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Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:16am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb: Men do the bolded and still expect to be respected. It is earned by being respectful. You get what you give. If a man doesn't show me respect then I won't give him respect. You want a man respected on the grounds that he is a man! I can't do that. I don't respect for the sake of it. I don't do that with anyone! If a pensioner disrespects me I will tell them where to go! Respect is earned! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by laudate: 9:17am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:There are also a lot of unhappy, married female professionals....so what is your point? |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:17am On May 04, 2018 |
chillychill: you're equal to your husband!! stop deceiving yourself Only lazy women will say they aren't equal to their husbands. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 9:17am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: The pre-conditioning is from a combative mental posture that encapsulates arrogance, belligerence, contentiousness, needless argumentativeness , insolence and a lot more. They simply can't manage been successful and been of exceptional character at the same time. All these negative attributes no matter how educated a lady maybe makes her worse than an educated soul, what is education without character refinement? Cc: Chillychill 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:19am On May 04, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Ask yourself that question, you hold that answer. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Kevwell: 9:20am On May 04, 2018 |
Laysmt001: You forgot, "They also want to create problems in home" |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:20am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:Its the bane of the African woman. Thats why i tell guys that they cant be sure of an Africans womans love unless she is richer or more powerful than him. Thats how a man will be housing, feeding and taking care of a woman for a long time only fir her to make it and start claiming right up and down. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:21am On May 04, 2018 |
laudate: To take responsibility and to advise each other on how to be better husbands never crosses their mind... but how to change and control women is on the top of their agenda Respect a man without a basis, my stretchmarked ass 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 9:21am On May 04, 2018 |
LivingFree: If a lady has to keep proving herself to earn love then she's not loved. It's also the case with respect. Listen my lady, if you have to beg me to date you, then we have a crisis at hand, in love, respect, loving, admiration all comes without conditions. Conditions strife happiness, peace, joy in relationships. Ask anyone that constantly make permutations sets rules, and reviews them like it's a KPI, they're never genuinely happy, cause happiness isn't meant to be hinged on rules,but upon liberty and expression of one's soul. Respect and submissiveness isn't slavery or controlling a woman, feminism preaches it. I like to agree we disagree on this subject but it's cool, to each one according to his and her beliefs. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:22am On May 04, 2018 |
laudate: Young lady.. kindly stop disturbing my mentions |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:23am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:Not really religious but a good bible student.You are right and I acknowledged that time would tell.Also know that views changes from time to time.Your perception and my perception cannot be the same even outside social media and we focus on on own realities going conservative may work for A and not for B like wise other ideologies theories and beliefs.I believe we should carve out visions for ourselves life itself is a risk so we may lose some and win some when we fail we should not lose hope but work harder to repeat such mistakes.Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:23am On May 04, 2018 |
LivingFree: Thanks for your time. Now, kindly stop quoting me. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Kevwell: 9:25am On May 04, 2018 |
Hanseel1: You are never EQUAL to your husband. You only FEEL equal because of some so-called constitutional law or rights. Government now governing another man's marriage. ����� |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:25am On May 04, 2018 |
LivingFree:If you respect a man just because he pays the bills i sorry for that man if something happens in his life and he cant pay. And i sorry for you if the man finds out that your respect is based only on the fact he pays the bills cuz he will bail before anything happens to him that may affect him paying the bills. From the day he knows, he will only see you as pay as you go not wife. And that is the reason why there are so many baby mamas. Even my brother almost made the wife a baby mama just for this orientation last year. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 9:26am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: But against these there are no rules, joy, peace, happiness, love, goodness, meekness, being nice, good, Godly, righteous has more gains, or rather has no downsides, i've never heard anyone dying from being good. Let's practice the habit of being good, we're the beneficiaries of our practice down the line my lady. As you lawyers say, i put it to you, we make ourselves of inestimable value when we practice these things and will attract , rather men will die to keep women with such qualities, take it to the bank and deposit it. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:26am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb: You would make a great politician So, I should respect even when I am disrespected because to put such conditions on respect is what So, I should show love when I receive heartache because to put conditions on love is what All I am saying is all things are mutual and so is respect and love and one doesn't get those without the conditions ( give and take) I feel we are saying the same thing in different ways because I agree with 85% of what you say but I still believe love and respect are earned and only a fool gives it out for free... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:27am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred:Hahahaha they always know how to use religion to drive their narrative. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 9:27am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: It's conditional, the day that man experiences a network failure, i pity such a man. These people have programmed themselves to vacillate and function by the external factors of life and have not conditioned themselves on how to behave first internally,and then make the most out of any situations they find themselves |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by laudate: 9:28am On May 04, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Who are you referring to as a lady? Are you referring to yourself? You know nothing about my gender, o! |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:28am On May 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Not just religion but discard the Bible to your own peril. Not for my sake for yours . Its the book with instructions for a good life. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:29am On May 04, 2018 |
“tell them to keep their love, because ,sadly, while you love to be loved, you shouldn't accept such love if it comes with conditions.” If someone will only love you if you accept certain conditions tell him/her to keep his/her love". Only the civilized and sensible ones are gonna understand this quote. A word is enough for the wise. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:29am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: Prince, you've lost me... I never said any of those things, in fact I said the opposite. It was your fellow man who demanded love and respect for paying the bills. I said I can pay my own bills... |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:30am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:Not yet a lawyer but studying or aspiring to be one.An last the I checked I am a good girl and such good qualities is a human attribute and not a woman's attribute. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:30am On May 04, 2018 |
Hanseel1: It's you that jumps on people's mentions. I never quote you. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:31am On May 04, 2018 |
kunleweb:An this is why many baby mamas abound this day. Every man will go broke or gave financial difficulties somewhere along the line. And if the womans love and respect lies on the mans money then..... |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:32am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred: that's something wrong with Nigerian ladies.. They only respect men because of bills forget about any other stuff. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:33am On May 04, 2018 |
princfred:It is not at my peril dear I don't think I am a Jew.A lot of critical thinkers would counter arguments in your holybook I still read it but I am not inspired by it.No need for arguments on that one.I am not an atheist by the way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by kunleweb: 9:33am On May 04, 2018 |
LivingFree: Why am i loving the vibes you're exuding? I wish you was in my hood, wouldn't mind asking you out on a eat out. Anyways, what i mean is, and the error i see you making is, you have created your responses even before problem arises, even when you should treat scenarios differently appropriating the right responses in the face of circumstances as they come, you don't sound like you have a boo yet but you have a series of how-to-react in the face of challenges, i call this a faulty programming, de-program your mind. Whoever said you was going to end with an abusive partner? It is true that only a fool gives it our for free. But when you've tied the knot, such a person can't be tagged a fool. This is a funny observation good politician. Sounds like the house of commons right? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:33am On May 04, 2018 |
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Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:34am On May 04, 2018 |
laudate: I couldn't even get my mouth around his blatant lie I'm not nigerian so I just replied him 'ok' 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by laudate: 9:35am On May 04, 2018 |
LivingFree: You must be one of the most intelligent babes, I have ever encountered. I have a neighbour, whose husband abandoned her with 3 kids, despite the fact that she was the breadwinner, comforter and pillar of the house. He lost his job, a year after they got married. She would earn money and give it to her husband, who ended up losing everything in get-rich-quick schemes and MMM. She was always forever making excuses for the man, and trying to cover up his mistakes. We all warned her that she had become a doormat, and the chap would walk all over her. She said 'we didn't wish her well.' Okay o. So we kept our mouths, shut. Last last, the man ended up dumping her for a single chic, with a big Merc, and lots of cash. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:35am On May 04, 2018 |
LivingFree:How? You said love and respect must be earned even to the extent of succinctly and subtly advocating that the woman can vigorously purse captainship of the home when she pays the bills. |
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