pocohantas:
Some, not all.

Money is the major advantage an average Naija man has over his woman. No one wants to lose their advantage.

Every other reason they give is either secondary or inconsequential.

SoapQueen:
What exactly are men on the look out for? Barely a fortnight ago, it was "A man is scared of marrying a woman that will be a liability', today it is 'Men are scared of marrying ambitious women'.

RuthDaniels:
Men love Power! Money brings power,Men have money. An independent woman is a threat to this cycle,She has her own money,she will be a difficult one to tame.


It's a pity though,that the only thing men has over women is Money. A thread was created here sometimes ago on how to handle a woman who isn't impressed by money,Guys on here went cold,silent and ignorant . Pity!

That said, i have to type this. Not all men want power or control,not all independent women are proud and difficult so not all Men are intimidated by these Women. So tone down on the generalization!

Elder001:
WHY ARE NIGERIAN MEN SCARED OF CAREER/AMBITIOUS LADIES?

Nigerian men are very hypocrital and confused.
Like they'll clamour for women to work hard and support the family or co-provide but they eventually get afraid/scared when their wifes are taking their ambitions too serious, like they will bring in the "home front" clause as if they are marrying the women just to train kids and cook food. Isn't that the same thing as staying at home to look after kids?? Nigerian men usually say they no longer want liabilities and blah blah but this same people still make ridiculous rhetorics like "A Woman Should Choose Between Her Career and Her Family ". what a cheap emotional blackmail.
You want your wife to work and at the same time giving her options, like wtf does that?? This is one of the reasons why sensible ladies are opting out of marriages because no sensible lady is going to quit her career because of kids and marriage. only the lazy ones do such.

You are married to a lady doesn't mean you're her god.

The fact is Nigerian men are confused. It's now official.

Women are put under undue pressure, just look at this!! later women will be told to struggle in their careers so they don't become "liabilities" now the same men are saying they should forget their career goals and embrace the concept of "family"

One of the worst places to be a woman is in Nigeria. You want her to be hard working, yet not too hardworking, smart but not really smart, career oriented but not much... like where do we draw the line? na wa oo! I think every ambitious Nigerian woman, who has a purpose for her life, that dosnt conform to the "Nigerian norm" should save money and leave this country...




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Please don't copy and paste this write-up anywhere without giving due credit to Elder.

Elder only wants the betterment of Nigeria.

ubunja:
i cant abide a successful lady.
i like my girls young, dependent and not very bright. i cant stand competition. my Ego is fragile like hell.

peterphd:


How can one get your free ebook?

pocohantas:
Some, not all.

Money is the major advantage an average Naija man has over his woman. No one wants to lose their advantage.

Every other reason they give is either secondary or inconsequential.

ubunja:

peterphd:


Whatcha say ubunja?

ubunja:
dude i had my number up here for weeks...

mrphysics:


No man is scared of a career woman/wife. Men are only scared of the mentality of some career woman/wife/girlfriend

They have this of I have arrived attitude, they divorce humility and marry feminism.

ubunja:
i cant abide a successful lady.
i like my girls young, dependent and not very bright. i cant stand competition. my Ego is fragile like hell.

Elder001:


does this even sound sensible to you?