DJInfluence:
seconded..... the day i caught my wife cheating is the day she is leaving my house. no long story...

bjbukzy:

Thank you! Everybody that commented before you just consumes everything literarily....
Funny enough, all of them thinks the article is rubbish, but they will give women that same advice

Adedayo1978:
If u like kill yourself for a cheating woman. She will still cheat on you. Some women are prostitute in nature.

Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

Slikbae:
But the day she catches you cheating?... hypocrite.

SSGN:
Never getting married to a Nigerian woman.NEVER,

onatisi:

this matter is very simple oo
if man catches his wife cheating , let him kick her out
and if a woman catches her husband cheating , let her divorce him and remarry someone else.
then lets see who will be the loser at the end

Slikbae:
Keep laughing at your foolishness. The only loser
is the cheater for losing his marriage to a dumb hoe who is sleeping with other men.

QueenSuccubus:



This is such a great idea...but what if you got some kids running around the house?


Walking n@ked around is very hot & sexy ONLY when it's juz two of you..I just hope my baby daddy will take this advice seriously

onatisi:
The major problem we have in Africa is that Western culture has blinded our women folk to the fact that this is africa. A man is entitled to as many wives as possible ,secondly nowadays women tend to see themselves as been equal to men. If a woman starts cheating, according to our African culture just kick her out . The moment you start trying to appease a cheating wife ,she will continue doing it . Why must a man die all in the name of love .

dominique:


So why do you men always advice women to appease cheating husbands? Why must a woman die in the name of love?

dominique:


So why do you men always advice women to appease cheating husbands? Why must a woman die in the name of love?

QuitNotice:
Sarcasm or not, a woman that starts comparing herself with a man is not actually a woman
God created woman to be a helper, not a competitor

Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

onatisi:

i no go argue , i know the matter pain you,and i understand the pain and hurt is from your personal experience , but no be me spoil your life or marriage anyway try and find someone else to date .

Pavore9:


Yes, those men were sexually active outside their marriage. The question is what was their society's perception of their acts when it came to fore? Let me cite an example, there is a community I have worked in where sexually assault on a minor is not a big issue. It is only when the perpetrator is caught red-handed that the elders of the clan make him bring some livestock for cleansing and all is forgotten and this approach will certainly not be acceptable in some other places.

The hypocrisy here is many live in denial that women can never be of the same psyche with that of our great-grand mothers as they are being exposed to a different socialization.

Pregnant unwed women proudly show off their baby bumps on social media as against the shaming that was hitherto attached to such. What is responsible for this?

kokolet007:

And who says she won't find someone better and loyal to get married to, my father made the same mistake hoping another woman will fill the vacuum but the truth is there's woman truly but they don't last, once the money is not there they pack there baggages and left, nobody to care for him properly in his old age ,all the children are gone while my mother is surrounded with with family and children! even the rich also suffer the consequences it's just that they suffer and smile, there small wivies cheats on them openly and they condole it, one rich man in his early 50's died without people knowing suppose he has a wife he won't die shamelessly.
My dear things have changed, I can go on and on but the truth is let's do what we want others to do to us

AreaFada2:


The only thing that exists is hypocrisy of society. Because a large number them are at it. Including Donald Trump, Leader of the West as a whole. His bragging of grabbing both married and single women by the pussy didn't stop Americans voting for him. Public perception seems selective or doesn't count for much then. Maybe a tacit admission of their hypocrisy.

Do not get me wrong. Polygamy is not my thing. Even my granddad wasn't. But I do not subscribe to sanctimony just because I do not do what others too. People live their lives as they wish. They don't give a rat's bum about my or your opinion.

Pataricatering:
See the response from guys ! Yet when they are giving women stupid advice to die for one stupid marriage it’s some stupid women that will be nodding and agreeing like fools ! I have never seen a group of people who love slavery like women ! Well , I have to add , younger women are waking up to the fact that men are not worth much !

Biglittlelois:



I dont get, so cos she is from a polygamous home, she should tolerate a cheating husband? both genders i know from such homes, guide their path against it cos of bad experience, so mr. i dont understand your point.

onatisi:

many men are dying early daily because of this so called love love issue and that i cant leave my woman . there are many things young ladies of today need to learn from our mothers and they will teach them how they were able to stay in their husband house for 30-40 years . nowadays i know many women between the ages of 40-55, when their husbands are traveling , they will put condoms in their husband bags , they know what men are capable of doing . but ignoring it or trying to behave as if it is abnormal is the greatest deception a woman can do to herself

Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

IamD18:
Only a foolish man will tolerate a cheating wife by doing all those things.

A public pussay deserves a public embarrassment, not a private pampering, because cheating wives are the deadliest set of people that a man can ever try of tolerating.

Once you notice any shiit, send her public ass to her father's house to go cheat with her father.

onatisi:

you are missing the whole point of the argument, what started the argument was that if a wife is cheating on the man , the man must find a means of bringing his wife back and stopping her from cheating , the op suggested that the husband should be walking around naked . now this is it , in this life , there are certain things you cant just win over and number one of such is a promiscuous woman or wife , once a woman is promiscuous , no matter how much you spend on her or how many rounds of sex you go with her , she will still cheat on you , now the question i will put forward to you is this , if you have a relative that has such a wife will you tell him to keep on enduring or send the woman packing ?

HeWrites:
A Nigerian lady identified as Uche Favour on Facebook took to her Facebook page to advise on what to do when their wife starts cheating.

Read what she wrote;
"Men as soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless."

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/05/dont-wear-anything-to-bed-nigerian-lady-advises-men-with-unfaithful-wives.html

AreaFada2:


My point is simple. People should not expect what their own homes could never offer. Or judge others more harshly than they judge their own dad. If your dad was still a great dad and hubby, despite polygamy, another man out there can be too.

If they had such really horrible experience, did they ever rebuke their dad for it?

To make things even easier, if my woman cheats I will kick her out because it is not allowed in my culture. She can seek a man from a culture where such is allowed.

I am not oyinbo. Black women trying to impose oyinbo lifestyle on black hubbies have missed their way. They should look for oyinbo to marry. Problem solved.

I have no plans for polygamy or having girls up and down. Because I have no family culture of it and it is also my personal lifestyle BUT I will not sanctimoniously impose it on others.

I am not here to pander to anyone or become popular with the ladies by telling them what they want to hear.