Boland:

And I see most of y'all complain about Feminism when in actual sense those qualities these feminists possess are what fits into the criterion of the type of lady you want.

The world is what it is, learn how to deal with it. Complaining only proves that you're not fit to deal with it, which may also mean that you don't intend to grow.

Let the Men be Men and Women be Women.

ubunja:
everyone is free to rant. its a free world. and i rant a lot. especially when people tell me not to rant. let guys who wanna rant rant.

laudate:


Is this the reason why you date such women? To emotionally unlock "things" in her? To bust her emotional cherry in different ways? Chai! It sounds like you are just taking the girl on a wild goose chase, and having fun at her expense. Believe me, when it all comes crashing down as it eventually does, such women might end up going ballistic on you, when they realise that the whole relationship was nothing more than a game to you. Or a trip to hype your women-chasing skills.

A lot of women are far more intuitive than men. At the end of the day, no matter how rich or loaded such women are, they still want relationships based on truth, honesty, respect, understanding, accountability etc. All the 'first time' stuff, shooting range exercises, skydiving activities are just hype, when compared to the substance of what makes a relationship truly great, or what makes it last.

Such things will not mean much, when a woman realises that your words are largely meaningless, and a relationship with a man like you, is just a means to score a 'hit,' with her.

AlphaMajestic:
to me I think the point here is the importance of unlocking a girl emotionally....wat u do afterwards is whr these judgements can come....in a world whr feminism is gradually becoming a movement..Nd so many guys are too naive to handle or even understand this theory...dats y dis days u see so many news about relationships ending with so much brutality Nd even death..I fink there is need for dis knowledge Nd tactics..a man needs a way to control and keep woman loyal...it doesn't work with money most times..

laudate:


Unlocking a girl...emotionally? For just what, exactly? What happened to lavishing love & respect on her, and letting her love you in return?

And why on earth should a man ever need a way to control and keep woman loyal? Is the woman a piece of machinery, or a unit of equipment? Isn't she a human being? All that talk of emotionally unlocking a woman, sounds like manipulation of the highest order. Shouldn't a woman too look for ways to emotionally unlock a man?

AlphaMajestic:
looool....well done madam...I didn't knw I was replying a woman...let alone a feminist..sowi ur half d man if not d man sef

theapeman4:
this one is talking jargons

kimbraa:
Coming from a guy? Nigeria will be good some day. Allow the kids to keep whinning.

laudate:


Unlocking a girl...emotionally? For just what, exactly? What happened to lavishing love & respect on her, and letting her love you in return?

And why on earth should a man ever need a way to control and keep woman loyal? ?

Boland:
Hello Nairalanders,

I read a thread where a guy was complaining about ladies demanding too much from him and I understand his plight and also, I believe he is yet to face reality.

We all have the responsibility to grow and as such we don't just grow physically, we grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually (this applies to religious folks).

If you want a lady as your own, don't just rush to get anyone to satisfy your sexual urge, you have the responsibility of seaching, waiting and checking well before getting a lady that suits your taste and one that won't be a weight to your race in life.
You wouldn't expect apple to grow on a coconut tree just the same way you shouldn't expect maturity and independence from a teenage girl or some typical kind of girls.If what you want doesn't exist in their own world, you have no business with them.

It's high time y'all started to acknowledge that a Man that intends to manifest as a Man has the responsibilty of providing. If you're yet to possess the "Men's quality", kindly wait untill when you'll be, don't complain, focus on what matters, and if you see a lady that believes in your dream and if she's ready to go through the "rough times" with you, nice, but if not, don't complain.

I see slay queens everyday and I know in my mind that I have absolutely no business with them, all I can do is to preach Jesus to them if I see anyone that cares to listen.
And I see most of y'all complain about Feminism when in actual sense those qualities these feminists possess are what fits into the criterion of the type of lady you want.

The world is what it is, learn how to deal with it. Complaining only proves that you're not fit to deal with it, which may also mean that you don't intend to grow.

Let the Men be Men and Women be Women.

Hanseel1:


nah coming from a lady ... shey you're a feminist? why are you jubilating over the post?

Kimbraa and shugavee always advocating for fake feminism only when it suits them...

A young lady of 27 calling people kids


men dor suffer for nairaland..

kimbraa:
Do you consider yourself a man? Do I need to be above 27 to have the right to call your likes kids?

kimbraa:
Do you consider yourself a man? Do I need to be above 27 to have the right to call your likes kids?

Boland:
Hello Nairalanders,

I read a thread where a guy was complaining about ladies demanding too much from him and I understand his plight and also, I believe he is yet to face reality.

We all have the responsibility to grow and as such we don't just grow physically, we grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually (this applies to religious folks).

If you want a lady as your own, don't just rush to get anyone to satisfy your sexual urge, you have the responsibility of seaching, waiting and checking well before getting a lady that suits your taste and one that won't be a weight to your race in life.
You wouldn't expect apple to grow on a coconut tree just the same way you shouldn't expect maturity and independence from a teenage girl or some typical kind of girls.If what you want doesn't exist in their own world, you have no business with them.

It's high time y'all started to acknowledge that a Man that intends to manifest as a Man has the responsibilty of providing. If you're yet to possess the "Men's quality", kindly wait untill when you'll be, don't complain, focus on what matters, and if you see a lady that believes in your dream and if she's ready to go through the "rough times" with you, nice, but if not, don't complain.

I see slay queens everyday and I know in my mind that I have absolutely no business with them, all I can do is to preach Jesus to them if I see anyone that cares to listen.
And I see most of y'all complain about Feminism when in actual sense those qualities these feminists possess are what fits into the criterion of the type of lady you want.

The world is what it is, learn how to deal with it. Complaining only proves that you're not fit to deal with it, which may also mean that you don't intend to grow.

Let the Men be Men and Women be Women.

kimbraa:
Do you consider yourself a man? Do I need to be above 27 to have the right to call your likes kids?

Olifiz:


We are still sayin the same thing bro. But as u have said I’ll stand on this fact that a man can take most responsibilities if only she’s willing to stick to what the man is offering. So we good.

Hanseel1:



[s] Lol... Does this post even sound sensible to you?
I should consider myself a man only when I'm against feminism ...dumbest post I ever read on nairaland since 2014.

You're still a kid living with her parents so face the reality and stop laughing everywhere.


Nairaland has tried enough in giving these kids cover ups.

Please don't quote me.. I don't tolerate nonsense [/s]

AlphaMajestic:


u again this prostitute ...av u come bk again to disturb d peace of dis forum....it's like when they finish giving u head u will become too excited den start constituting nuisances anywhr possible.... nawa for u o..

Deltayankeeboi:
sis. at any age you are at all, just because someone does not agree with your opinion does not warrant calling them kids. the way girls here try to belittle the personality of guys by calling them "boys" "kids" especially when it comes to money and relationship threads is absurd. This is a faceless forum. You dont know me, i dont know you.

you girls should learn to keep it in check

Okay!

Deltayankeeboi:
sis. at any age you are at all, just because someone does not agree with your opinion does not warrant calling them kids. the way girls here try to belittle the personality of guys by calling them "boys" "kids" especially when it comes to money and relationship threads is absurd. This is a faceless forum. You dont know me, i dont know you.

you girls should learn to keep it in check

kimbraa:
I asked you a question, mr. Do you consider yourself a man? 'cause you said men don suffer for this forum.

I'm not going to go into feminism discourse with you 'cause 99.9% of your likes don't get the concept, and that's the only reason why you dread feminist but want women to be independent.

laudate:

I saw you describing how you embark on a game to 'bust a woman's emotional cherry,' in order to get her hooked to you. And I responded that what makes a relationship truly great are attributes with substance, such as respect, honesty, transparency, affection, accountability, etc, and not just some hype related to busting cherries. So why are you getting defensive?

AlphaMajestic:


u dnt even knw who ur replying....
dis is a gal DAT told d whole nairaland DAT she can't do anytin wid a guy DAT doesn't suck her Virginia...and DAT she doesn't use condom....
imagine....which kind yama yama talk be DAT...
u knw since it's a faceless forum...we cud be indulging wid demons widout knowing it..ha I tire for dis kim.braa

kimbraa:
I asked you a question, mr. Do you consider yourself a man? 'cause you said men don suffer for this forum.

I'm not going to go into feminism discourse with you 'cause 99.9% of your likes don't get the concept, and that's the only reason why you dread feminist but want women to be independent.

Hanseel1:


I don't consider myself a man

Weytin man no go see for nairaland... even my daughter's age mate is talking to me in a very disrespectful manner.

Kid when you get to 30 I believe you'll be able to differentiate between liberal and Marxist feminism because you cry for equality when shí seems bad but turn around when shí is in your favour.

kimbraa:
So now I'm your daughter's age mate? Grandpa! I thought you said you don't tolerate nonsense so why do you keep quoting me?

Hanseel1:


May amadioha shut that mouth for you.

Don't you respect elders in your tradition?