Nairalanders, I need your help. my relationship of 2years plus is about crashing cos of evil prophecies. how can I save it. please, Help a brother out.

How do you kow the prophecy is evil?

erictus:
Nairalanders, I need your help. my relationship of 2years plus is about crashing cos of evil prophecies. how can I save it. please, Help a brother out.

What prophecies?

WHY ME. WHY MUST IT BE ME. I CAN'T BELIEVE THESE. AM DOWN EMOTIONALLY. GOD. WHAT AV I DONE.

Dalastically:
How do you kow the prophecy is evil?

The told her that the morning is good, and afternoon but night is somehow. left to me, I don't believe in all these visions and prophecies. in my church, my pastor will tell us that he doesn't choose who to Marry but come together and pray over your relationship and once you're compatible medically. Nothing is stopping the wedding. My girl and her mother just dey waka all the prophet church. and I can't believe the first relationship I will have that is as long as 3years is nearing collapse. why, what have I done to deserve this.

Ishilove:

What prophecies?

Right now, am crying profusely and in a state of quagmire. I don't know how to handle these. How I wish I can jet out of these fucking country with black mentality devoid of progress and good thing.

erictus:
Right now, am crying profusely and in a state of quagmire. I don't know how to handle these. How I wish I can jet out of these fucking country with black mentality devoid of progress and good thing.

Calm down. What prophecies?

erictus:
Right now, am crying profusely and in a state of quagmire. I don't know how to handle these. How I wish I can jet out of these fucking country with black mentality devoid of progress and good thing.

Bleep off mr forward mentality. You're crying like a menstruating duck over a woman yet you have the guts to insult Nigeria. You don't believe in prophecies, she does so you guys are two different to be together.

Ishilove:

Calm down. What prophecies?

that the morning and afternoon is good but the night is somehow. Although, she still wanna continue with me but the pressure to quit from her family members is much more than what she can endure cos she and her mum went to that 2 prophets that were saying jargons. Right now, she suggested we break up or take things solo, pending the time breeze blow over it, thank God, none of her family has ever met me aside her mother once,

erictus:


that the morning and afternoon is good but the night is somehow. Although, she still wanna continue with me but the pressure to quit from her family members is much more than what she can endure cos she and her mum went to that 2 prophets that were saying jargons. Right now, she suggested we break up or take things solo, pending the time breeze blow over it, thank God, none of her family has ever met me aside her mother once,

You know you can't force someone to change their mind once it is made up? Marriage is not between two people alone but between two families. If her family doesn't support her, and she on her own part is having double mind then there is no future in that relationship.

My advise, let her leave. There is nothing more worst than a wife that goes from one pastor to another pastor. If you marry her, it is the churches and pastors that will be controlling your home, do you really want a life like that? Let her go and marry a man that her pastor approves of. Cry for a week more and get over it. Go and do thanksgiving for dodging a bullet. Your own person with common sense and mind of her own will come.

Tallesty1:
Bleep off mr forward mentality. You're crying like a menstruating duck over a woman yet you have the guts to insult Nigeria. You don't believe in prophecies, she does so you guys are two different to be together.

Not your fault bro. I know how playboy thinks. you just did that. everyone can't be like you who sleep with anything underskirt. please, let me be.

Ishilove:

You know you can't force someone to change their mind once it is made up? Marriage is not between two people alone but between two families. If her family doesn't support her, and she on her own part is having double mind then there is no future in that relationship.

She was still with me 3days ago against her mum instructions, she wants to continue with the affairs. she even warned me not to call her mum again that age regretted ever telling her cos her mum just broadcast the whole vision and prophecies stuff to her brother and they started blaming her blablabla.

erictus:


Not your fault bro. I know how playboy thinks. you just did that. everyone can't be like you who sleep with anything underskirt. please, let me be.

Radarada. The emboldened is what we want from you. Go fix your shits and stop disturbing us. You want to jet out of this country with black mentality devoid of progress and good thing and nah the same Nigerians you dey ask for advice. Guy, becareful.

erictus:


She was still with me 3days ago against her mum instructions, she wants to continue with the affairs. she even warned me not to call her mum again that age regretted ever telling her cos her mum just broadcast the whole vision and prophecies stuff to her brother and they started blaming her blablabla.

At the end, the decision lies with her.

Tallesty1:
Radarada. The emboldened is what we want from you. Go fix your shits and stop disturbing us. You want to jet out of this country with black mentality devoid of progress and good thing and nah the same Nigerians you dey ask for advice. Guy, becareful.

Ure getting me wrong bro, am referring to those endtime prophets who all they see is evil and they never have a solution behind the prophecies. Left to me, I believe there is no bad prophecies that did not have a way out of it.

Ishilove:

At the end, the decision lies with her.

so You suggest I follow her decisions, but perhaps if she still believe in us been together nko, what do you suggest I do. cos, , am just confused. I believe in 2 to 3 years time, breeze would have blown over all this rubbish prophecies and a new beginning would have commenced by then between us IF only she still wanna stay. what do you think.

My bro, I understand your plight and the state of your heart right now.

Who are the prophets, are they from living and bible believing churches?


That you both love each other NOW and dated for two years plus doesn't mean you both are destined as life partners.

I would only advise that you pray and allow things to take shape by themselves. Don't push it. If you loose her it's never the end of the world.

Do you at any time reason it this way: ' who knows the calamity God is trying to prevent?'
As an african, hope you know you don't marry only the girl but the family (to some extent). Now tell me the type of joy that would emanate from a mother-in-law that junkets from one prayer house to the other seeking the lonely miracle of prophecies? Your life with her daughter would automatically saddled with fears ranging from what different prophets said. Would you call such a malaise LIFE?

My dear, at times, God allows to good things to fall apart so that two better things can fall together.

Her cousin who she lives with believes in the relationship cos, I work in the same hospital her aunty works and she knows the kind of guy I am. she told us to go and pray over it.

give it time bro,time is truly a great healer. the decision is solo hers to make not her family besides you don't have to convince her to be with you,

you let her make decision, don't influence it with your pleas.

at this point, she needs your prayers more.

OmoAlata1:
My advise, let her leave. There is nothing more worst than a wife that goes from one pastor to another pastor. If you marry her, it is the churches and pastors that will be controlling your home, do you really want a life like that? Let her go and marry a man that her pastor approves of. Cry for a week more and get over it. Go and do thanksgiving for dodging a bullet. Your own person with common sense and mind of her own will come.

Thanks for your candid advice, it's my desire to prove it to them that our night will be more glorious than our morning and afternoon if only my girlfriend would not succumb to there evil seers. one fear of her mother again is that she doesn't want my girl to also fall into that pit her elder sister fell into cos she is not in a settled home as we speak. I know there fears but it's my wish to prove it to them that we guyz would not separate at the later end of the marriage.

Eberechi24:
give it time bro,time is truly a great healer. the decision is solo hers to make not her family besides you don't have to convince her to be with you,

you let her make decision, don't influence it with your pleas.

at this point, she needs your prayers more.

okay ma, I appreciate. Do you suggest we stop talking, she has made her mum to believe that we have broke up lastweek and she also told me to tell her mum that weare no longer together . Her mum believes is that, but she came crying when she broke the news about the prophecies to me. I actually told her to move on but she told me, where will she start from again. I know she loves me, but am praying the storm she is facing currently goes over quickly.

I think you are being too sentimental on the number of years you have been together. It is not about quantity but the quality.

I foresee a lot of Wahala in the marriage if you go through with this. They said you can manage a bad spouse but you can never ever manage a bad in law.

I don’t want to read a post from you in couple of yrs complaining about your wife and in laws.

erictus:


Thanks for your candid advice, it's my desire to prove it to them that our night will be more glorious than our morning and afternoon if only my girlfriend would not succumb to there evil seers. one fear of her mother again is that she doesn't want my girl to also fall into that pit her elder sister fell into cos she is not in a settled home as we speak. I know there fears but it's my wish to prove it to them that we guyz would not separate at the later end of the marriage.

room089:
My bro, I understand your plight and the state of your heart right now.

Who are the prophets, are they from living and bible believing churches?

CAC and all these small small mushroom churches


That you both love each other NOW and dated for two years plus doesn't mean you both are destined as life partners.
Hmmmn

I would only advise that you pray and allow things to take shape by themselves. Don't push it. If you loose her it's never the end of the world.

Do you at any time reason it this way: ' who knows the calamity God is trying to prevent?'
My own believe in my church is that there's no amount of calamity ahead that the power of prayer can't subdue. nothing or no puzzle is too hard for God to solve .
As an african, hope you know you don't marry only the girl but the family (to some extent). Now tell me the type of joy that would emanate from a mother-in-law that junkets from one prayer house to the other seeking the lonely miracle of prophecies?
These is my concern aswell.


Your life with her daughter would automatically saddled with fears ranging from what different prophets said. Would you call such a malaise LIFE?

My dear, at times, God allows to good things to fall apart so that two better things can fall together.

Thanks A bunch sir

erictus:


okay ma, I appreciate. Do you suggest we stop talking, she has made her mum to believe that we have broke up lastweek and she also told me to tell her mum that weare no longer together . Her mum believes is that, but she came crying when she broke the news about the prophecies to me. I actually told her to move on but she told me, where will she start from again. I know she loves me, but am praying the storm she is facing currently goes over quickly.

weda you feigns breakup or not, she is a determining factor here. my dear, ask her what she want. if she want the relationship then you join force with her to fight for it. remember, its not gonna be easy, so brace your self.

also, whatever path you tour, make sure she is involved.

erictus:




so You suggest I follow her decisions, but perhaps if she still believe in us been together nko, what do you suggest I do. cos, , am just confused. I believe in 2 to 3 years time, breeze would have blown over all this rubbish prophecies and a new beginning would have commenced by then between us IF only she still wanna stay. what do you think.

Yes, follow her decision because tomorrow now when times are rough she may start saying 'had I known, and I was warned bla bla bla'

Always look to the future when making decisions

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I do believe in 'asking God' about a marriage partner, the way they are going about it is what is somewhat questionable.

You as a person / Christian have you prayed, have you sought the face of the Lord concerning the marriage.

I believe when it comes to marriage matters, you should pray yourself and You should get a response from God YOURSELF, if you cannot pray about the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with and be certain that it has heavens backing then there's a problem.

Let her go and pray, you too pray yourself things shall be revealed unto you.

Whatever any pastor or prophet is telling you should be something you already know.

By the way those prophets may not be wrong

Ishilove:

Yes, follow her decision because tomorrow now when times are rough she may start saying 'had I known, and I was warned bla bla bla'

Always look to the future when making decisions

Thanks

NoToPile:
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I do believe in 'asking God' about a marriage partner, the way they are going about it is what is somewhat questionable.

You as a person / Christian have you prayed, have you sought the face of the Lord concerning the marriage.

I believe when it comes to marriage matters, you should pray yourself and You should get a response from God YOURSELF, if you cannot pray about the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with and be certain that it has heavens backing then there's a problem.

Let her go and pray, you too pray yourself things shall be revealed unto you.

Whatever any pastor or prophet is telling you should be something you already know.

By the way those prophets may not be wrong

I know those prophets might be right, But one thing am very sure about us these, No marriage without there issues, secondly, with my Christian background and I was taught in my church, I strongly believe, with prayer, there is nothing or bad prophecies that cannot be overide by the blood of Jesus. These has been my sole assurance, And about prayer, Do you mean collectively or individual, cos, in the cause of the journey, the dreams I had about us was superb and joyful in my sleep.

A pastor I told aswell just made a statement that _ ANY BAD PROPHECIES YOU HEARD FROM ANYWHERE OR ANYONE HAS A WAY OUT /SOLUTION to it. if a prophet tells one a prophecy with any solution to it, then, that prophets and his prophecy are fake.

erictus:


I know those prophets might be right, But one thing am very sure about us these, No marriage without there issues, secondly, with my Christian background and I was taught in my church, I strongly believe, with prayer, there is nothing or bad prophecies that cannot be overide by the blood of Jesus. These has been my sole assurance, And about prayer, Do you mean collectively or individual, cos, in the cause of the journey, the dreams I had about us was superb and joyful in my sleep.

A pastor I told aswell just made a statement that _ ANY BAD PROPHECIES YOU HEARD FROM ANYWHERE OR ANYONE HAS A WAY OUT /SOLUTION to it. if a prophet tells one a prophecy with any solution to it, then, that prophets and his prophecy are fake.

Well since you have prayed about it and you are positive about her chill, if she's yours to be things will work out and even if things don't work out God will always provide another person.'

A guy who cries like a sissy cos his woman is too directionless and a woman who is a religious prostitute, jumping from one Pastor to another prophet indeed deserve themselves.

Relationship of 2 illiterates. Poverty and illiteracy goes hand in hand.

I’m sure you’re both broke, or from families that are poor. It is the poor in this country that carry church and prophecies on their head.

Yet you wonder why the rich marry themselves. Na so so backward thinking una too go dey do for marriage, you fit each other.