nick50:
That's one of the dangers of the so called gender equality preached by the western world.. We are Africans n we have a different culture.. Just take a look at d increasing number of divorce in our society today.. I will rather have a baby mama instead of buying problems with my money

Flickzvill:
nd marry them.

gbagyiza:


We r not generalizing, agreed few of them have gud manners n fear of God but majority of them lack manners, they want to be d head of d house always in control of d husband..They want to be d final say in d family always acting as d husband..A lot of men are dying in silent from their wives behaviours n lack of respect for them..If u can make out time n do a kind of investigation/ research on this , u will be shocked with d outcome.

Thesia:
All of u men should go to f*cking damn hell with ur submission sh*t..

It just f*cking annoying

take it easy no body is fighting with u the op, ask a simple question.relax

Thesia:
All of u men should go to f*cking damn hell with ur submission sh*t..

It just f*cking annoying

victorian:
Don't you people get tired?
Women this, women that!
Women are leeches, women are whores, women are evil, women are lazy.

Now, Women are now doing their own thing, you men are still complaining.

Smhhh.

When una taya, you people will go and rest. Life continues.

obembet:
Maybe yours... Cos of the way you handle and treat her

If your treat your wife/gfriend as a queen, she will respect you.

Cos my wife Respect me all the time

Either am with her or not... She gives me what I deserve.

desiregold:
All this guys throwing insults on ladies on this thread, just because we gave our opinion. Hmmmmmm


Biko, how do you expect us to respect you when all you do is to abuse us verbally as a hubby and bf?

Respect is reciprocal..!

You dont dish out sh.it to us in the name of husband or bf and expect respect in return.

Ivorianaija:


Do not hate the man you must educate.

samsam2019:
Na the men cos am.




Our fathers back then we're real men. Champs. You misbehave and you'll come home to meet a younger, prettier woman , home sucking his dick

Thesia:


Once I have the money, and i am financially off, who man help, Rubbish....

Marriage is just f*cking sh*t, cus I don't see how that help...

Am still saying it, some are disgusting misogynist bastards sons of bitches...

PS: am a misandry, go and check it up, that is why I hate men the most...

Cus they are just fantastically worthless piece of shits....

Amarabae:
So your wife is like a slave that you order around?
If any young man goes into marriage with this your mentality, such a person will never enjoy the marriage.
Whenever you see a married man nagging about "submission" then know that there is no affection in his marriage,
When there is an affection in the marriage, it will take nothing for a wife who is doing a laundry chores to take her husband's wears and wash off especially if the man is the busy type.
She is not washing it because it is a law but because of Love.
Building and maintaining affection in marriage should be the aim of anybody married and not all this submission thing.

Amarabae:
So your wife is like a slave that you order around?
If any young man goes into marriage with this your mentality, such a person will never enjoy the marriage.
Whenever you see a married man nagging about "submission" then know that there is no affection in his marriage,
When there is an affection in the marriage, it will take nothing for a wife who is doing a laundry chores to take her husband's wears and wash off especially if the man is the busy type.
She is not washing it because it is a law but because of Love.
Building and maintaining affection in marriage should be the aim of anybody married and not all this submission thing.

ImaIma1:


Why should he tell his wife to shut up when he is talking?

All these points you raised did not start in this generation. It has nothing to do with women of today. Absolutely nothing.

And you cannot even compare then with now. Then, the husband worked and brought in the money while the wife stayed home and took care of the house and kids.

You cannot expect it to be exactly the same when the woman also works as hard as the man or even harder and still bears children, takes care of the children and the home. Of course she will feel cheated when she is still treated without consideration.

Marriage is an agreement between two people. Couples should try to make life easy for each other without one feeling neglected or disrespected.

obowunmi:
Women love money.

Most men are poor, broke, lazy and jobless.

Therefore, no money, no honey, no respect.

stagger:


Mr man, submission does not mean the woman should prostrate before her husband every morning and evening! Every ship has a captain. Every team must have a team leader, and in marriage, that is the man. A good team leader must cultivate sound judgement on how to handle issues and must provide for the welfare of the team members.

Why is it that in football, when a team has a lot of players tackling and causing chaos, the referee calls aside the team captain to address the matter? Why was Sergio Ramos presented with the champions league trophy even when he is not the most skilled player in Real Madrid? It is because he was the team captain. When Mo Salah needed to be taken out of the equation, he stepped up and did the job.

Any team without a leader will end up in total anarchy! So husbands and wives, know your roles at home and play them!

Thesia:


Yeah some men are scumbags, broke ass nigga, who still have the damn gut to ask a woman to submissive, bunch of succotash....

nick50:
That's one of the dangers of the so called gender equality preached by the western world.. We are Africans n we have a different culture.. Just take a look at d increasing number of divorce in our society today.. I will rather have a baby mama instead of buying problems with my money

FreeConCiencE:


So, because a woman contributes to the needs of the family is why she will feel cheated if she is still submissive to her husband and take his instructions?
Clap for yourself!

Duru009:
If you bang your wife and satisfy her very well,she will certainly respect.
Most men these days ar soooo weak!

ImaIma1:


You completely miss the point. There is always a lot of comparison between women of old and modern day women.

Submission is not negotiable. However, the man has to treat her with consideration and respect just as she does too.

You cannot tell a woman that is just coming back from work to go and pound yam for you or make one complicated or stressful dish. It is common sense and not being selfish

Ivorianaija:
[s]Your woman is not a dog that you give orders and they must obey. You are in an equal partnership where you both show respect for each other. Respect her and she will respect you. Remember, you are a choice in her life, not a necessity.[/s]

ImaIma1:


You completely miss the point. There is always a lot of comparison between women of old and modern day women.

Submission is not negotiable. However, the man has to treat her with consideration and respect just as she does too.

You cannot tell a woman that is just coming back from work to go and pound yam for you or make one complicated or stressful dish. It is common sense and not being selfish

Bigdeeee:


Equal Partner-waaaaat Shut up and stop talking trash !!!

GrammarNazi1:

...I'm...
...says...

braunstrowman:


Gone are the days, when a woman will see her husband and she will submit to him and to his instructions wholeheartedly but not days again.

Even the Bible says wife should be submissive to her husband.
Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

A man will give simple instructions to his wife or girlfriend they will still find it hard to obey him or listen to his instructions.

Amaka don't do this! She will still do that.

Mama Emeka shut up when I'm talking! She will talk 50 times before the man will say two statement.

Ma victor you didn't wash my clothes! Do I look like your house maid.

You girls should be respectful and obedient to your husband or boyfriend

Ivorianaija:
Your woman is not a dog that you give orders and they must obey. You are in an equal partnership where you both show respect for each other. Respect her and she will respect you. Remember, you are a choice in her life, not a necessity.

IgboBasthard:


Foolish Africa man. This mentality is why many of you are poor and confused. Before long a tiny deek man with power in his pocket will collect that woman from you once she get tired of the dicky. I am sure my dikky is bigger than yours.