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Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Jamezafolabi40(m): 11:24am On May 14, 2018
Culturally, most especially in this part of the world, leave it or take it, cooking is still part of the criteria some men use in choosen their betterhalf. But since the advent of civilization things seems to have changed from the painted bad to the painted good in reverse order. These days ladies finds it so easy to look into a guys face and say "
i can't cook
" wow! what seems like a stigma has become normal.

Like i stated earlier Western Culture brought about freedom, and equalization, please don't get me wrong, there should be a strong urge in you to learn what you don't know and not make another person suffer for your negligence, i expect a woman who doesn't know how to prepare meal to either enrol at a Catering school or probably learn from a friend. Fine! you work late, 8am-9pm, what about your weekends? you want to rest, lolz. You shouldn't allow your career to blindfold you from giving your Husband good food, biblically food is important, when you give good food to people they tend to love you more and even pray for you.

Perhaps you don't know that men are good pretenders, once they taste food outside and it's better than yours, get ready for a fight, because he's going to stop eating at home and you would always get angry...

Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Viralkid: 11:26am On May 14, 2018
I don't know what's so hard to cook for yourself and your husband feminism feminism everywhere...

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Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by olayinex(m): 11:34am On May 14, 2018
den dey help me do u, Watin dey con teach u from ur ouse Abi na just to sit down in my ouse nd me paying ur bills just like dat haba
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Lonestar124: 12:22pm On May 14, 2018
Another lie from the pit of feminism. Nothing will change circle of normalcy.. Even Abraham commanded his wife Sarah to prepare meal for the angels he encountered......(gen 18vs6)

I can cook but I expect my wife to be profound..Every ladies should see cooking as a hobby not work.
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by ubunja(m): 12:48pm On May 14, 2018
nigerians' infatuation with the topic of cooking is getting out of hand. you dont have other things to debate on
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by MissRaine69(f): 2:55pm On May 14, 2018
The reason why cooking is such a big issue it is due to how symbolic cooking is in our culture
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by flyingdagger(m): 2:56pm On May 14, 2018
i dont agree
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by MissRaine69(f): 3:00pm On May 14, 2018
If I cook in a relationship that does mean I am trying to prove a point and if the man in my life cooks that does not signify anything either. It’s a simple case of whose doing what where and when. If I get home first the tile is broached eat in or eat out? We discuss preferences reach a comprise and we eat. There is no feminsim discussed it’s a simple case of being practical in a relationship were both couples work. Now if one party is at home doing nothing but watching Zee TV while the other party works long hours to pay for that subscription then the party watching the tv cooks. If he supports the family and you are not contributing nothing financially then why should the man be expected to do that as well? He can offer or help but it should not be an expectation if you want to argue feminism then the contribution to the family should be equal from a financial perspective . Arguing she is at home raising the kids is void to be able to afford to stay at home and look after the kids it’s all down to his earning power.

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Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by MissRaine69(f): 3:03pm On May 14, 2018
ubunja:
nigerians' infatuation with the topic of cooking is getting out of hand. you dont have other things to debate on
Cooking is a metaphor for many things in African culture just move away from black and white type of thinking

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Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by ubunja(m): 3:09pm On May 14, 2018
MissRaine69:

Cooking is a metaphor for many things in African culture just move away from black and white type of thinking
and what are those things?
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by pocohantas(f): 3:32pm On May 14, 2018
Everyday you guys are arguing on cooking.
Is it the same cooking I know and do almost everyday, abi another cooking? Are there no important issues in marriage?
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Nobody: 3:57pm On May 14, 2018
pocohantas:
Everyday you guys are arguing on cooking.
Is it the same cooking I know and do almost everyday, abi another cooking? Are there no important issues in marriage?

A woman's place is first in the kitchen, then in the bedroom and finally in the nursery. Any questions?
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Headlesschicken(m): 4:34pm On May 14, 2018
undecided If not a woman's duty then whose duty is it...
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by McBrooklyn(m): 4:55pm On May 14, 2018
Then what is a woman's responsibility??
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Nobody: 6:46pm On May 14, 2018
how can both couple go to work at the same time, close at the same time. then one person expects the woman to go straight to the kitchen, while the man relaxes with the TV watching ESPN just because he claims he's tired from all the work, didn't the woman go to work too? isn't she tired also? if she decides to relax and watch ESPN with him is it a bad thing? my point is cooking is nobody's job. marriage is a partnership, anyone can cook, it mustn't be the wife at all times.
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Kinggnicole(f): 6:50pm On May 14, 2018
oyb:


A woman's place is first in the kitchen, then in the bedroom and finally in the nursery. Any questions?

Speak for your woman
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Nobody: 6:58pm On May 14, 2018
Kinggnicole:


Speak for your woman

I speak for you, miserable wench! Now get that arse in the kitchen and make me a sandwich! angry angry angry

Nonsense and ingredients. See as internet anonymity is giving these wimmins wings. angry angry angry
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Kinggnicole(f): 7:02pm On May 14, 2018
oyb:


I speak for you, miserable wench! Now get that arse in the kitchen and make me a sandwich! angry angry angry

Nonsense and ingredients. See as internet anonymity is giving these wimmins wings. angry angry angry


Lol.
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by ninetiethcrown7(m): 7:03pm On May 14, 2018
oyb:


I speak for you, miserable wench! Now get that arse in the kitchen and make me a sandwich! angry angry angry

Nonsense and ingredients. See as internet anonymity is giving these wimmins wings. angry angry angry

Guy God go punish you for this comment grin grin grin

But seriously if you think cooking is meant for ladies alone then you are still living in the 20th century
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by MissRaine69(f): 7:10pm On May 14, 2018
ubunja:

and what are those things?
Distribution of labour based on gender
The family unit
The role of the mother
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:22pm On May 14, 2018
oyb:


A woman's place is first in the kitchen, then in the bedroom and finally in the nursery. Any questions?


WOMEN ARE TRULY LUCKY, AND HIGHLY IMPORTANT IF THIS IS THE CASE.

IT IS EASILY NOTICEABLE THAT YOUR PLACE IN THE SOCIETY REMAINS BETSHOPS. FOLLOWED BY THE MOTOPARKS AND BEER PARLORS.

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Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Nobody: 8:59pm On May 14, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:



WOMEN ARE TRULY LUCKY, AND HIGHLY IMPORTANT IF THIS IS THE CASE.

IT IS EASILY NOTICEABLE THAT YOUR PLACE IN THE SOCIETY REMAINS BETSHOPS. FOLLOWED BY THE MOTOPARKS AND BEER PARLORS.
hahaha
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Nobody: 3:19am On May 15, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:



WOMEN ARE TRULY LUCKY, AND HIGHLY IMPORTANT IF THIS IS THE CASE.

IT IS EASILY NOTICEABLE THAT YOUR PLACE IN THE SOCIETY REMAINS BETSHOPS. FOLLOWED BY THE MOTOPARKS AND BEER PARLORS.

Ungendered self-servicer. You should be in a restroom, instead of spamming my mentions.

Your crafty hiding of your gender is hindering my clapbacks.
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by engrelvis(m): 5:29am On May 15, 2018
MissRaine69:
If I cook in a relationship that does mean I am trying to prove a point and if the man in my life cooks that does not signify anything either. It’s a simple case of whose doing what where and when. If I get home first the tile is broached eat in or eat out? We discuss preferences reach a comprise and we eat. There is no feminsim discussed it’s a simple case of being practical in a relationship were both couples work. Now if one party is at home doing nothing but watching Zee TV while the other party works long hours to pay for that subscription then the party watching the tv cooks. If he supports the family and you are not contributing nothing financially then why should the man be expected to do that as well? He can offer or help but it should not be an expectation if you want to argue feminism then the contribution to the family should be equal from a financial perspective . Arguing she is at home raising the kids is void to be able to afford to stay at home and look after the kids it’s all down to his earning power.
what u r saying indirectly is a man dat cannot provide for his family should b doing d domestic chores in d house. Marriage is understanding my dear.
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:55am On May 15, 2018
oyb:


Ungendered self-servicer. You should be in a restroom, instead of spamming my mentions.

Your crafty hiding of your gender is hindering my clapbacks.



LOL, TRADE YOUR CLAPBACKS FOR SOME WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE..
YOU WON'T REGRET IT.
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Apina(m): 8:53am On May 15, 2018
A womans role in the family is one of the most important if not the most. A woman can nurture, care and love like no one can, she can work and earn like her male counterpart but thats not where shes necessarily needed cos what nature has given to her no man has. Although its a mans world but its nothing, absolutely nothing without a woman on it. cheesy
Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by ibkayee(f): 10:42am On May 18, 2018
It’s a job we’ve taken on for years due to socialised gender roles, guys were the bread winners and women took care of the house. Now that trends are changing it’s becoming more of a shared responsibility, it depends on your household dynamic tbh if your husband is the only breadwinner for example it makes sense to take care of the domestic responsibilities and vice versa. If you’re both out working as much as the other, share. It’s not a competition, it’s about aiding one another and filling in the gaps to make your marriage as comfortable as possible

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Re: Cooking Is Not A Woman's Responsibility In Marriage, How True? by Nobody: 11:23am On May 18, 2018
These days both men are women cook. In a healthy marriage, there's no such thing as it being the sole responsibility of one party and not other. Who does it more does depends on the dynamics of the marriage.

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