018 |
greiboy:Good. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:29am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:Unfortunately, there are much more like that than not and is evidenced by high baby mama rate. Maybe its the way they are raised this day. Little advise for females by their parents they learn from friends and social network. Mostly after they become baby mamas, they get sense and.....CHANGE. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:33am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:First of all don't try to bring in the words of an holybook in rational discussions.Secondly some good women have not gotten the reward you highlighted.Speak for yourself sir you are not every man and it all varies.I don't like to be have relationship with people where one person is doing it all be it giving or receiving so I prefer it goes both ways and we do it together it is called an egalitarian relationship.You earn what you get from me simple and short. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:34am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: It's a sad tale of following complicated and sophisticated routes that only causes problem, pain and trauma and changing when it's too late. Character is better developed through adolescence and adulthood, which is long enough to produce good character, that no sane man can resist, we await their bitter tales as they age in the next few years 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by chillychill(f): 8:35am On May 04, 2018 |
cyrilamx: Lol am kinda use to dose kind of ladies at work n everywhere else. Thanks though |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:38am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Look at such energetic release, typical of the kinds of women who are combative even when there's no fight. " rational discussions " atypical of a lawyer, no wonder most female lawyers remain miserable and sorrowful, you see everything through the mould that has formed in your mind in your career training. Like they say, if you see every problem as a nail, you're default response is to bring out the hammer. Learn how to communicative without needless posturing or being on a combative posture, better a word communicated with peace than through strife,you are a typical representative of the ladies this thread addresses 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:38am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred:Oh really have you not heard of women footing the bills in the house and taking on financial responsibilities or is it because they don't come online to brag?Who paid the brideprice not all families do that and besides some women assist in doing such so your argument is not it.Now what if the woman is older does she not deserve respect as well or is it only associated with a joystick? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Adamummya(f): 8:39am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb: the person you quoted is talking trash.....I have been there ..but what did I get in return after all submission ? twas beating even with pregnancy and after birthing, verbal abuse and emotional abuse , and in this case u expect me to remain with such abusive partner ? I ran away ..now I am single mum..I've got nothing to be ashamed of |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by chillychill(f): 8:41am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb: Play mind games with me kee.." Won kere" I had said my mind Dere is nothing wrong with what I said everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Na Dere wahala b dat make dem Dey do 50_50 with Dere husband like u said "their end is certain and predictable ". Thanks |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:41am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:Maybe its the way they are raised this day. Little advise for females by their parents for them to be humble and faithful in relationship highest advice from parents is for them to get a handsome rich educated man. They how they learn from friends and social network. So what a girl knows and acts on depends on what friends or social network she lands or finds herself in. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:42am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:Thanks for the advise and try not to paint all women lawyers as such not all aegis miserable or sorrowful it necessarily has nothing to do with one's career or a gender thing.And also channel your advise to yourself actions speak louder than words have a love day sir. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:42am On May 04, 2018 |
Adamummya: Madam, you did the right thing, some people don't deserve goodness, never pin the fault on yourself. Treat some people nicely, you end with psychological abuse, their normal is maltreatment, that's the situation they grew up in and that's what they pass down. I'm sorry my dear. But then, you can't disagree that in a normal scenario, good character from a lady, and respect and love for the wife produces a harmonious home. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by ruffDiamond: 8:43am On May 04, 2018 |
I have one as friend whose son is almost a teen now..I discovered she a stubborn streak and unnecessarily argumentative and opinionated for a gal that's even uneducated,that's a lot of baggage.. I have le |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:45am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:How many % of marriages do we have wifes older than husbands, wifes house the man and wife pay (groom) price not the man?. Talk reality. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by ImaIma1(f): 8:46am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: What about a case where they both spent equal amount for the marriage ceremony or that the lady even brought most of the money...can she drag rights with him then? Marriage is not actually about following set principles or living by the book. Both parties need to love and respect each other and find a model that works for them. Upbringing also affects marriage. A man that was brought up in a home where his mum had no say will shut down his wife when she tries to speak. People need to shine their eye and look at the person they are marrying...if they can work together. Women should not marry a guy they cannot respect. Men and women are joint heirs and equal in God's eyes but one still has to submit to the other. One is the head and one is the neck. The neck and head never fight for control. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 8:47am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: It will be better you take heed to the advice you read on this thread now that the day is young, you're on a path that only leads to sorrow down the line. I've met hundreds of unhappy women and all had the time to work on themselves while they were young but refused, i hope you'll listen. I won't take back my word about " female lawyers ", it's how it is. Even the ones that are not lawyers that are contentious are single and miserable not to talk about female lawyers 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by chillychill(f): 8:49am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: U no nothing girl,u ready don't know anything : |
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