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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by khalhokage(m): 7:43am On May 23, 2018
msylva2147:
sometimes a lady may give you a wrong number but end up looking for you and apologising to you for giving you wrong number. I had a lady who gave me a wrong number and a wrong name at the same time but end up looking for me. She first claimed that her phone was off so I gave her my number after which I tried calling but it was not going through, so I fashy it, just for her to call and I was was like who is on the line and she now called her real name forgetting that she gave me a wrong name when I said sorry I don't remember anyone with such name and started explaining who she is and how we met. But today she can't stay for a day without hearing from me and time to time she comes around to have some fun with me.

Then let it be like that, if they later regret giving you wrong number, let them look for you and apologize, don't force them to give out their contact information.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 8:19am On May 23, 2018
If i meet a woman that i like, I flirt with her seriously at that point. Last last, i know deep down within me that, I can never be faithful in a relationship, that's why I try my best to make my intentions known to her.

I just wanna fvck bad bitch£s , all night i never had bitch£s
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 8:40am On May 23, 2018
This points are so one-sided. I'm a "No means No" kinda guy. I've realized that ladies hate it with passion. I've asked some girls out and when they didn't give me a straight forward answer or say I should wait or have patience or give time to think about it, I withdraw immediately. I still remain friends but I never mention love ever again. In my experiences, I realized ladies don't like. They hate it and some have confronted me about it. Some asked me "you been dey find my mouth? " "don't you know I'm a lady?" Etc. But once you don't give me satisfactory answer and attitude the first date or time of my asking you out, I get my mind off you.

I do this to safeguard my heart, my time and my finance. If you want to start wooing, impressing, pressurizing and waiting on a lady that's not yet your woman, then you're making yourself vulnerable and open to be used, manipulated and abused. Ladies have no conscience and they'll treat you bad, milk you, manipulate and abuse you when they know you still stick around after getting a No for an answer. The truth is , ladies are highly manipulative and they always love to have an edge over you.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Dottore: 8:56am On May 23, 2018
All this rubbish just to fvck. Op is the reason why some ladies are rude to some men. Why do you guys overrate wooing a lady.
The truth is that you could waste a good precious time trying to get a lady's attention whereas a guy man will just play a fast one and fvck her brains out in a day or two. Keep forming gentleman.
There's no lady that is not attracted to good looks, comfort and spending spree. So increase your hustle get cash and believe me you'd fvck her and she'd lay in your chest gossiping about the gentleman that's taking things easy to get between her laps.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by JastSiryin(m): 9:04am On May 23, 2018
Ramanto:
Not pride, i rarely ask for girls' numbers. I rather give them mine, and ask them to call. And if she doesn't call, i know she's not into me, and i just forget about her.
Hmm...so what's been your success rate on that
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Tedassie(m): 9:05am On May 23, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
There's a woman for every man.
Really?
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Holysucker(m): 9:08am On May 23, 2018
sykeng:
Baba as for me I don't have that time anymore to be chasing girl up and down,at times if I even think about the hurdles I ll pass through in asking a call out. My time, money etc, I ll just let go. because if God can even make night to become day, hustlers go happy oooo, for now since we still have day and night, no time for bullshit. make the girls them pack well.

Gbam....3crates of any brand of ur choice...u just nailed it....salute

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Ramanto(m): 9:27am On May 23, 2018
JastSiryin:
Hmm...so what's been your success rate on that
Not bad. Trust me. I don't know how to run after girls.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Samunosuke(m): 9:28am On May 23, 2018
khalhokage:


Then let it be like that, if they later regret giving you wrong number, let them look for you and apologize, don't force them to give out their contact information.

Bros, na wa o! Which kind greed be this? Only you Khal and Hokage at the same time? Drogo/Hajirama.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by khalhokage(m): 9:32am On May 23, 2018
Samunosuke:


Bros, na wa o! Which kind greed be this? Only you Khal and Hokage at the same time? Drogo/Hajirama.

Lol, see Sasuke don get mind to talk to a whole Hokage anyhow. No wahala.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Donspicey: 9:34am On May 23, 2018
We Are Looking For Bullhari Brain U Re Here Transmitting What I Don't Understand,,,.Who Love Epp
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Yoshy: 9:36am On May 23, 2018
DonPiiko:
Women are not worth disturbing ourselves about, just make money and watch them fall over you. If I was serious and posted on my facebook that I need a wife, my inbox will be blown up. Freedom is priceless, be sure that you are emotionally and financially stable before you start worrying your head. There is a woman for every man

You might get the attention of a girl with value through money, but you can't make her to date you. I have seen a very beautiful girl that was properly groomed reject a Good fearing multi millionaire(the son of a pastor sef) for an average guy with at most 200k salary.

Money will make you miserable if you think you can use it to get every girl, any girl.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 9:37am On May 23, 2018
Takeproft:
This points are so one-sided. I'm a "No means No" kinda guy. I've realized that ladies hate it with passion. I've asked some girls out and when they didn't give me a straight forward answer or say I should wait or have patience or give time to think about it, I withdraw immediately. I still remain friends but I never mention love ever again. In my experiences, I realized ladies don't like. They hate it and some have confronted me about it. Some asked me "you been dey find my mouth? " "don't you know I'm a lady?" Etc. But once you don't give me satisfactory answer and attitude the first date or time of my asking you out, I get my mind off you.

I do this to safeguard my heart, my time and my finance. If you want to start wooing, impressing, pressurizing and waiting on a lady that's not yet your woman, then you're making yourself vulnerable and open to be used, manipulated and abused. Ladies have no conscience and they'll treat you bad, milk you, manipulate and abuse you when they know you still stick around after getting a No for an answer. The truth is , ladies are highly manipulative and they always love to have an edge over you.

I second this.

I tell them pomp and plain that I'm not one to chase. In fact, most of my most fulfilling relationships were ones where we hit it off right from the onset.

If she tripping, leave the bítch alone jare.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by mediclife1987(m): 9:43am On May 23, 2018
sykeng:
Baba as for me I don't have that time anymore to be chasing girl up and down,at times if I even think about the hurdles I ll pass through in asking a call out. My time, money etc, I ll just let go. because if God can even make night to become day, hustlers go happy oooo, for now since we still have day and night, no time for bullshit. make the girls them pack well.

I've noticed that once you STOP giving a shyt about people is when they START giving a shyt about you.

It's just a game really and whoever plays it best always win.

Bro abeg make we relate unto that hustling level, I don send you mail...

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by donqx: 9:50am On May 23, 2018
hmm
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by mediclife1987(m): 9:51am On May 23, 2018
msylva2147:
sometimes a lady may give you a wrong number but end up looking for you and apologising to you for giving you wrong number. I had a lady who gave me a wrong number and a wrong name at the same time but end up looking for me. She first claimed that her phone was off so I gave her my number after which I tried calling but it was not going through, so I fashy it, just for her to call and I was was like who is on the line and she now called her real name forgetting that she gave me a wrong name when I said sorry I don't remember anyone with such name and started explaining who she is and how we met. But today she can't stay for a day without hearing from me and time to time she comes around to have some fun with me.

Is she d girl in your dp?
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by mediclife1987(m): 9:59am On May 23, 2018
CSTR1003:
Early morning, na girl matter una dey discuss?

The formula to get a woman is constant.

Comfortable life, good dressing, tolerable manners and a measure of class.

That is all

I have a friend that different matured women he doesn't even know before, visit him in the office to woo him on an almost weekly basis.
He is tired of free sex.

In fact, he tells his secretary to send away any woman looking for him and cannot state any official reason for the visit.


He is the general manager of a mere petrol station.

Bros, na petril station you dey call "mere" laidat? And you think he's getting free sex? For ya mind....that bros dey pay, take it from me!

Link me up with the man sha.... wink
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by fredagu: 10:12am On May 23, 2018
Ladies dnt marry diz daz becauz dey kip tryin to play a fast 1 on piple who truly luv dem u might cal him maga time wil cum wen he wil notice wat ur doin nd u wil lose him does luv wil turn to hate even bible said dat u sha receive if u gv hes nt a maga if he cares cuz time wil cum wen no 1 wil even care 4 u nd u wil turn 40 stil lukin 4 men to play fast 1 on if u cant date hm tel him he wil feel bad buh he wil move on nd he wil respect u
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by monex(m): 10:17am On May 23, 2018
Takeproft:
This points are so one-sided. I'm a "No means No" kinda guy. I've realized that ladies hate it with passion. I've asked some girls out and when they didn't give me a straight forward answer or say I should wait or have patience or give time to think about it, I withdraw immediately. I still remain friends but I never mention love ever again. In my experiences, I realized ladies don't like. They hate it and some have confronted me about it. Some asked me "you been dey find my mouth? " "don't you know I'm a lady?" Etc. But once you don't give me satisfactory answer and attitude the first date or time of my asking you out, I get my mind off you.

I do this to safeguard my heart, my time and my finance. If you want to start wooing, impressing, pressurizing and waiting on a lady that's not yet your woman, then you're making yourself vulnerable and open to be used, manipulated and abused. Ladies have no conscience and they'll treat you bad, milk you, manipulate and abuse you when they know you still stick around after getting a No for an answer. The truth is , ladies are highly manipulative and they always love to have an edge over you.

there is no one size fits all. Some ladies want you to pester/persevere a bit while others want you to get the hint and let her be
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by DonX001: 10:28am On May 23, 2018
Takeproft:
This points are so one-sided. I'm a "No means No" kinda guy. I've realized that ladies hate it with passion. I've asked some girls out and when they didn't give me a straight forward answer or say I should wait or have patience or give time to think about it, I withdraw immediately. I still remain friends but I never mention love ever again. In my experiences, I realized ladies don't like. They hate it and some have confronted me about it. Some asked me "you been dey find my mouth? " "don't you know I'm a lady?" Etc. But once you don't give me satisfactory answer and attitude the first date or time of my asking you out, I get my mind off you.

I do this to safeguard my heart, my time and my finance. If you want to start wooing, impressing, pressurizing and waiting on a lady that's not yet your woman, then you're making yourself vulnerable and open to be used, manipulated and abused. Ladies have no conscience and they'll treat you bad, milk you, manipulate and abuse you when they know you still stick around after getting a No for an answer. The truth is , ladies are highly manipulative and they always love to have an edge over you.
Gbam!!!
2 crates of Orijin for you.
No time to check time.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 10:39am On May 23, 2018
There is a woman for every man, no time to decode body language, was the summary of my opinion
Yoshy:


You might get the attention of a girl with value through money, but you can't make her to date you. I have seen a very beautiful girl that was properly groomed reject a Good fearing multi millionaire(the son of a pastor sef) for an average guy with at most 200k salary.

Money will make you miserable if you think you can use it to get every girl, any girl.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by King44(m): 10:43am On May 23, 2018
My success % in dating girls who like me is like 90% but girls I approach 5%, I have made up my mind not to try hard if it comes it comes and if it doesn't i
OK, n I wonder why girls don't talk if they are actually attracted to you, while some would use body language and if you are not quick to understand you u don miss b that
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 10:49am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
lol...
it's on record that I have never woo a lady to get the "No" answer, because I don't just walk up to random ladies to start a pick up line or so.

if I like a lady, all I do is form familiarity, it's takes weeks or even month, I may not even ask for your number until am sure u won't say "NO" I built all this things just cos of my ego,

I can't stop a girl on the road, never, if she nags or yell at me, I may go mad for days. I can lift a lady on the road and within me right inside my car I know if I ask of her number she will gladly give me, infact she will be expecting me to say " can I have your digit" but never, I just keep her in suspense for a long time so when I give out my normal pick up line.. the answer is "hmmmmm" and when a lady tells u this, bros u are already close to Hmmmm...

if u know u know.



Your comment got me rolling on the floor with laugh
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by folake4u(f): 10:56am On May 23, 2018
1stCitizen:

Romance with no finance. Is that one romance



Lol, this one weak me.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by chris31(m): 11:12am On May 23, 2018
Most Nigerian girls have lost their value
I haven't cross part with my kind of woman
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by tunydaves: 11:28am On May 23, 2018
Abeg wetin b d meaning of "OP" that you are saying here
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 23, 2018
tunydaves:
Abeg wetin b d meaning of "OP" that you are saying here
original poster
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by harriet412(f): 3:07pm On May 23, 2018
For once I agree with the op on a topic like this... I admit to some of these things
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 3:14pm On May 23, 2018
Tedassie:

Really?
Yes. Don't u believe?
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by keetel(f): 7:55pm On May 23, 2018
Plz use paragraphs, spacing and punctuation to make it more readable. This write-up looks like a pile of mess
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by djon78(m): 8:51pm On May 23, 2018
Dottore:
All this rubbish just to fvck. Op is the reason why some ladies are rude to some men. Why do you guys overrate wooing a lady.
The truth is that you could waste a good precious time trying to get a lady's attention whereas a guy man will just play a fast one and fvck her brains out in a day or two. Keep forming gentleman.
There's no lady that is not attracted to good looks, comfort and spending spree. So increase your hustle get cash and believe me you'd fvck her and she'd lay in your chest gossiping about the gentleman that's taking things easy to get between her laps.



But in the end she is not a woman of virtue. She is very very cheap bro.
Try hook yourself with a woman of virtue, not cheap loose women.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 9:29pm On May 23, 2018
in my case, I hooked up with a lady, for two weeeks we were talking very well on phone so when ever I want to fix an appointment for us to have a date she keep giving me flimsy excuses to a point were she told me to stop calling her that she have a boyfriend , immediately I drop the call I just hit my delete button. was to fast or wrong

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