edoman2016:
Feminism is the major reason for increase in single mothers in our society. Most ladies nowadays have bad attitude and not ready to be submissive to their husbands. The resulting effect is divorce that produces single mothers.

Provabz:
Please I've this thing that have been bothering me and I'll like the house to help me with some reasonable answers..
'Why do we have a lot of single mothers in our current society '?
Mods Abeg push to front page for better answers thanks

Ladyhippolyta88:
O I kind of thought you were donstn18 or greioy I didn't know it was you prech good night.

chillychill:



You just said my mind... U'll see dem arguing with you now cos dey it's d true. Y would a female think she has equal rights with her husband

Arondizuogu:


Why won't she have equal rights with the husband? Is she not a human being? Didn't she come out of her mother's vagina? Na mouth dem take vomit am?
The problem is you lots don't understand the meaning of feminism. Men and women are born equal unto God and man. Women might not be physically stronger than men per say, but believe me they are all round stronger than men.

ImaIma1:


He talked about the man loving the woman. And you know how a man who lives behaves...

greiboy:
Morning dear
Longtime

princfred:
It depends on your definition of equal rights. A man did not spend his money, time and energy to have a right dragging wife while taking responsibility of her upkeep. Those white ladies who invented feminism etc take responsibilities of expenses right from the dating process, even can house and polish even Africans just to be their wife. Also a ship cant have two captains.

Hanseel1:


in which country? Nigeria?

Chai....

No man can kick his wife out of his house anyhow in Nigeria and retain children.. that's just a lie




OK.. is that why the woman will take his house and money smh...

Godforbid I ever travel to the UK again before one demon falsely accuse me of assault or sexual harassment..

Trust UK ladies at your own peril

princfred:
Exactly.
Many African ladies interpreted feminism as being belligerent and arrogant to men. Other factors are double dating for money and selfish and greedy attitude of many ladies.

Ladyhippolyta88:
No see,Hope you are doing great?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Same way two heads are better than one.A captain in a ship earns the post and is not given because of the gender he/she came with.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Same way two heads are better than one.A captain in a ship earns the post and is not given because of the gender he/she came with.

Ifakiland:
The funny part is after opening pussy for one useless dude finish and birthing his baby, they start looking for a cool headed mr nice Dey will camp with to takia of dem and d baby....same mr nice Dey left to go and fork useless dude...single moms are just fork tools jare...noting more.

greiboy:
I am doing great thanks
How is everything? Sch?

kunleweb:



You just said it all with this comment " Many African ladies interpreted feminism as being belligerent and arrogant to men. Other factors are double dating for money and selfish and greedy attitude of many ladies " It is extreme bad luck to cross paths with many of these kinds of ladies we see frolicking around thesedays

kunleweb:



You just typified what many men have been saying on this thread with this part " A captain in a ship earns the post ". Why earned? Why settle in a relationship where you can't respect freely? You're posturing, and locked in combative mode even without a fight? This is the belligerent and contentious culture permeating the minds of many ladies that makes them remain single. Many of you folks just don't understand what a man's inner soul yearns for, i feel sorry for you.


No one licks honey and spits it out, the same way no sane man will dump a good lady,failed relationships can be grossly attributed to bad character of the female no matter what anyone says. Even God in his infinite wisdom through Solomon clearly states " A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish one tears it down " negative vibes and energy like the one that emanates from it should be earned will only push you into divorce. If you can't respect a man without a basis for it, remain single, it's not by force to accept proposals.


Chillychill, what do you think about this?

princfred:
Unfortunately, there are much more like that than not and is evidenced by high baby mama rate.Mostly after they become baby mamas, they get sense and.....CHANGE.

cyrilamx:
Bae, I hv been following your comments on issues here on NI and you hv the penchant of hitting your fellow ladies below the belt when it comes to societal values. Even your comment in response to lady who tried to excused a muderous lawyer and wife was apt and upper cut. I hope they won't call for your head with the guillotine sword

Ladyhippolyta88:
First of all don't try to bring in the words of an holybook in rational discussions.Secondly some good women have not gotten the reward you highlighted.Speak for yourself sir you are not every man and it all varies.I don't like to be have relationship with people where one person is doing it all be it giving or receiving so I prefer it goes both ways and we do it together it is called an egalitarian relationship.You earn what you get from me simple and short.

princfred:
A captain in this case is earned by who paid bride price first and foremost. Then, mostly the man older than the wife so why should that respect for a senior just die because ge married. Also house/rent etc are responsibilities of the man. Hence the captain. Why should a woman be the captain how did they earn it?

kunleweb:





You spoke well all through the thread, don't let anyone play mind games with you that you hate your fellow ladies.God blessyou for speaking the truth and the parents that raised you, leave the others to turn their relationships/marriage to battle ground, their end is certain and predictable.

kunleweb:





You spoke well all through the thread, don't let anyone play mind games with you that you hate your fellow ladies.God blessyou for speaking the truth and the parents that raised you, leave the others to turn their relationships/marriage to battle ground, their end is certain and predictable.

kunleweb:



It's a sad tale of following complicated and sophisticated routes that only causes problem, pain and trauma and changing when it's too late. Character is better developed through adolescence and adulthood, which is long enough to produce good character, that no sane man can resist, we await their bitter tales as they age in the next few years

kunleweb:



Look at such energetic release, typical of the kinds of women who are combative even when there's no fight. " rational discussions " atypical of a lawyer, no wonder most female lawyers remain miserable and sorrowful, you see everything through the mould that has formed in your mind in your career training. Like they say, if you see every problem as a nail, you're default response is to bring out the hammer. Learn how to communicative without needless posturing or being on a combative posture, better a word communicated with peace than through strife,you are a typical representative of the ladies this thread addresses

Adamummya:


the person you quoted is talking trash.....I have been there ..but what did I get in return after all submission ? twas beating even with pregnancy and after birthing, verbal abuse and emotional abuse , and in this case u expect me to remain with such abusive partner ?
I ran away ..now I a single mum..I've got nothing to be ashamed with

Ladyhippolyta88:
Oh really have you not heard of women footing the bills in the house and taking on financial responsibilities or is it because they don't come online to brag?Who paid the brideprice not all families do that and besides some women assist in doing such so your argument is not it.Now what if the woman is older does she not deserve respect as well or is it only associated with a joystick?

princfred:
It depends on your definition of equal rights. A man did not spend his money, time and energy to marry a lady to come and drag right up and down with him while taking responsibility of her upkeep. Those white ladies who invented feminism etc take responsibilities of expenses right from the dating process, even can house and polish even Africans just to be their wife. Also a ship cant have two captains.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Thanks for the advise and try not to paint all women lawyers as such not all aegis miserable or sorrowful it necessarily has nothing to do with one's career or a gender thing.And also channel your advise to yourself actions speak louder than words have a love day sir.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Maybe because she is a human being and has constitutional rights.Mind you not every relationship is stereotypically defined some people do practice egalitarian relationships.Neyoor the quote applies to you.