smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

Nonsense

LivingFree:

I love you baby girl!

one lesbian spotted #Lol

I am a lesbian and surprisingly I agree with you on one thing. lesbians should not marry Men.

it's usually for the wrong reasons and the men end up suffering.

I have had men who know about my sexuality ask to marry me but because I know that it would be dead on arrival, I always say no to protect both our sanities...


I will never want to put a man through hell but still op, try to change ur impression about us Lezzies. some of us are higher beings with vast reasoning and we know what we want and we resist pressure because we are independent.

thanks

greggng:


I 've met two b4 in a hotel I normally lodge. I was there for a week and also they were there too. At a stage they started kissing at the bar. Other guys just got angry and keep leaving one by one but it didn't bother me. After 20mins the bar man brought more drink to me and he told me that they two ladies 've paid. I thanked them and I also asked the bar man to send them one Andre. Gradually we got talking . When I was about going back to my room both of them approach me and thanked me for knowing whom they are but chooses to respect rather than treat them with disdain like others. They were so pretty that I wanted to 've one of them in my room but I choose to respect myself. In as much as their activity is not in anyway infringing on my right then I 've nothing against them.

oh alright.

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You probably will have a fight with her most times because of her true sexuality so she gradually sees you as an enemy, especially when your love making skills sucks, despite my occupation and my built, my lady keeps focus, my white tiger tantra is deadly, and every time I touch her she wake the neighbours, ego and pride turns them off, they are attracted to guys who are calm and dangerous in bed, discreet about their affairs (despite my revelations) and don't get turned on unnecessarily except when the chemistry is at boiling point.

She's just like my rifle classy, Hot and nasty when fingered, if you find your self in such a relationship relax, and work on your charm, you need a deadly dose of it to kill a kitty.

every lady is a potential lesbian but it's part of sexual fantasy that dies away when they are done exploring it

Malcolm101:
There's nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian.

The world has moved on... We have to move with it.

Countries like Norway and Sweden legalized it almost over 170 years ago. We are in no way better than them in all remification.

170 guy lie small small

HannahHitler:
I am a lesbian and surprisingly I agree with you on one thing. lesbians should not marry Men.

it's usually for the wrong reasons and the men end up suffering.

I have had men who know about my sexuality ask to marry me but because I know that it would be dead on arrival, I always say no to protect both our sanities...


I will never want to put a man through hell but still op, try to change ur impression about us Lezzies. some of us are higher beings with vast reasoning and we know what we want and we resist pressure because we are independent.

thanks

I respect your courage for being an open lesbian so also the devil respect you for being his surest candidate

Sorry to pry, what is it a sista/lez mate can give that a bruda can't?

HannahHitler:
I am a lesbian and surprisingly I agree with you on one thing. lesbians should not marry Men.

it's usually for the wrong reasons and the men end up suffering.

I have had men who know about my sexuality ask to marry me but because I know that it would be dead on arrival, I always say no to protect both our sanities...


I will never want to put a man through hell but still op, try to change ur impression about us Lezzies. some of us are higher beings with vast reasoning and we know what we want and we resist pressure because we are independent.

thanks

Elder001:


Getout of my mentions please.

Kindly use your morality shít to develop your shítty country.
Y'all need serious exposure.

Please do me a favour by not quoting me.

4 ur mind nw u make sense....mtchwww

midehi2:

wey them!

greggng:


I 've met two b4 in a hotel I normally lodge. I was there for a week and also they were there too. At a stage they started kissing at the bar. Other guys just got angry and keep leaving one by one but it didn't bother me. After 20mins the bar man brought more drink to me and he told me that they two ladies 've paid. I thanked them and I also asked the bar man to send them one Andre. Gradually we got talking . When I was about going back to my room both of them approach me and thanked me for knowing whom they are but chooses to respect rather than treat them with disdain like others. They were so pretty that I wanted to 've one of them in my room but I choose to respect myself. In as much as their activity is not in anyway infringing on my right then I 've nothing against them.

I think your reaction could have been different if they were men

samyfreshsmooth:
Op from the points you gave (precisely number 1, 6, 8, 11 and 12), i can safely and rightly say mhisbliss, kimbraa, pocohantas, highqueen and lalas247 are all lesbians


thank you for exposing these ladies to us

Wey them!

This was the argument pushed to the south african parliament in order to legalize homosexuality. They wanted to checkmate the rate of rape and HIV prevalence but the number of HIV cases is slowly increasing after legalization of homosexuality in SA. Besides, there is no correlation between sexuality and the development of a nation. Russia, China, India, Georgia, Serbia, Turkey and most of the central american and african countries all have bans on homosexuality and same sex marriages but a lot of these countries are well developed. No wonder Mugabe stated that if he hears about any same sex marriage in his country, he will ask that the couple be locked up together in a cell until they procreate-This means locking them up forever.

Elder001:
of all the problems in Nigeria it is gay and lesbianism that you guys want to focus on..
How exactly is the sexual life of other people affecting y'all ?

If same sex marriage is legalized in Nigeria it'll reduce the rate of rape and prostitution.

Nigeria really has a long way to go.. many Nigerians are still living in the stone age.

CanineOfJackal:
I respect your courage for being an open lesbian so also the devil respect you for being his surest candidate

don't drink panadol for her headache what you should do is to check yourself to make sure you are not a hell candidate as well,last time I checked,it was not only gay people that the bible said would go to hell,if u lie u are going to d same hell,what gives u the right to judge

LivingFree:


I love you baby girl!

You need a plumber to fix that leakage, where is lala the python

Archangel15:
I used to hate lesbians until I found out that my cousin was one..

smeag0l:
This was the argument pushed to the south african parliament in order to legalize homosexuality. They wanted to checkmate the rate of rape and HIV prevalence but the number of HIV cases is slowly increasing after legalization of homosexuality in SA. Besides, there is no correlation between sexuality and the development of a nation. Russia, China, India, Georgia, Serbia, Turkey and most of the central american and african countries all have bans on homosexuality and same sex marriages but a lot of these countries are well developed. No wonder Mugabe stated that if he hears about any same sex marriage in his country, he will ask that the couple be locked up together in a cell until they procreate-This means locking them up forever.

my guy u get sense....dat guy u been quote get water 4 him brain

I don't agree with no 2 I wear an anklet on the right leg nd I'm not a lesbian

Audray:
The thing taya me. The average Nigerian would rather discuss the "unnaturalness, sinful and disgusting nature of being gay " from morn till dawn with such a passion that you'd wonder what exactly is wrong with them. But bring up any political topic, anything that's actually meaningful or requires pragmatic ideas and you'd basically be conversing with a modern day Neanderthal that rages or tells you to leave everything to god. I mean look at the inanity of the comments on this thread.

I really don't know what to say about Nigerians . Someone is gay or lesbian, okay. how's that affecting their lives? .They want to force their opinions on everybody, like wtf this is the 21st century. I don't understand how the sexual life of lesbians and gays are affecting Nigerians.
They always rant about morality yet the morality hasn't gotten them anywhere.

.....I keep wondering why people would want or decide to live "abnormal" lives just to satisfy a temporary sexual fantasy that fades away with time.....

Unfortunately, when the "jazz" falls off from their eyes,they start moving from shiloh to shiloh seeking a divine husband that will marry them @45

No matter the pressure or insatiable urge,What is wrong is wrong and what is right is right!

Haba, this one is simple now.. Just ask her to open her then try to apply your carrot, if, peradventure, she stop you, it obvious that she a lesbian..

smeag0l:
How far, dear?How you dey?Wearing of anklet on right leg is their insignia o. Just observe carefully. They usually wear it whenever they're going to clubs or going for social functions just to identify girls who are into same thing they're into. Some even go to social gatherings with the aim of "initiating" young innocent and unsuspecting girls into their devilish ways. Last month, one of them was just dancing with my firends girlfriend in a club where we went to hang out. After the irl went to ease herself, she followed her outside again. I had to signal my friend to go and see what the girl is up to because we already knew she was a lez judging from some of the signs I listed earlier(particularly the ring and anklet). Last last, na slap my friend take reset the lez brain and then dragged his girl back into the club

You man are a correct G. I off my hat for you. No wonder !!!, these girls no go kill somebody. Most of them are definitely on nairaland for sure. Innocent Girls are so easily lured to that sh-it. I need training on that brain reseting slap is it front or back hand abeg

Oga, everyone is born straight that's why God created Adam and eve and not Adam and Steve. Except if you believe the big bang theory bullshit about creation!

darkchild64:


the problem with human being is ignorance

several hundred years ago our people use to kill twins what was their justification ; "that twins were abnormal and evil" the culture and religion in place also supported that,right now gay people are facing the same problem they are viewed as lesser humans and are constantly bullied and abused again what is the justification ; "that gays are abnormal and evil" maybe no one is born gay,but at the same time I must remind you that no one is born straight either,and its good you bear in mind that animals also express homosexuality too which means it is not something human beings manufactured it is NATURAL,the fact that scientists haven't found a biological basis for homosexuality and in fact sexuality as a whole doesn't mean that sexual orientation is something we choose,there are a lot of factors that determine sexual orientation why don't you do a little research before displaying your bias on what is normal and what is not

p.s Morality is not universal neither is religion,people's basis on choosing what is moral or not defer but one thing we have to bear in mind is this any morality that leads to someone impeding on one's basic human rights is not morality at all,whatever your religion or culture says morality is,you have no right to implement it on others against their will otherwise boko haram will be right because they are doing what they feel is moral and also religious only this time they are imposing their own form of morality on others against their will,if you smeagOl and other homophobic persons demean and abuse gay people because you feel they do not conform to your own definition of morality and religion then in theory you are no different from book haram

darkchild64:


the problem with human being is ignorance

several hundred years ago our people use to kill twins what was their justification ; "that twins were abnormal and evil" the culture and religion in place also supported that,right now gay people are facing the same problem they are viewed as lesser humans and are constantly bullied and abused again what is the justification ; "that gays are abnormal and evil" maybe no one is born gay,but at the same time I must remind you that no one is born straight either,and its good you bear in mind that animals also express homosexuality too which means it is not something human beings manufactured it is NATURAL,the fact that scientists haven't found a biological basis for homosexuality and in fact sexuality as a whole doesn't mean that sexual orientation is something we choose,there are a lot of factors that determine sexual orientation why don't you do a little research before displaying your bias on what is normal and what is not

p.s Morality is not universal neither is religion,people's basis on choosing what is moral or not defer but one thing we have to bear in mind is this any morality that leads to someone impeding on one's basic human rights is not morality at all,whatever your religion or culture says morality is,you have no right to implement it on others against their will otherwise boko haram will be right because they are doing what they feel is moral and also religious only this time they are imposing their own form of morality on others against their will,if you smeagOl and other homophobic persons demean and abuse gay people because you feel they do not conform to your own definition of morality and religion then in theory you are no different from book haram

Some cultures killed twins and not our people. Morality is a universal theory, it only has different facets to it, and nobody is forcing anyone to accept anything. If i choose not to accept the GAYbriel way of life, it remains my choice.

Scientists dont need to start searching for a basis for sexuality cos by design, a man has a dick and a woman has a vagina and both compliment each other, not only that but by nature man is not immortal and thus procreation is a necessity if man is to continue existing. Homosexuality does not fit into the grand scheme of nature for the very fact that it does not sustain or allow continuity.

Man is born tabula rasa but the basic thing about being born is that its a natural design mapped out for survival of the species. The choice to be an homosexual goes against natures design of you even being born and if allowed to continue spreading will act like a virus which will eventually be enemical to us all.

Nobody is condemning anyone but whats wrong is wrong

CanineOfJackal:
I respect your courage for being an open lesbian so also the devil respect you for being his surest candidate

I guess you must be the devil's right hand man for you to know that, huh?

godofuck231:

Wey them!

Laff wan kii me I swear

Elder001:


Getout of my mentions please.

Kindly use your morality shít to develop your shítty country.
Y'all need serious exposure.

Please do me a favour by not quoting me.

why are u here..

CanineOfJackal:
every lady is a potential lesbian but it's part of sexual fantasy that dies away when they are done exploring it

I am not a potential lesbian!
I don't know where you guys get this shii from.

smeag0l:
Oga, everyone is born straight that's why God created Adam and eve and not Adam and Steve. Except if you believe the big bang theory bullshit about creation!

finally you brought your bible,you have finished yourself

oga since you say that Yahweh created Adam and Eve which means one is either a male and should be attracted to a female or a female and should be attracted to a male,how come we have men who naturally behave like women and women who naturally behave like men,how come we have people born with both male and female sex organs, how come we have women with facial hairs.

One thing we fail to understand is that in life their would always be intermediates,in chemistry you have ionic bonds between an electropositive element and an electronegative element,but u still have bonds(covalent) between elements in the middle of the periodic table,in life there would always be defiances, their would always be "abnormalities ",it is not always polar and non polar

smeag0l:
This was the argument pushed to the south african parliament in order to legalize homosexuality. They wanted to checkmate the rate of rape and HIV prevalence but the number of HIV cases is slowly increasing after legalization of homosexuality in SA. Besides, there is no correlation between sexuality and the development of a nation. Russia, China, India, Georgia, Serbia, Turkey and most of the central american and african countries all have bans on homosexuality and same sex marriages but a lot of these countries are well developed. No wonder Mugabe stated that if he hears about any same sex marriage in his country, he will ask that the couple be locked up together in a cell until they procreate-This means locking them up forever.

How exactly is the sexual life of other people affecting your life?.. if you can't answer this question please don't quote me.

Their life ,their choice.. how exactly are y'all different from Islamic fanatics? y'all have the same agenda. forcing your opinions and so called morality on people.

You can't decide for people how to live their lives.

The time y'all spend on monitoring and trying to force your ideas on others I think if y'all put it into effort in developing your shítty country, Nigeria will be a better place.

Mr. Trump wasn't wrong anyway.
I'm done with you. I hate unexposed and uncivilized people.

Op you were kinda making sense until you decided to call Lesbians evil... SMH for all these religious folks, y'all always quick to judge...
dude that's their fukking nature... the same way you naturally find your opposite sex attractive is also the way they naturally find same sex attractive... which happens to be a biological mistake.
so if you should be judging or blaming anybody it should be your GOD for making them that way! THINK bro THINK! it's not illegal to think yet.