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Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by ubunja(m): 4:18am On May 23, 2018 |
highqueen:only if you cook and serve food on your knees. otherwise we're equals and i dont provide for an equal |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by ubunja(m): 4:21am On May 23, 2018 |
WOMEN LOGIC: money matters = you're head of the house work chores = we're equal and anyone can cook, do laundry. *spits* 4 Likes |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by highqueen(f): 4:24am On May 23, 2018 |
ubunja:so when does kneeling to serve my husby becomes a crime? we are admonished to do so by God,and in all sense,it's what it should be. my husby is my Lord. so,kneeling to serve him food isn't a problem,he should provide 100%. |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by engrelvis(m): 4:28am On May 23, 2018 |
Deji63:bro dis is nt about ubunja or whatever his name his.dis post is about women helping men to early grave because of lack of financial support.our Nigerian women is very gud at dat.most of our ladies equate obedience in relationship or marriage to money.ubunja v right to his own opinion.everybody cannot b d same.infact dis diversity in opinion is what make Nl interesting n amusing.if u dnt like his comments skip it.is a free world bro |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by engrelvis(m): 4:29am On May 23, 2018 |
Deji63:bro dis is nt about ubunja or whatever his name hs.dis post is about our women helping men to early grave because of lack of financial support.our Nigerian women are very gud at dat.most of our ladies equate obedience in relationship or marriage to money.ubunja v right to his own opinion.everybody cannot b d same.infact dis diversity in opinion is what make Nl interesting n amusing.if u dnt like his comments skip it.is a free world bro |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by engrelvis(m): 4:40am On May 23, 2018 |
highqueen:dis exactly what I was saying.so u won't knee or respect yr husband if he doesn't provide for u .I weep for Nigerian women but thank God civilization n travelling out is beginning to open men eyes here.most Nigerian ladies becomes terror in their home when dey r financially in control . women shud work n assist at home but shud nt make their marriage a living hell because dey r contributing . |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by highqueen(f): 4:44am On May 23, 2018 |
engrelvis:how?what makes you a man if you can't keep a home? unless he has difficulty in his finances if not,why would you marry to suffer your wife? or you didn't read the bible passage that said men should provide for their wife. yes,women are meant to assist that was why I initially said 70:30. |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by engrelvis(m): 5:11am On May 23, 2018 |
highqueen:so is money dat makes u a man abi? Look at yr thinking.travel out b expose n stop dis primitive n archaic way of thinking .is nt only when yr man is in financial difficulties dat u assist.make it a duty to b contributing to d house.it makes house grows faster.d Bible didn't say u should kill yr husband with financially responsibilities .one of d reason we train n assist our children is for dem to take care of us at old age.u saying a man shud do everything so .woe betide d man if u v quarrel with him.u will gather all yr children to yrsef n leave dat man who v use all his youth to take care of u n d children.there alot of old Nigerian men left alone in their houses to suffer.is only when same children marry dey will finally realize their mistakes n by den In most cases d father has gone . |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by ubunja(m): 8:30am On May 23, 2018 |
highqueen:maybe you misread me or i failed to put my point clearly. i mean what you mean above. thats why im all for dependent women coz thats the setup my fragile ego can abide. i work you dont. i sweat at work you make the home and family a joy to return to after a day of work. |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by highqueen(f): 1:16pm On May 23, 2018 |
ubunja:mmm,why do you think that a woman who works won't still serve her husby while kneeling? he's my husby for God's sake. |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by ubunja(m): 1:49pm On May 23, 2018 |
highqueen:why would i need a working woman? |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by jay4rhyme: 1:56pm On May 23, 2018 |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by Nobody: 12:56am On May 24, 2018 |
highqueen: Women cannot decide whether to assist or not.. infact there's nothing like assisting... it's their responsibility to co-provide though the man should provide more... it's not just negotiable if you can't contribute stay single... |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by Nobody: 12:57am On May 24, 2018 |
highqueen: kneeling to serve your husband is uncivilized and primitive.. |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by Nobody: 12:59am On May 24, 2018 |
highqueen: Nothing like helper. . helper is a scam she's a co-privider.. it's not negotiable 70/30 still makes her a co-provider any woman who's not ready to contribute more than 20% shouldn't get married. |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by Nobody: 5:17am On May 24, 2018 |
Elder001: Elder001. I have been reading your comments and posts lately and I must say you are doing a great job educating our men and woman about their responsibilities. I just find it strange why woman see relationships as a poverty alleviation scheme. You need to come to ibadan and see how many girls think here... You will be disappointed. Go to India, China, US, UK etc, women are working hard to be financially independent. But here in Nigeria, most of our women are watching Telemundo, doing make-up and learning all uncouth tactics to find a man who will provide their needs. Many lazy women everywhere in Nigeria looking for guys to share their financial burden Just busy now. But when I'm free, I will find time to write a 500 article to help women see through their folly. Read this https://www.nairaland.com/4427500/sending-most-naija-ladies-school |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by pedrilo: 8:18am On May 24, 2018 |
our girls will never accept your research findings |
Re: Being The Sole Provider Is Bad For A Man's Health by ImaIma1(f): 12:34pm On May 24, 2018 |
SexExplorer: There are so many working class ladies. In fact in my former office branch, there were 70% ladies...even the BM and Operations manager were ladies. The last job interview i attended,one of the interviewers actually said that women seem to be doing a lot better in their careers and that men are getting laid back and too proud and egoistic to take up some jobs. So your assertion is not exactly true. Try dating working class ladies not these chewing gum girls you talked about. |
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