openmine:

I know of a guy back then in my secondary school who had these female traits like walking and talking.....

There was a day he was almost dragged to the bush by a randy guy who thought he was a girl....That randy guy got the beating of his life that day....

After many years,I saw this guy and he doesn't have those traits and talks like a man and walks like a man....he is even a ladies man due to his handsome face....

I believe such individuals with the right environment will nurture the guy to become a man....but with the wrong environment, he will think or believe his "early" feminine traits imply that he is gay and hence enhance such traits!

Klinee:
Nigeria law prohibited any form wether oral or other way of promoting or propagating gay, so saying you are a gay is a crime and must be investigated.

DontCallMePale:
You have to be pretty ret@rded to have sat down to write this up and you'd be even more ret@rded if you take this post seriously. I swear on god this website is full of the dumbest people you'll ever come across.

pocohantas:


Stop forcing your fantasies on us.
If you have never had to exhibit such behaviour, I wonder why you think billions of women would at some point.

Once again, I am not a potential lesbian.
I am not homophobic, but I would never do a female...even at gunpoint. I am a chronic maniser

BlackManta:


And when they investigate and fail to find proof of any sexual activity etc. The gay is innocent.

Even if the stupid Nigeria Police arrest a gay, charge him to court and they fail to provide of proof of any sex related activities, that gay has not committed any crime and he will walk free.

Being gay is not a crime.

Do you understand?

Earthbound:

It would break my heart if you were exclusively into chics na

midehi2:
saying 'I love a girl on social media doesn't make one a Lez.. that of a ring on forefinger, yes most of them do that, wearing of anklet is also not a sign of Lez

darkchild64:
this shows the level of reasoning we have,when somebody is asking the difference between homosexuality and same sex (activity I guess),ordinary comprehension and simple reasoning we can not do
1)a girl sees another girl and is aroused makes her a homosexual
2)the same girl goes ahead to engage in sexual intercourse means she has engaged in same sex activity

she would not be prosecuted in court because she is aroused by seeing another girl she would be prosecuted because she engaged in same sex activity, why is this so hard to understand, that someone is a homosexual LITERALLY means that the person is sexually aroused by the same sex,this won't land you a 14 yrs sentence except if you go ahead to PROMOTE or ENGAGE in same sex activity

smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

darkchild64:


it is very good you said "I BELIEVE" because this is basically a subjective analysis

Saff:
lol whatever

Elder001:


How exactly is the sexual life of other people affecting your life?.. if you can't answer this question please don't quote me.

Their life ,their choice.. how exactly are y'all different from Islamic fanatics? y'all have the same agenda. forcing your opinions and so called morality on people.

You can't decide for people how to live their lives.

The time y'all spend on monitoring and trying to force your ideas on others I think if y'all put it into effort in developing your shítty country, Nigeria will be a better place.

Mr. Trump wasn't wrong anyway.
I'm done with you. I hate unexposed and uncivilized people.

obonujoker:

Gays would be lynched.... Homosexuality is not civilization... OK??

smeag0l:
So, tell me how exposed and civilized you are. That you stay outside Nigeria doesn't make you more civilized than those of us here. By the way, how many countries have you been to or what do you do before I even start discussing exposure and civilization with you. You've got the wrong person here cos it's not everyone you can intimidate with staying abroad. Some of us come there for vacation and come back to Nigeria because I see no reason to be a slave in another man's land. I really want to understand the link between civilization/exposure and morality as a lot of you here use it as excuse to support nafarious activities.

smeag0l:
So, tell me how exposed and civilized you are. That you stay outside Nigeria doesn't make you more civilized than those of us here. By the way, how many countries have you been to or what do you do before I even start discussing exposure and civilization with you. You've got the wrong person here cos it's not everyone you can intimidate with staying abroad. Some of us come there for vacation and come back to Nigeria because I see no reason to be a slave in another man's land. I really want to understand the link between civilization/exposure and morality as a lot of you here use it as excuse to support nafarious activities.

CanineOfJackal:
every lady is a potential lesbian but it's part of sexual fantasy that dies away when they are done exploring it

pocohantas:


I am not a potential lesbian!
I don't know where you guys get this shii from.

smeag0l:
My problem with people who come on NL these days is that they don't make logical comments unlike the good old days. Probably because they just peruse haphazardly through a post before commenting.I have simply set aside the religious angle in my first post because I know the defense people like you will come up with (as evident in your mention) in order to discuss a more diverse in disturbing issue. Can you read the post again but slowly this time around>

OfficialDad:
Lesbianism is understandable, but gay .

Anyway, my baby mama is a lesbian.

Bless4me:
Is it right to ask a lady if she is a lesbian

godofuck231:


You probably will have a fight with her most times because of her true sexuality so she gradually sees you as an enemy, especially when your love making skills sucks, despite my occupation and my built, my lady keeps focus, my white tiger tantra is deadly, and every time I touch her she wake the neighbours, ego and pride turns them off, they are attracted to guys who are calm and dangerous in bed, discreet about their affairs (despite my revelations) and don't get turned on unnecessarily except when the chemistry is at boiling point.

She's just like my rifle classy, Hot and nasty when fingered, if you find your self in such a relationship relax, and work on your charm, you need a deadly dose of it to kill a kitty.

OfficialDad:
Lesbianism is understandable, but gay .

Anyway, my baby mama is a lesbian.

C0C0Bandicot:
Why should anyone be more concerned about other people's sexual orientation, when there are major issues to deal with, like security, infrastructures, unemployment blah blah blah... Is sex/sexuality more important than our economy?
If you like, engage In Beastality, it should be nobody's business, as Long as it's not getting in the way of others

midehi2:

lol... but me wearing anklet, does that make me a lez? not all that wear it are lesbians.

I am good, how is your weekend going?