RadicallyBlunt:

500k for wedding or for marriage? If its wedding well u can save 1million sef if u wish. But for marriage, is not by what u have in ur account o, its by d amount coming into ur pocket regularly. If u have 600k and no good income is coming in, when d money finish wetin u go do? If God wan come catch you, make orobo woman weh no get work get belle for you... Na double of wetin u dey chop, wear and use she go dey require plus pregnancy demand.

LOL at Orobo woman

zinaunreal:

You get mind.... And how much did she bring?

i swear!!!

pedrilo:
there is sometin terribly wrong with african mentality that is expanding poverty in our continent.
Take note, having a legit child can never ever be a shame, irrespective of wen u decide to have them.
bros check ur statement very well.

parenting requires energy. Is it at 55 that you start running around and after a 5yr old when you are suppose to be his/her grand dad. Even at that, how many daughters would you have destroyed to get to that age as you would be sexually active. It is better to get married early and stick with one woman.

biacan:
You're very wicked

Smiles . Happy Sunday!

RadicallyBlunt:

Smiles . Happy Sunday!

Same here..... you at church




You look good physically fit

pedrilo:
ur miracle is on d way.

Amen

biacan:
Same here..... you at church




You look good physically fit

Didn't go today jare

Thanks

RadicallyBlunt:
Didn't go today jare
Thanks

OK


Uwc especially

who settling down help....enjoy your life wella

clemmonce:
really you want to get married and you are asking this kind of question I am short of words.... you need to really really grow up....

What is this dummy saying again? So he cannot ask question again abi wetin?

AroOkigbo:
First work on your maturity.
The journey of marriage is not for the fainthearted.

Modified:
FTC!!
I dedicate this to my 5th child (last for now) who turned 3 months same day as I placed this comment

5th! I hail!

bilulu:
Please house I want to ask is there a certain amount of cash you need to have before planning to settle down? for instance one need to have up-to 500k in his account before thinking of settling down. please I need you input.

What is the percentage of people having up to 500k in their accounts before getting married in Nigeria? But one needs to be very careful in order not to multiply poverty in the society. Just only what you can cater for.

swiz123:


Your question looks childish; the replies you've gotten so far, childish too.

You don't literally need to have 500k in your bank account before thinking of getting married.

You just need to have a steady source of income that will be enough to cater for a family.

A man might be running a business with less than 500k, but he makes steady profits from the business. He might decide to folk out 150k for traditional marriage(depending on the state he intends to marry from), then later he can do church wedding.

Having the mentality that I need to save up to half a million before getting married has kept many men above 35 single.

If you can clothe, feed, provide health care etc for 3 persons comfortably, then getting married shouldn't be a problem.

But while at it, avoid marrying leeches

And how has your response differ in interpretation with some of the advice before yours? All these people with overrated intelligence self appraisal.

Platony:


I didn't allow her, u dnt allow a woman support u financially in u marrying her if u knw u cn afford d rites n ceremony comfortably. U knw women, dey wil use it to insult u one day. Its best u handle tins urself for future references.

Don't I just love you

Ayomide002:
who settling down help....enjoy your life wella

After u don born your children finish u come dey tell us who settling down help.... If I catch u eeh...

Enice:
first, I said a GOOD job. You should know that the word good means comfortable/pleasing/okay/acceptable etc. Is N1000 a month comfortable for even a child? Then I used the word "OR" a stable business/investment. The word OR relates the word GOOD in a positive manner. It means you can work as an employee or be a business man. In both case, you should be able to provide for yourself and an expected family. Now as regards the amount, what I would say is that all fingers are not equal. People differ. I have seen married guys make do with N70k a month and doing well. Also, i have seen guys that earn N500k but are broke before the end of the month. It is all about your potentials and believing in yourself that you will excel. If you believe in yourself, go ahead and do what you want. Don't wait till you are 50yrs to get married all because of money. At 55, your child would be about 4 or 5 yrs which is a shame really.

Ok I've heard You.

pedrilo:
i also hav a fixed deposit dat gives me anoda 20k monthly. So that's it.

Making it 40k, Now u are talking bro.

300k or 400k should do..

vizkiz:


His question requires a specific amount needed before marriage. Your answer was about feeding mouths (which didn't correspond).

What if he is a cassava farmer and he feeds on mostly cassava products?

So you wanna give birth to malnourished kids?

ogbenii

emelda86:


Don't I just love you

Why? Because he paid all the bills or what?

pedrilo:
Lol thanks. Albeit I eat well cos I have a fixed deposit dat gives me anoda 20k monthly. So that's it.

with which bank and how is/was the initial deposit? Ur bro needs more investments

Eagba:
with which bank and how is/was the initial deposit? Ur bro needs more investments

2m, diamond

pedrilo:
2m, diamond

cool. So is it stamp, no fluctuations like phcn?

At least 45million for starting oooh please am very tired don't quote me okay

Eagba:
cool. So is it stamp, no fluctuations like phcn?

no fluctuations bro. I dnt touch d principal either.

RadicallyBlunt:

500k for wedding or for marriage? If its wedding well u can save 1million sef if u wish. But for marriage, is not by what u have in ur account o, its by d amount coming into ur pocket regularly. If u have 600k and no good income is coming in, when d money finish wetin u go do? If God wan come catch you, make orobo woman weh no get work get belle for you... Na double of wetin u dey chop, wear and use she go dey require plus pregnancy demand.

Hahahaha. Lol

been wanting to ask same question... I recently got a federal Job and the pressure has been there for me to start considering on settling down due to the fact am the only son...

RadicallyBlunt:

500k for wedding or for marriage? If its wedding well u can save 1million sef if u wish. But for marriage, is not by what u have in ur account o, its by d amount coming into ur pocket regularly. If u have 600k and no good income is coming in, when d money finish wetin u go do? If God wan come catch you, make orobo woman weh no get work get belle for you... Na double of wetin u dey chop, wear and use she go dey require plus pregnancy demand.

heheheheeeee


hahahahahahaaaa

ideology:


Lol, Bros what you are saying sounds ideal but not a reality.

Ladies of internet age are different.

What percentage of ladies are really teachable.

Use Nairaland for your survey.
Even some village gals don de open eyes.

The world has change ooo

After all your investments they can still walk away.

I'm glad you accept that there is still a percentage that are teachable.

So your assignment should be finding yours from that little percentage. That is where God's help is required.

I believe you're doing lots to achieve your goal of 6/7digits that you're planning to run your family on. Then a lady from the larger percentage (you described) wouldn't worth those labour of yours.

The best way to find the worthy one is to belong to cliques of that little percentage of ladies that are teachable.

Meanwhile, stop making me feel I belong to the older generation, I'm in my thirties bro.

rebirthforgoody:
At least 45million for starting oooh please am very tired don't quote me okay

Aka 100k Euro? That's a lot.

MFerrara:

Aka 100k Euro? That's a lot.

Okay ooooh

MFerrara:

Aka 100k Euro? That's a lot.

Okay ooooh