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Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 11:21am On May 15, 2018 |
tunjilana: what is wrong if you as a man instill values and bond with the kids? it's like most Nigerian men are still living in the 17th century. |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 11:21am On May 15, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88 anything to say? |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by nairaland20: 11:23am On May 15, 2018 |
Hanseel1:wey donstan |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by tunjilana: 11:29am On May 15, 2018 |
Can't recall saying a man shouldn't do that, please read well, bonding and instilling values are mutual. Infact men do most of the disciplining ..."Wait till your Dad comes comes from work..." is a common phrase for used to scare an erring kid in Nigeria... And my point s simple, there is an easy option for domestic work(which tradition says is a woman's turf) but there is no easy option for providing(which tradition says is a man's turf)... Hanseel1: |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by tunjilana: 11:31am On May 15, 2018 |
tunjilana: |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 11:38am On May 15, 2018 |
tunjilana:There's an easy option for both unless you marry a liability. A man mustn't be the sole provider unless he wants to. |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by OkpaAkuEriEri(m): 11:38am On May 15, 2018 |
I pray lalasticlala wife is wise lyk ds woman |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by tunjilana: 12:11pm On May 15, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Let me help you get this in simple term cos u are leaving the point. check the original quote, A lady talks about "Killing herself with work in marriage..." and this is about helping her see that that thing she calls work is no longer work... When a lady talks about "Work..." in marriage it is most times domestic(traditional view). Now with a disposable 30k monthly in your pocket you can Nail that forever and not need any woman to do any domestic in your house. And yes! you can outsource that to tens of thousands of willing maids in a country like Nigeria. On the other hand, providing for your family can only be done by You, You and your wife or your wife only. except for few cases of family/ friends helping when you need it. This further limits the option. Sample opinion and you get that most people still expect the man to carry this load in entirety. Very few women will boast of 50/50 or more with their husband in Nigeria without a grudge. So you still feel both the man and woman have it equally easy!... I often wonder why a lot of women feel bad when they are assigned domestics |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 12:27pm On May 15, 2018 |
tunjilana: provision : 60/40 house chores : 80/20 |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:53pm On May 15, 2018 |
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Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by monex(m): 1:37pm On May 15, 2018 |
Happigirl12: even in Christian Marriages, they are equal in dignity. That he is a designated leader does not make her less. |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 2:26pm On May 15, 2018 |
monex: Many naija women are scared of equality because they don't want to take responsibility. |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 5:51pm On May 16, 2018 |
mhisbliss:by the time u finish tryying 4 husbands, the world should know who is really the wahala |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:17pm On May 16, 2018 |
Happigirl12:....Pls can you tell us the work that will kill u? |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 6:46pm On May 16, 2018 |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by dasparrow: 6:58pm On May 16, 2018 |
I am sure nobody with a functioning brain will accept whatever this bleached ape is saying as the gospel truth. Men and women are equal. However, once a woman gets married, her husband is the head of the home. Do many men abuse their position as head of the home? Yes, they do. It is then left for the woman to decide if she wants to remain in such a union or divorce his azz. The problem is, Nigerian men want all women to kiss their azz even the ones not related to them and that cannot happen in a million years. They may get away with their chauvinism and false sense of entitlement in that urine-smelling shithole country of theirs but not in sane advanced 1st world countries. 1 Like |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by dasparrow: 7:10pm On May 16, 2018 |
Hanseel1: You are right to some extent. However, Nigerian men too don't want equality either because male privilege and patriarchy especially the way it is practiced in Africa favours the man. Men have egos and it massages the African man's fragile ego when he can control and oppress his woman. This is why African men get so bitter when a woman sincerely does not desire marriage. They know if more women do not desire marriage, that power that they have over women especially in the home front will deflate. It is why African societies continue brain washing her females into believing that lie from the pit hell that they can only be happy in marriage. The foolish African women believe the lie too. How a woman can possibly think that she will live happily ever after as a permanent glorified house maid and sex slave to her husband is something I will never understand. But oh well! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by youcanmakeit: 8:45pm On May 16, 2018 |
Hanseel1:You make your wife head of the home ![]() A Man is suppose to be head of the family, A man is suppose to be in charge and control.. Stop being a pussy. |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:50pm On May 16, 2018 |
youcanmakeit:All because he has a joystick? You have got to be kidding me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by MISEDUCATIONS: 5:49am On May 17, 2018 |
if you want a long happy relaxing life with no headaches and challenges avoid feminists like you would avoid someone with leprosy. you live only once. dont ruin your life. |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 7:30am On May 17, 2018 |
youcanmakeit: This is a civilized world. 1 Like |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 7:32am On May 17, 2018 |
dasparrow: can you say this trash in the UK? 1 Like |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Nobody: 7:33am On May 17, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: 1 Like |
Re: Women Should Be Submissive And Accept Their Divine Status As Helpmates –lady by Adasun(m): 5:11pm On May 17, 2018 |
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