BlackManta:

Thank you bro. You are the only one that understands my point.
Homosexuality is not prohibited in Nigeria.
I have gone through the constitution.
The only thing that is prohibited by the law is gay related activities such as
Same sex marriage Same sex intercourse Same sex union Gay clubs etc
Homosexuality is not a crime.

Receive sense in Jesus name!!!!!

smeag0l:
This was the argument pushed to the south african parliament in order to legalize homosexuality. They wanted to checkmate the rate of rape and HIV prevalence but the number of HIV cases is slowly increasing after legalization of homosexuality in SA. Besides, there is no correlation between sexuality and the development of a nation. Russia, China, India, Georgia, Serbia, Turkey and most of the central american and african countries all have bans on homosexuality and same sex marriages but a lot of these countries are well developed. No wonder Mugabe stated that if he hears about any same sex marriage in his country, he will ask that the couple be locked up together in a cell until they procreate-This means locking them up forever

lol

BlackManta:


Being gay is not a crime in Nigeria.

The constitution prohibits same sex activities but it doesn't prohibit homosexuality.

I dare you to bring up a quote from the constitution that clearly prohibits homosexuality.

I dare you.

Mehn are you not ashamed of your sense?

My problem with people who come on NL these days is that they don't make logical comments unlike the good old days. Probably because they just peruse haphazardly through a post before commenting.I have simply set aside the religious angle in my first post because I know the defense people like you will come up with (as evident in your mention) in order to discuss a more diverse in disturbing issue. Can you read the post again but slowly this time around>

Magnifik18:
Smeag01

And after identifying a lesbian??

Hypocrite; Deep down, you have a huge fascination with lesbians hence your NONSENSE post.

Don't forget to write up NONSENSE about how to identify fornicators, adulterers, thieves, gossips, murderers, prostitutes, idol worshippers nd more cos guess what Mr Righteous?

Anyone who isn't righteous is going to HELL. There are no exception - including you.

smeag0l:
Sir, maybe the picture below explains better

The picture is a proof that the Nigerian law bans same sex activities such as marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse etc.

It does not ban homosexuality.

Homosexuality is not a crime in the Nigerian law.

The only crime is homosexuality related activities.

You homophobes should know this.

You can be a gay in Nigeria as long as you don't engage in same sex marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse or any gay related activities , you have not committed any crime.

Somethings I read are here beyond ridiculous. are you guys for real? when will you ppl stop bothering about another person's sexuality, he is gay, she is lesbian so what?

BlackManta:


The picture is a proof that the Nigerian law bans same sex activities such as marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse etc.

It does not ban homosexuality.

Homosexuality is not a crime in the Nigerian law.

The only crime is homosexuality related activities.

You homophobes should know this.

You can be a gay in Nigeria as long as you don't engage in same sex marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse or any gay related activities , you have not committed any crime.

Many of them don't understand the homosexual law they brandish around, if only they will take time to read it through than wasting energy poking into other ppls sexuality

rainny:
I don't agree with no 2 I wear an anklet on the right leg nd I'm not a lesbian

That's why he said most of his stance MAY not necessarily imply that those with any of these are actually lesbians...

But since you now know,I guess it should be time to review your dressing and appearance!

You may not be a thug but your dressing can make people think you are one....

You may also not be a cultist but your appearance can make you look like one...

Remember that the way you dress is the same way you will be addressed!

What makes you gay if you on't engage in any of these?It's just like saying one can be a professor of law without lectruing law students in the university. Think bro!

BlackManta:


The picture is a proof that the Nigerian law bans same sex activities such as marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse etc.

It does not ban homosexuality.

Homosexuality is not a crime in the Nigerian law.

The only crime is homosexuality related activities.

You homophobes should know this.

You can be a gay in Nigeria as long as you don't engage in same sex marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse or any gay related activities , you have not committed any crime.

Klinee:
Mehn are you not ashamed of your sense?

I'm not here to argue with sentiment.
I argue with facts.

I repeat myself again.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT A CRIME IN NIGERIA.

Until you bring up solid evidences from the constitution to counter my point, I will not reply you again.

BlackManta:


The picture is a proof that the Nigerian law bans same sex activities such as marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse etc.

It does not ban homosexuality.

Homosexuality is not a crime in the Nigerian law.

The only crime is homosexuality related activities.

You homophobes should know this.

You can be a gay in Nigeria as long as you don't engage in same sex marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse or any gay related activities , you have not committed any crime.

Mumu try get sense now!!
There is no law on this planet earth that ban people's thoughts or mindset until they manifest their evil thought, if your definition gay is based on thought.

Elder001:


How exactly is the sexual life of other people affecting your life?.. if you can't answer this question please don't quote me.

Their life ,their choice.. how exactly are y'all different from Islamic fanatics? y'all have the same agenda. forcing your opinions and so called morality on people.

You can't decide for people how to live their lives.

The time y'all spend on monitoring and trying to force your ideas on others I think if y'all put it into effort in developing your shítty country, Nigeria will be a better place.

Mr. Trump wasn't wrong anyway.
I'm done with you. I hate unexposed and uncivilized people.

Gays would be lynched.... Homosexuality is not civilization... OK??

Klinee:
What are you even saying? Can you be hold accountable based on your imaginative thinking?
Nigeria law dose not read people's minds or thoughts but only when you manifest it.
Just like an armed robbers think about how to rob bank, should they be arrested and jail?
Bible is completely against your evil thoughts and minds because God can read your heart

I can not keep explaining something to someone who refuses to reason

1+1 =2. i.e, if you are dating a lesbian, try and make her comfortable with you. One day, just one day, you will be dating two women or more that know about each other or one another and still feel cool about it. That is how mathematicians think.

smeag0l:
What makes you gay if you on't engage in any of these?It's just like saying one can be a professor of law without lectruing law students in the university. Think bro!

I'm heterosexual.
I'm a virgin.
I'm single.

My sexuality has not changed.
I'm still 100% heterosexual.

Sexuality is Sexuality.
It doesn't matter if you engage in sex related activities or not.

In fact not engaging in any sex related activities does not change anything.

Go and ask Reverend sisters and Catholic preist.

Does non-engagement in sex related activities make a difference on their sexuality?

No

Use that logic and think

smeag0l:
What makes you gay if you on't engage in any of these?It's just like saying one can be a professor of law without lectruing law students in the university. Think bro!

the issue I have noticed with u is that u think u are wiser than others,what do u mean by think,loom at the unrelated analogy u gave

A homosexual person literally means someone sexually attracted to a person of the same sex,now of course in most cases the person might go ahead to engage in same sex activity but that does not mean that everyone who is homosexual engages in same sex activity just the same way you have some heterosexual people who don't engage in heterosexual relationships and are described as celibate,example Catholic priests

Now what the Nigerian constitution criminalizes is same sex activity not homosexuality, although the two are often interchanged but they don't mean the same thing,why don't you start by checking the dictionary meaning of the word "HOMOSEXUALITY"

smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

I must confess, reading your post got me aroused a little bit lol..... But seriously dude, who cares? You feel lesbianism is a sin but according to your point made in number 11 it's okay to have SEX with your GIRLFRIEND, that's fornication brah... And the last time I checked... Sex before marriage is still a sin according to the holy book you quoted, I'm not a lesbian, but if there's anything I hate the most in this world, is judging others.... Maybe, just maybe if they let these people get married to themselves, the poor guys you're advocating for wouldn't have to suffer at the hands of lesbians... Just think about it...we're all hypocritical sinners... Trying to justify one sin over another..... Why can't we just leave this LGBT issues to the author of the holy book, even during Sodom and Gomorrah, Lot resided amongst these people, and that didn't stop him from being loyal to his God... So why are we all trying to play judge Judy?..... Let God deal with us all accordingly .... Let them exercise their free will as long as they're not harming anyone....

Apina:

Some cultures killed twins and not our people. Morality is a universal theory, it only has different facets to it, and nobody is forcing anyone to accept anything. If i choose not to accept the GAYbriel way of life, it remains my choice.

Scientists dont need to start searching for a basis for sexuality cos by design, a man has a dick and a woman has a vagina and both compliment each other, not only that but by nature man is not immortal and thus procreation is a necessity if man is to continue existing. Homosexuality does not fit into the grand scheme of nature for the very fact that it does not sustain or allow continuity.

Man is born tabula rasa but the basic thing about being born is that its a natural design mapped out for survival of the species. The choice to be an homosexual goes against natures design of you even being born and if allowed to continue spreading will act like a virus which will eventually be enemical to us all.

Nobody is condemning anyone but whats wrong is wrong

Just learnt some thing new today about tabula rasa


"In Locke's philosophy, tabula rasa was the theory that at birth the (human) mind is a "blank slate" without rules for processing data, and that data is added and rules for processing are formed solely by one's sensory experiences."


Thanks for the enlightenment.... please permission to share your write-ups.... Thanks in advance!

Klinee:
Mumu try get sense now!!
There is no law on this planet earth that ban people's thoughts or mindset until they manifest their evil thought, if your definition gay is based on thought.

Good now we are getting there.

In Nigeria you can tell everybody that you are gay. You have not committed any crime.

As long as you don't engage in sex related activities, you have not committed any crime.

Being gay is not a crime in Nigeria.

Now do you understand.?

C0C0Bandicot:


I must confess, reading your post got me aroused a little bit lol..... But seriously dude, who cares? You feel lesbianism is a sin but according to your point made in number 11 it's okay to have SEX with your GIRLFRIEND, that's fornication brah... And the last time I checked... Sex before marriage is still a sin according to the holy book you quoted, I'm not a lesbian, but if there's anything I hate the most in this world, is judging others.... Maybe, just maybe if they let these people get married to themselves, the poor guys you're advocating for wouldn't have to suffer at the hands of lesbians... Just think about it...we're all hypocritical sinners... Trying to justify one sin over another..... Why can't we just leave this LGBT issues to the author of the holy book, even during Sodom and Gomorrah, Lot resided amongst these people, and that didn't stop him from being loyal to his God... So why are we all trying to play judge Judy?..... Let God deal with us all according.... Let them exercise their free will as long as they're not harming anyone....

good

If there is anything I hate in life it is hypocrisy,I thought smeagOl was on of them "born again" christians, I didn't know that he was the type of Christian that feels keeping a girlfriend is OK,yet the dude has the effrontery to quote the bible in defense of his homophobia, the cliché "pot calling kettle black comes to mind"

BlackManta:


Good now we are getting there.

In Nigeria you can tell everybody that you are gay. You have not committed any crime.

As long as you don't engage in sex related activities, you have not committed any crime.

Being gay is not a crime in Nigeria.

Now do you understand.?

Nigeria law prohibited any form wether oral or other way of promoting or propagating gay, so saying you are a gay is a crime and must be investigated.

BlackManta:


The picture is a proof that the Nigerian law bans same sex activities such as marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse etc.

It does not ban homosexuality.

Homosexuality is not a crime in the Nigerian law.

The only crime is homosexuality related activities.

You homophobes should know this.

You can be a gay in Nigeria as long as you don't engage in same sex marriage, adoption, sexual intercourse or any gay related activities , you have not committed any crime.

What is the difference btw homosexuality and same sex??

Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

Please be bi.

Earthbound:

Please be bi.

I know exactly why you’re saying that

This is by far the dumbest thread I've come across on nairaland. Very very very stoooopid thread. I feel like banging my head on the wall!. What the hell did I just read??

Kimcutie:
Girls that can't do without their vagin* being licked are lesbians. Lots of them full this country.

So by your logic guys who like their dik sucked are gay's too. Smh

Saff:
I know exactly why you’re saying that

It would break my heart if you were exclusively into chics na

.

smeag0l:
All what you just mentioned here are usually rare and caused by hormonal malfunction.

I know of a guy back then in my secondary school who had these female traits like walking and talking.....

There was a day he was almost dragged to the bush by a randy guy who thought he was a girl....That randy guy got the beating of his life that day....

After many years,I saw this guy and he doesn't have those traits and talks like a man and walks like a man....he is even a ladies man due to his handsome face....

I believe such individuals with the right environment will nurture the guy to become a man....but with the wrong environment, he will think or believe his "early" feminine traits imply that he is gay and hence enhance such traits!

smeag0l:
How is it understandable?I pity you! Had it been you have a friend that has been devastated by a lesbian wife he married , you won't be saying this. What could be more heartless than a lady marrying a guy just to answer Mrs and then getting sexual satisfaction elsewhere(the type you may not be able to offer her)?and then when she thinks she has sucked you dry or can't keep up with moving from your house to see her lesbian partner most times, she files for divorce. Isn't that witchcraft?why can't they just stay on their own and bear the pressure society and family puts on them to marry instead of looking for men who's lives they'll eventually destroy?

Beats me... Same question I ask whenever I hear about married men cheating on their wives, after she must have popped 2 to 3 three kids or more for him..... His excuse? Well her vajayjay ain't tight like it used to, why can't they just stay on their own and find a surrogate mom, become a baby daddy and remain a bachelor or just bear the pressure society and family puts on them to marry instead of looking for women who's hearts or life they'll eventually destroy

this shows the level of reasoning we have,when somebody is asking the difference between homosexuality and same sex (activity I guess),ordinary comprehension and simple reasoning we can not do
1)a girl sees another girl and is aroused makes her a homosexual
2)the same girl goes ahead to engage in sexual intercourse means she has engaged in same sex activity

she would not be prosecuted in court because she is aroused by seeing another girl she would be prosecuted because she engaged in same sex activity, why is this so hard to understand, that someone is a homosexual LITERALLY means that the person is sexually aroused by the same sex,this won't land you a 14 yrs sentence except if you go ahead to PROMOTE or ENGAGE in same sex activity

Useless thread black mentality slavery and religious bigotry