PUSSYHOE:
The devil takes two form, money and woman. Today women and money are best of friends and inseparable.

eph12:
Is your uncle complaining?

Sonoflord:
can a wife display all this to his husband within 1yrs of their marriage

eph12:

You need to know that they're different things people look for in marriage. Everybody has flaws but we agree

braunstrowman:
my brother if your wife get or display all this character op mentioned above my brother you need to warn her because if you fail to do so, you are risking your life and your family future.

eph12:

What if she's not like that to the husband? Or this op is just blowing it out of proportion?

braunstrowman:
like he stated the marriage is still a year and no wife will display his all his career to her husband within a year. It takes time before her husband find out what's going on.

I don't think he's saying this out of proportion.

braunstrowman:
Hell no bro

Marry her for what, so she will destroy my family and business with her lazy and wicked soul.

No no

I rather marry a white girl than Nigeria girl

Nigeria girls very disgusting human being without any brain in them.

eph12:

Why?

kingkakaone:

Most of y'all have turned a completely harmless forum into a gender based war.

There is no topic that opens relating to women that some guys will not attack all women for it, so
likewise most of the females to every male related threads

It makes me refrain from airing my view most times so I won't be seen as a gender jingoist.

Most of u need to be patient and u have to learn that by driving Ur car along woji road in PH where keke napep will help u tattoo Ur car. How many of them can u hold daily to fix ur car?

braunstrowman:
I can't speak for the op

I was assuming

eph12:

You need to know that they're different things people look for in marriage. Everybody has flaws but we agree to go ahead with the marriage because we either believe they're enough good to overshadow those flaws or it's something you can live with. There may be some good sides to your uncle's wife that's making her adorable to your uncle.

That's why I asked if your uncle is complaining

braunstrowman:
like he stated the marriage is still a year and no wife will display his all his career to her husband within a year. It takes time before her husband find out what's going on.

I don't think he's saying this out of proportion.

Sonoflord:
but her own is too much even her mother inlaw had noticed her bad character.

eph12:

What if she's not like that to the husband? Or this op is just blowing it out of proportion?

Sonoflord:


Guys can you live will just that of woman or take her as wife.


Why am saying is because I am fed up with my uncle's wife.

She's lazy, self-centred, wicked and can insult beyond understanding not even a good cook.

I don't just know how some guys will not check their wife character before marriage.

I'M SURE YOUR UNCLE IS ALSO FED UP WITH HER, BUT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO GO AROUND IT... NO MAN CAN EVER BE TRULY HAPPY MARRIED TO A WOMAN LIKE THAT.

MAKE YOUR UNCLE HAPPY AND PROUD... POISON HER.

lefulefu:
as long as op's uncle and the woman date b4 she became his wife,there's no how he wont notice her flaws. No matter how she try hide her character...it must show one day or d other. The only way u no fit detect a woman's character na if dem arrange the wife give u.

eph12:

I see.

But you don't think it's unfair to assume without hearing both sides of the story? Many innocent people have been destroyed physically or emotionally because of this

braunstrowman:
I don't think is unfair to assume without hearing but in this case there's no need to hear from both sides because women character are more than what this op posted

Fear women if you want to go far on life

eph12:

Give me examples of people that feared women and have gone far in life

braunstrowman:
yes the her characters will show one day truly but what if she had been hiding her characters from the man when they were dating.

braunstrowman:
my Dad

Not only he feared them but he excommunicated himself from them.

lefulefu:
its not that easy for a woman to hide her character when she's dating u.she be superwoman? See Tonto dike and churchhill for example. The time churchhill dey date tonto dike he saw many of her unpleasant character but then he went ahead and married her. So na so e be.woman no fit hide her bad character from u if she get. So its left for u to go ahead and marry her thinking she will change or just break up with her.

eph12:

Where's the far that he has gone?

braunstrowman:
I No fit find bad character my girlfriend get when we date and still go ahead and marry her.

Marriage is everlasting institution and one need to be careful on who he date or will take as wife.

braunstrowman:
guy you never suffer heartbreak before.

There should be a very big bridge between us and this female folks