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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:04pm On May 17, 2018
ubunja:
i cant abide a successful lady.
i like my girls young, dependent and not very bright. i cant stand competition. my Ego is fragile like hell.

Eleyi gidi gan.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by 2buffagain(m): 10:06pm On May 17, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Eleyi gidi gan.

Yeah I don't know what to tell you.
Some african men are stuck in their ways I guess.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:29pm On May 17, 2018
2buffagain:


Yeah I don't know what to tell you.
Some african men are stuck in their ways I guess.

His decision will one day tire him out.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by fancy4eve(f): 11:15pm On May 17, 2018
ubunja:
i cant abide a successful lady.
i like my girls young, dependent and not very bright. i cant stand competition. my Ego is fragile like hell.
nd u tink is a gud idea

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ubunja(m): 5:03am On May 18, 2018
fancy4eve:
nd u tink is a gud idea
why not?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ubunja(m): 5:03am On May 18, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Eleyi gidi gan.
meaning?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:17am On May 18, 2018
ubunja:

meaning?

This one is strong.
Your opinion Na helele!
You better have a rethink. Who dependent chicks help?

You'll one day wish you hadn't taken that decision.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ubunja(m): 7:32am On May 18, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


This one is strong.
Your opinion Na helele!
You better have a rethink. Who dependent chicks help?

You'll one day wish you hadn't taken that decision.
oh. okay. why does everyone think every man needs an intelligent successful woman?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:39am On May 18, 2018
ubunja:
oh. okay. why does everyone think every man needs an intelligent successful woman?

Don't worry. She won't remain dumb for life. She'll smarten up. Life will expose her to its extremities.

And you, you'll be disappointed at yourself for taking a slowpoke of a girl as a wife. How'll you show her off to your friends?

What core values and teachings will she inculcate into your children's life?

What about this- When you're no more, how will she brace herself up from being the dependent, headless chicken that she'd always been? She'll sink into life. She'll get marred.

I know you're well entitled to your opinion, but have a rethink. Think about your future, and not now. Marry a strong-willed, intelligent, independent woman who wouldn't have to ask for jack before bringing them to fruition.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ubunja(m): 8:52am On May 18, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Don't worry. She won't remain dumb for life. She'll smarten up. Life will expose her to its extremities.

And you, you'll be disappointed at yourself for taking a slowpoke of a girl as a wife. How'll you show her off to your friends?

What core values and teachings will she inculcate into your children's life?

What about this- When you're no more, how will she brace herself up from being the dependent, headless chicken that she'd always been? She'll sink into life. She'll get marred.

I know you're well entitled to your opinion, but have a rethink. Think about your future, and not now. Marry a strong-willed, intelligent, independent woman who wouldn't have to ask for jack before bringing them to fruition.

its funny coz you think a great mother is an intelligent mother when we were raised fine by unschooled mothers.
isnt it always funny how even the successful intelligent women have village girls for housemaids and it is the village girl who manages the day to day running of the house while both hubby and wifey are away for most of the day.
what exactly is your pain at my unintelliegent wife that you have to keep stressing she'll be smart one day etc?? why does it make you so emotional?

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:49am On May 18, 2018
ubunja:
its funny coz you think a great mother is an intelligent mother when we were raised fine by unschooled mothers.
isnt it always funny how even the successful intelligent women have village girls for housemaids and it is the village girl who manages the day to day running of the house while both hubby and wifey are away for most of the day.
what exactly is your pain at my unintelliegent wife that you have to keep stressing she'll be smart one day etc?? why does it make you so emotional?

I'm not emotional nor pained. I'm just so concerned at the bland decision you intend taking. Well, your problem though!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ubunja(m): 9:51am On May 18, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm not emotional nor pained. I'm just so concerned at the bland decision you intend taking. Well, your problem though!
yar its so bland i admit. but we live once. if marriage doesnt make one happpiest then what else will?

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ibkayee(f): 9:58am On May 18, 2018
ubunja:
i cant abide a successful lady.
i like my girls young, dependent and not very bright. i cant stand competition. my Ego is fragile like hell.
At least you’re honest
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by Nobody: 11:39pm On May 19, 2018
ibkayee:

At least you’re honest


aren't you sad that a man still think like that in this century?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by Nobody: 11:42pm On May 19, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Don't worry. She won't remain dumb for life. She'll smarten up. Life will expose her to its extremities.

And you, you'll be disappointed at yourself for taking a slowpoke of a girl as a wife. How'll you show her off to your friends?

What core values and teachings will she inculcate into your children's life?

What about this- When you're no more, how will she brace herself up from being the dependent, headless chicken that she'd always been? She'll sink into life. She'll get marred.

I know you're well entitled to your opinion, but have a rethink. Think about your future, and not now. Marry a strong-willed, intelligent, independent woman who wouldn't have to ask for jack before bringing them to fruition.



This is the most important question he needs to ask himself

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ibkayee(f): 11:57pm On May 19, 2018
Elder001:


aren't you sad that a man still think like that in this century?
It's nothing new so not really
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by Nobody: 12:00am On May 20, 2018
ibkayee:

It's nothing new so not really

It is well.
how're you doing over there? how's the weather?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ibkayee(f): 12:03am On May 20, 2018
Elder001:


It is well.
how're you doing over there? how's the weather?
Doing well thanks, weather has cooled down, it was quite warm earlier (for our standards lol). You?

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by Nobody: 12:19am On May 20, 2018
ibkayee:

Doing well thanks, weather has cooled down, it was quite warm earlier (for our standards lol). You?

it's cold here.

I'm the owner of elder001..okay?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by 2buffagain(m): 2:00pm On May 20, 2018
Who needs a wife who anytime when your child or anyone asks her something her answer is always "Wait, your father/my husband will soon come"
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career/ambitious Ladies? by ibkayee(f): 3:52pm On May 20, 2018
Hanseel1:


it's cold here.

I'm the owner of elder001..okay?
Oh right, had a feeling I'd spoken to you before

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