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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Pat081: 6:57am On May 08, 2018
solasoulmusic:
Which kind of cheap guy would invite a woman for a date and not pay she’s wrong to order lavishly but nawa o and some are even abusing broke girl she like your father met your mother in buckinham parlance lol I said it
U re woman so, u dnt hv to talk like a man . maybe dat is how u too use to do sef is a sin dat d guy hv to take d gal out 4 a date ?a gal dat can eat 11 thousand naira on a date do u think she will make a good wife ?

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by gonkin(m): 6:57am On May 08, 2018
I still get a phobia. Years ago mine was 7k. Luckily i had that cash.

She picked the date, picked the venue. She already ordered even before i arrived. I just go there and saw her having stuff. I just ordered stuff of 1200 for myself and when i wanted to request the bill she told me stuff. I had to tap from extra money i had that im supposed to use for my car's power steering pump replacement. Imagine if i diddnt have that cash.

Some girl are real budget killers. It why till tomorrow im scared of dates. Its why i always carry extra.

Not all girls are like that. Ive been on 2 dates were the girl settled the bill. I dont know why some girl's are so heartless yet they cant do that to their main guy. Bloody sidechick

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by sexdoll: 6:57am On May 08, 2018
lexy2014:
when a lady has manners&home training, u exercise self control, With or without being told what 2do.

exactly my point!!!

I don't have any need whatsoever to remind you to comport yourself.

Are you a baby, a fool or what?! lipsrsealed

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Frankdamaxx(m): 6:57am On May 08, 2018
solasoulmusic:


Lol childish men insult they don’t make points the word took a girl sounds like he did and second it’s a cultural thing not every man is a gentleman I once went to dinner with an ex it was $50 for a meal that was a lot it was the cheapest though on the table and he paid I brought out my card though but he said he’s fine lol story for another day the boy kept remembering about how he paid the money sha I was like nawa o then why did you stop me from paying this was in yankee o but imagine the same scenario why would you ask someone to go to lunch and not speak on who is buying ? They didn’t talk budget and babe went ham if you made clear that everyone buys theirs you will see that she would have adjusted but you don’t embarrass people cause they don’t have yours could run out soon and you may come to need those same people in the end that’s the circle of life look down on no one no condition is permanent

The boy petty she’s lucky she can still go on another date with a real gentleman

How can you write all this without punctuation? Jeez..

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Sotland: 6:59am On May 08, 2018
solasoulmusic:
Which kind of cheap guy would invite a woman for a date and not pay she’s wrong to order lavishly but nawa o and some are even abusing broke girl she like your father met your mother in buckinham parlance lol I said it
Birds of feather.. by their foots, they are well known..lol

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by gonkin(m): 6:59am On May 08, 2018
Angelicka:
An online user shared this post of how he took a girl out on a date and left her stranded because she couldn't pay for her bills.

See screenshots of what he wrote below:

http://www.royaloya.com/2018/05/guy-left-his-date-stranded-after-she.html

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by frankmoney(m): 6:59am On May 08, 2018
solasoulmusic:


Lol childish men insult they don’t make points the word took a girl sounds like he did and second it’s a cultural thing not every man is a gentleman I once went to dinner with an ex it was $50 for a meal that was a lot it was the cheapest though on the table and he paid I brought out my card though but he said he’s fine lol story for another day the boy kept remembering about how he paid the money sha I was like nawa o then why did you stop me from paying this was in yankee o but imagine the same scenario why would you ask someone to go to lunch and not speak on who is buying ? They didn’t talk budget and babe went ham if you made clear that everyone buys theirs you will see that she would have adjusted but you don’t embarrass people cause they don’t have yours could run out soon and you may come to need those same people in the end that’s the circle of life look down on no one no condition is permanent

The boy petty she’s lucky she can still go on another date with a real gentleman
and you think you have made sense

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Aldebaran(m): 6:59am On May 08, 2018
Hanseel1:


as expected cheesy cheesy
grin

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Caseywilliams(m): 6:59am On May 08, 2018
Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...
is not childishness mbok
call a spade a spade
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 7:00am On May 08, 2018
Babe sat down in an eatery and ate her future without remorse. Some one complained about a lady he took out and wanted to propose to and wen der got der she ordered for fish Ate it all then drank two bottles of big stout and ordered for take away. Dude and his friend ate one and couldn't finish it. Dude put his ring inside his pocket and went home, traveled back to abj the next morning. End of marriage plans. Some babes eh.

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by brownhawk: 7:00am On May 08, 2018
Hanseel1:


.........
what was he thinking when he took out an hungry broke girl for a date?
room u can never know some ladies are hungry and broke. I'm currently dealing with one Instagram slay queen who applies makeup for Africa.i never knew her reality until I got closer to her and saw that despite her arrogance and posh claim she's nothing to write home about in terms of self reliance and good behavior

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by lexy2014: 7:02am On May 08, 2018
Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...
so d girl acted maturely?

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by wiloy2k8(m): 7:02am On May 08, 2018
Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

D men dem

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Seun360(m): 7:02am On May 08, 2018
Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense


Oh, its safe to say they are everywhere.

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by colestephan86: 7:03am On May 08, 2018
Angelicka:
An online user shared this post of how he took a girl out on a date and left her stranded because she couldn't pay for her bills.

See screenshots of what he wrote below:

http://www.royaloya.com/2018/05/guy-left-his-date-stranded-after-she.html


i always tell guys never to date broke lazy girls, them no go gree. if sha has nothing doing , dont date her, thats the rule. she will milk you like some netherlands cow. #SheMustBeDoingSomething

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Trippledee(m): 7:04am On May 08, 2018
Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

they want to milk you dry.

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by ceecee0703(m): 7:05am On May 08, 2018
Saintmary:
That's a glutton. But guys, tell them before the date not to over-order. Some of you tell the lady to order anything she wants, leading her into a trap and then complain about it later or hang her out to dry. If you know it's not in your budget, be plain about it.

Sweet heart most ladies aren't really sane, you say make an order what you want not declare for your last supper, imagine 12,000 in one sitting common!

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by tiredoflife(m): 7:05am On May 08, 2018
pocohantas:


Maybe he didn't know. I have gone to occasions and watched well-dressed men and women lose their home-training at the sight of free jollof rice and moin-moin.

The first date should be the responsibility of whoever initiates it.

What is wrong is the girl ordering N11,800 worth of food.
When you're on a date, watch your host.
But if at all he/she insists you order first, keep it simple.
It's a date, not the Last Supper.

The guy only beat her to her game.
Cunny man die, cunny man bury am.

really what is wrong if a girl orders N11400 food
everything is wrong
if its not a posh restaurant where all bills are from the above price
eat maturely
them no swear for am to disgrace her brokeness

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by QuietHammer(m): 7:05am On May 08, 2018
EMMAUGOH:
The guy Bleep up sha... Where was he when the girl was ordering those nonsense...
If this story is true then the guy is suffering from superiority complex, there is no need suffering the poor girl whereas you know how human mind works, she can adjust if he told her to.

She just want to punish the poor girl who is controlled by her crave for lustful appetite. Poverty mentality though.
What nonsense is this one saying?

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by LorDBolton(m): 7:07am On May 08, 2018
Always have your "Go to hell" allowance with you...
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by lexy2014: 7:08am On May 08, 2018
solasoulmusic:


Lol childish men insult they don’t make points the word took a girl sounds like he did and second it’s a cultural thing not every man is a gentleman I once went to dinner with an ex it was $50 for a meal that was a lot it was the cheapest though on the table and he paid I brought out my card though but he said he’s fine lol story for another day the boy kept remembering about how he paid the money sha I was like nawa o then why did you stop me from paying this was in yankee o but imagine the same scenario why would you ask someone to go to lunch and not speak on who is buying ? They didn’t talk budget and babe went ham if you made clear that everyone buys theirs you will see that she would have adjusted but you don’t embarrass people cause they don’t have yours could run out soon and you may come to need those same people in the end that’s the circle of life look down on no one no condition is permanent

The boy petty she’s lucky she can still go on another date with a real gentleman
so her life's ambition will now b 2b going out with men that can pay 4 her meals? Since ur definition of a "real gentleman" is one that pays 4a woman's food, who is a real lady?

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Pat081: 7:08am On May 08, 2018
Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...
no madam if d guy Na ur brother n he cum back to tell u dis wot will u do mau ladies c guys like ATM machine If dey ask u to go on a date

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by soshi(m): 7:08am On May 08, 2018
Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...



people like u are the girls he is talking about

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by ceecee0703(m): 7:08am On May 08, 2018
Saintmary:

Sense should fall on guys, don't date if you're not ready to spend.

Sense on ladies don't order more than your pocket incase you have to pay...

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by NERDYDREAMS(m): 7:09am On May 08, 2018
She Posted.”No one can ever take what God has given to me “... I commented. ”Where’s ur virginity ?”..She blocked me
��� grin

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Dami12345: 7:10am On May 08, 2018
pocohantas:
He did well.

How can a broke lady eat almost N12000 at a sitting?
N6000 less than minimum wage?
Haba!!!

Pocohantas, did I just fall in love with you?
Your statement is music to my ears.

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by computerglobal(m): 7:10am On May 08, 2018
Fernandowski:
She doesn't have up to 5k but she can order for 11k food





*sips sprite *


I dey tell u....some ladies re just so wicked

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Humility017(m): 7:10am On May 08, 2018
Saintmary:

Sense should fall on guys, don't date if you're not ready to spend. There's a possibility that guys who think like this are going to register their wives for antenatal in substandard hospitals, endangering their lives because they don't want to spend their hard earned money. Anyway, you get what you seek.
that your correlation relating date with money spending for guys leaves me baffled.
it is so unfortubate that here in Nigeria...some ladies see relationship as a paid job...an avenue to get money from guys same way some guys see it as an avenue to get sex....

Nigeria ladies really need a reorientation..I still can't understand..what's happening in today's world...you meet a lady today few days after just barely a week...she has start ask you for money....it makes no sense.

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by marktony77(m): 7:11am On May 08, 2018
i feel the guy was willing to pay her bill if not for d provocative reply she gave after he asked her to settle the bill and he will pay her bck. How on earth would you reply sum1 dt way with an angry face sef at least d girl should have told him the money with her wasn't enough, i am quite sure that would have settled it.

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by openmine(m): 7:11am On May 08, 2018
Saintmary:
That's a glutton. But guys, tell them before the date not to over-order. Some of you tell the lady to order anything she wants, leading her into a trap and then complain about it later or hang her out to dry. If you know it's not in your budget, be plain about it.
She exposed her gullibility by asking for what she can't pay for.....
Since its not her money and she is going for a date doesn't mean she should see such date with a guy as a poverty alleviation scheme...
Simplicity and first impression matters....
I know of a colleague of mine who was told by his gf that they don't always need to got to an eatery every time...that she can use some of the money and prepare a lovely meal for both of them!

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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by centboy123456(m): 7:12am On May 08, 2018
geekybabe:
Me I just keep wondering what kinda girls y'all keep meeting and asking in a date.


Hi � what up I want us to be friends do u leave around Lagos
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Livefreeordieha(m): 7:13am On May 08, 2018
pocohantas:


As a man he must pay for everything?
And as a woman she must order like someone from a war-torn zone?

He mustn't pay for everything. Not when everything includes the order of a greedy girl. I am sure her order pissed him off, so he decided to check if she's even worth her order. Alas, she didn't have such money.
the guy u quoted is a dunce...Forget him they are the type who thinks licking their babes menses is a show of affection or like ASSURANCE that she won't abandon them...

The guy who left her high and dry if u read his post very well he left her because of her manners...My ancestors would say a good tone or voice easily brings out kolanut from pockets.

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