don4real18:

So did the guy who went further to add finance

Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.

ubunja:
it was a weak generalization. accept correction and move on.

no it wasn't .... u are the one hung up on my post dear u could have kept scrolling. opinions of dregs and wastemen mean nothing to me
jog on

Lalas247:

exactly ..
I put kids in my post too... thats one of the main reasons for married couples
best thing is to leave .. its even better for the kids not to be in an abusive environment..

Attimes its not ordinary, some forces are behind it.

It's because in most cases the women are not financially independent

Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.

he asked for refund lol
I have seen it all....

Lalas247:

no it wasn't .... u are the one hung up on my post dear u could have kept scrolling. opinions of dregs and wastemen mean nothing to me
jog on

you've been corrected. stop generalizing.

Pricelessangel0:

Attimes its not ordinary, some forces are behind it.

My dear I forgot a major one that a lot use “LOVE”

Knew a girl during school days .. had a bf .. she came in and she had a black eye .. we were like wtf happened
She later said her bf threw batteries at her those big D batteries and it knocked her eye out ..

We all opened our mouths screaming .. cause here that’s straight up jail time .. she kept saying no she can’t report it .. we should stay out of her relationship .. we asked her why she would take that sh!t at a young age

Her Answer ... “BUT HE LOVES ME” imagine

Lalas247:

he asked for refund lol
I have seen it all....

Am serious, even the one he didnt buy he requested for it and because of how insultive and shameful it is, no one need to ask for verification and it was refundf, it was later that the aunty started saying and pointing to what he did not buy for her that he said he did even down to pant and cream.

Pricelessangel0:

Am serious, even the one he didnt buy he requested for it and because of how insultive and shameful it is, no one need to ask for verification and it was refundf, it was later that the aunty started saying and pointing to what he did not buy for her that he said he did even down to pant and cream.

It’s better that way jare at least he can’t tell her nothing .....

ubunja:
you've been corrected. stop generalizing.

Learn the meaning of the word ... if u don’t like it .. don’t quote me stay off my post that way it won’t affect you
If you were trying to correct you will correct every single poster who didn’t mention working class lady in their comment but you a hypocrite and won’t do that .. so your correction is invalid

Lalas247:

My dear I forgot a major one that a lot use “LOVE”

Knew a girl during school days .. had a bf .. she came in and she had a black eye .. we were like wtf happened
She later said her bf threw batteries at her those big D batteries and it knocked her eye out ..

We all opened our mouths screaming .. cause here that’s straight up jail time .. she kept saying no she can’t report it .. we should stay out of her relationship .. we asked her why she would take that sh!t at a young age

Her Answer ... “BUT HE LOVES ME” imagine

Hmmmmnn 'LOVE' the problem that word is causing is much and the meaning has been turned upside down.

Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnn 'LOVE' the problem that word is causing is much and the meaning has been turned upside down.

The word is scary .. things people do for it sha ..
What tribe are you if you don’t mind me asking .. are you based in Naija ?

Lalas247:
It’s better that way jare at least he can’t tell her nothing .....

Abi?

Lalas247:

Learn the meaning of the word ... if u don’t like it .. don’t quote me stay off my post that way it won’t affect you
If you were trying to correct you will correct every single poster who didn’t mention working class lady in their comment but you a hypocrite and won’t do that .. so your correction is invalid

stop generalising.

ubunja:
stop generalising.

Lol na wa o

Ok go to the first 5 comments what do you call that .. why didn’t you quote them
Or you just got the hots for me don’t worry I understand
Ubunja free my comments plsssssss

Lalas247:


The word is scary .. things people do for it sha ..
What tribe are you if you don’t mind me asking .. are you based in Naija ?

Am based in naija and am Igbo.

Lalas247:


The word is scary .. things people do for it sha ..
What tribe are you if you don’t mind me asking .. are you based in Naija ?

so now you want to answer her points based on her nationality and tribe so you can bring in bias and preconcieved notions?
princess dont fall into this trap

Pricelessangel0:

Am based in naija and am Igbo.

Had a feeling you’re Igbo.. from IMO state ? My mum is Igbo
Nice chatting dear

ubunja:
so now you want to answer her points based on her nationality and tribe so you can bring in bias and preconcieved notions?
princess dont fall into this trap

Lol no Im Trying to get to know her .. if u must know
Ubunja leave me na what is it .... me asking her tribe has nothing to do with this topic ...

Person can’t make e friends in peace again

Lalas247:

Lol no Im Trying to get to know her .. if u must know
Ubunja leave me na what is it .... me asking her tribe has nothing to do with this topic ...

Person can’t make e friends in peace again

peace. im walking away.

Lalas247:
Had a feeling you’re Igbo.. from IMO state ? My mum is Igbo Nice chatting dear

The pleasure is mine, am from Ebonyi state.

ubunja:
peace. im walking away.

See ya later

Pricelessangel0:

The pleasure is mine, am from Ebonyi state.

Cool ... see you around .

Kobicove:
It's because in most cases the women are not financially independent

i dont think so, i ve seen some working class women who is also a victim

Lalas247:
its the lazy unemployed ones .. who are fully Dependant and in their mind they have no way out.....

Please don’t say this. Being in a physical/verbally abusive relationship is much more complex than this. It’s not always about money, there’s a lot of manipulation, controlling narcissistic behaviour that happens. It’s a very sensitive topic, ahbeg.

Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.

one of my cousin brother ask a girl to refund him the maltina that he bought for her when she visited him

Hector09:
i dont think so, i ve seen some working class women who is also a victim

true. They think of thier kids, what pple at work,church and familiy wud say, where do dey see new husband/lover from etc

Safiaa:
Please don’t say this. Being in a physical/verbally abusive relationship is much more complex than this. It’s not always about money, there’s a lot of manipulation, controlling narcissistic behaviour that happens. It’s a very sensitive topic, ahbeg.

Those are the ones I know of ..
I’m not disputing the fact that working class ladies don’t go through it.. I just didn’t list that .... as I don’t personlly know any in my circle ..so can’t really speak on it

You can never really understand, until you’re in one. That’s all I can say

yeyerolling:
and die abi

Isn't what u sign up for


Shift jo

Safiaa:
You can never really understand, until you’re in one. That’s all I can say

then make me to understand

Hector09:
then make me to understand

I can’t, never been in one.