mhisbliss:

Happigirl12:
Men and women are equals until they get married. That's when the husband becomes head. About the submission as to carrying him on my head when he can't respect me as well, I can't marry someone who can't do that...

mrdashing10:
Feminists (females who wish they had Dicks) will not like this

MISEDUCATIONS:

its not by force to marry na. stay single & happy

AmazonTopaz:
This lady must be high on weed to ascribe domestic violence as a result of women wanting equality.

Sorry for her not all women reason like she does and are willing to take the back seat.

Everyone has what works for them.Her opinion remains her opinion.
It is a free world.

Happigirl12:
[s]Men and women are equals until they get married. That's when the husband becomes head. About the submission as to carrying him on my head when he can't respect me as well, I can't marry someone who can't do that...[/s]

mhisbliss:
I don't blame her she's from a third world country, Being submissive is the reason why most men would take you for granted in the first place, they be like afterall she's a woman and she's a weaker vessel so domestic violence is cool as long as i don't try to be equal, this is why it's good to be independent as a woman, so you can easily walk away when its becoming uncomfortable for you, marriage is not a do or die affair

mhisbliss:
I don't blame her she's from a third world country, Being submissive is the reason why most men would take you for granted in the first place, they be like afterall she's a woman and she's a weaker vessel so domestic violence is cool as long as i don't try to be equal, this is why it's good to be independent as a woman, so you can easily walk away when its becoming uncomfortable for you, marriage is not a do or die affair

Happigirl12:


Isn't it different if I marry someone who respects me and I do so for him too? God said "Wife submit to your husband" not "kill yourself with work all because you want to be submissive." Submission accepting to the will of an authority. Nigerian culture doesn't state only that, they make marriage worse for women. I'm not feminist but I'm just being honest.

mistel:
third world country?
nor for this world one american artist/celebrity beat up another artist/celebruty wey be him woman and the man do community service put? una too they like to copy oyibo wey e nor even dey work for.

mistel:
that walking away mindset is the reason there is so much unstable marriages, you come in fully prepared to leave, so what is the union about? as u are set to jump to the next boat, u will never do right here cos u arent made to stay, you are lackadaisical and haphazard. u never submits, you are always right, never humble and you dont give a fvck about what happens in the future.
YOU BECOMES A WALKING TIMEBOMB WAITING TO EXPLODE!

mhisbliss:
Like i said, i had a life before getting married to him, if he can't respect me to the point of raising his hand against me and seeing me as his servant not a part of him, then i just use the door, marriage is not a do or die affair

tunjilana:

Which work are women always talking about sef, is it domestic work that a maid on 20-30k salary will do joyously1...
Abi how many of you carry the financial load most men carry in relationships and marriage and still go about happy!!!

mhisbliss:
I don't blame her she's from a third world country, Being submissive is the reason why most men would take you for granted in the first place, they be like afterall she's a woman and she's a weaker vessel so domestic violence is cool as long as i don't try to be equal, this is why it's good to be independent as a woman, so you can easily walk away when its becoming uncomfortable for you, marriage is not a do or die affair

Happigirl12:


Isn't it different if I marry someone who respects me and I do so for him too? God said "Wife submit to your husband" not "kill yourself with work all because you want to be submissive." Submission accepting to the will of an authority. Nigerian culture doesn't state only that, they make marriage worse for women. I'm not feminist but I'm just being honest.

MISEDUCATIONS:

so who do you want to work? your maid? and you sit? your husband works, your maid works, you just sit?? no wonder the husband ends up taking the maid.

Happigirl12:


If you were in a woman's shoes, you'll understand that it's worse for a woman than it is for the man in Nigeria but y'all won't understand. The man doesn't need to carry the financial load all alone, if the woman is responsible and he wants her to work, then she can help him out. Being the head of the home doesn't mean you have to be responsible for all the whole work. It's like being a governor who appoints different officials for things in the home. But some won't understand cuz their pride is just harming their lives.