I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Sorry! Forgive yourself and move on.

We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

Did you just ask what you should do?

Well, you won't hear it from my mouth that you are foolish and stupid for asking such question.

Love kill you dia.

bro i feel u... but when u are in a relationship always prepare your mind. ask yourself if i should walk in on my gf banging a guy what would i do, how would I react.... now u have seen a text she sent. how did u react how are u feeling.








Summary Always be prepared for the worst in any relationship

What will you do? Go and cook rice. It's a Sunday

Blind trust is dangerous... Sorry my dear OP

and Please end the relationship or stay in it for the fun of it

Safiaa:
We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

Like seriously?

TonyeBarcanista:

Like seriously?

Fact!

Safiaa:
We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

Love then is either overrated or doesn't really exist.

Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

Eeeya!

Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

Another one going

How long have you been dating her? If you just started dating her recently please give her some space and stop checking her phone. Don't do it! She's not even sure she wants to be with you yet. How old is she? Maturity plays a big role here if she's still very young it's common with girls her age who don't know what they want from a guy yet.

Here's my advice for everyone in a relationship or going into one,
While you hope for the best, expect the worst.

TonyeBarcanista:

Like seriously?

YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

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Have a nice day.

Take a deep breath bro, you'll heal.

eph12:

Love then is either overrated or doesn't really exist.

To me I don’t think it really exist, only between a mother and child. But hey, it’s romantic to say “I love you” to your partner, so let us continue and be happy

iLegendd:
When they tell you guys to purchase our books and read about relationship and dating, some of you think we want to steal your money.

Anyway, click this link and check them out: www.wetclef.com/topic467.html

Have a nice day.

LOL

Grieve for being a fool in love
Learn from your mistakes namely if a woman is always accusing you of cheating or makes it a point of checking your phone she is the one doing exactly what she is accusing you of!
Last but not least make an effort to know someone first.

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would be still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

No romantic love is unconditional, yet it doesn't mean it isn't love. All romantic love is conditional.

However, if certain things befall a partner like accident, amputation, illness etc love requires we stand firm BUT when a woman has no vagina (she's not a woman BTW), sickly or handicapped from the onset, the man has the choice to commit or not to commit as long as she opens up to him from the onset else it becomes deception on her part.

BUT

When a woman engage in illicit conduct or misbehavior, dumping her becomes necessary and it doesn't invalidate the love that once existed.

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eph12:

Love then is either overrated or doesn't really exist.

Doesn't really exist 'anymore'

TonyeBarcanista:

No romantic love is unconditional, yet it doesn't mean it isn't love. All romantic love is conditional.

However, if certain things befall a partner like accident, amputation, illness etc love requires we stand firm BUT when a woman has no vagina (she's not a woman BTW), sickly or handicapped from the onset, the man has the choice to commit or not to commit as long as she opens up to him from the onset else it becomes deception on her part.

BUT

When a woman engage in illicit conduct or misbehavior, dumping her becomes necessary and it doesn't invalidate the love that once existed.

If love is conditional it’s not true love. Period!!!!! No if buts or maybes.

Before i'd read lemme give you an advice base on your post title (Topic)... Ain't no sniper around? I heard nothing cools mind like that drink. Maybe you should try some.

Safiaa:
Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

There's no such a thing as unconditional love, not on earth and not even in the realm of the spirits. Even God's love isn't unconditional otherwise there would be no need for him to ask us to keep his commandments and believe in Jesus.

To love unconditional means they can kill all your family and you will still love them the same. And hey! What will a man do with a woman who doesn't have vagina?

Safiaa:
If love is conditional it’s not true love. Period!!!!! No if buts or maybes.

No romantic love is unconditional, only Christ love unconditionally but making heaven is conditional my Dear.

If you expect any love to be unconditional then you must go back to check the meaning of the word 'love'.

Tallesty1:
There's no such as unconditional love, not on and not even in the realm of the spirits. Even God's love isn't unconditional otherwise there would no need for him to ask us to keep his commandment and believe in Jesus.

No. despite all these commandments, whether we decide to abide by them or not, the love Jesus has for us remains. Just like as a parent you expect your child to abide by certain rules, but regardless you’ll still love them and treat them as your own. That is unconditional regardless of whatever.

Now in a relationship, man to woman, take some certain conditions away, and the love will eventually fizzle out. You love them based on what they can offer you, not for simply being who they are. That’s the difference.

TonyeBarcanista:

No romantic love is unconditional, only Christ love unconditionally but making heaven is conditional my Dear.

If you expect any love to be unconditional then you must go back to check the meaning of the word 'love'.

Exactly, so then can we really call that true love? I don’t think so, I don’t define that as love. You love the conditons that come with the person. Not the person themselves.

Tallesty1:
There's no such a thing as unconditional love, not on earth and not even in the realm of the spirits. Even God's love isn't unconditional otherwise there would be no need for him to ask us to keep his commandments and believe in Jesus.

To love unconditional means they can kill all your family and you will still love them the same. And hey! What will a man do with a woman who doesn't have vagina?

@emboldened. I 101% agree. And to add to it, god wouldnt have left his followers to choose between heaven or hell if his love was unconditional