Hello everyone.

So I met this girl in my Fifth year in Unizik. She too was in her finals though a different department. We started dating, worked our service to Lagos. It's been fun, I have shown her to my parents And hope to go see hers soon we have been through lot together but she is very Free around guys;

1. We where in a bus en route to surulele suddenly she started a conversation with a dude told him everything about her life and he demanded her number which she gave him. I was there looking and she didn't see any big deal after all he will only call and she won't even do anything with him.

2. She ran into a course mate in camp in my presence he held her hand and they left to meet his friends I was just standing there when she came back no apology.

3. A guy she knew in school got to know she is in lagos, he took her out for lunch. He started visiting her. And he started inviting her over. She told me about the lunch after it was already done. And I got to know of their visit from her facebook chat. When I confronted her she said he is engaged and his fiancee knows about their visits.

4. She visited a guy who wants to marry her with out my consent. But told me later. When I confronted her she said she told him about us.

Am lost on what to do. We have been through a lot, she has been telling her parents about me all her relations are tired of her talking of me and are waiting to see me.

She has rejected many men for me. But am just lost I feel am not being respected. She has also rejected many marriage proposal because of me.

I am just lost, I called off the whole thing and she has been in anguish begging and pleading buh this is not the first time it only gets worst.

Sometimes I don't understand how people will claim they are confused in situations like this. Even if I tell you to continue with her, will your mind still be at rest in the relationship??
Egbon, you don't need anybody's validation to remain or get out of any fruitless relationship.
ps: My humble advice is that you look for the closest route out of that relationship. Learn not to manage unhealthy relationships. It kills faster than AIDS.
Secondly, do not be deceived, she has not met the kind of guy she wants to marry. She is seriously weighing her options which is the reason for the uninformed dates.
Emm, before I drop the mic, abeg try get money. There won't be room for bs!!!

Like the poster above me it really beats my imagination how people can't seem to see the hand writting on the wall... Well there goes another lost soul being sent straight to the gallows

Last last she don't know what she want.

the first poster said it all.

She no send you Bros. She doesn't respect you one bit...

I think you should sit her down and make her understand how her actions make you feel and tell its her last chance to make things work

MRSHYCAT:
Sometimes I don't understand how people will claim they are confused in situations like this. Even if I tell you to continue with her, will your mind still be at rest in the relationship??
Egbon, you don't need anybody's validation to remain or get out of any fruitless relationship.
ps: My humble advice is that you look for the closest route out of that relationship. Learn not to manage unhealthy relationships. It kills faster than AIDS.
Secondly, do not be deceived, she has not met the kind of guy she wants to marry. She is seriously weighing her options which is the reason for the uninformed dates.
Emm, before I drop the mic, abeg try get money. There won't be room for bs!!!

Op,your case is settled with this post.
原來的海報，您的情況下是解決此後。

[quote author=chiommy123 post=68165387]I think you should sit her down and make her understand how her actions make you feel and tell its her last chance to make things work [/quote ac] Av always done dat it only gets worst

[quote author=MRSHYCAT post=68164935]Sometimes I don't understand how people will claim they are confused in situations like this. Even if I tell you to continue with her, will your mind still be at rest in the relationship??
Egbon, you don't need anybody's validation to remain or get out of any fruitless relationship.
ps: My humble advice is that you look for the closest route out of that relationship. Learn not to manage unhealthy relationships. It kills faster than AIDS.
Secondly, do not be deceived, she has not met the kind of guy she wants to marry. She is seriously weighing her options which is the reason for the uninformed dates.
Emm, before I drop the mic, abeg try get money. There won't be room for bs!!![/quote you have said it all thanks

[quote author=cyraxx post=68165610][/quote]then you should move on bro.

chiommy123:
I think you should sit her down and make her understand how her actions make you feel and tell its her last chance to make things work

Are u serious? And u think that would genuinely change her She would only pretend to change & continue on the low for a while b4 she will be exposed again & maybe by then the unfortunate guy would have married her & worst still.. might raise another man's child

dairykidd:

Are u serious? And u think that would genuinely change her She would only pretend to change & continue on the low for a while b4 she will be exposed again & maybe by then the unfortunate guy would have married her & worst still.. might raise another man's child

some women don't see it as anything but when you open up and tell them how bad you feel about it they change for good.

This op and insecurity sef .
Cant you for once trust your fiancee I mean come on, she might just be the jovial open and freindly type, you are wicked .


Just so you know, since today is my day, i have been sleeping all day. just woke up picked my phone with my left hand, scroll to nairakand topicr and saw this ur thread. but guess what? in my right hand is a thick fat big wrap of crude ogbomosho weed . what am even saying sef.

I know am not the one who wrote that shjit up there.

Bia Op did u said fiancee ?, as in wife to be?

Let me ask u a question.

Do you wanna die

...


Is It Pussy that Has Blocked Your Thinking Or just Plain Stupidity...



This Is The Type Of Girl That Will Marry You and Still Go On Acting Po.rn and Tell You She Is Just Doing Her Job

Better Use Your Brain.

chiommy123:
some women don't see it as anything but when you open up and tell them how bad you feel about it they change for good.

Lolzz.. This is funny sha so without my sounding it ti her she wouldn't know whats morally wrong or right, so she no know say she dey do wrong by her outright display of affection for other guys & total disrespect for me in every way possible.. God knows if i was the guy i would only tell her the first time she show her self & if she even make the mistake again one of two things will happen.
1. I kick her the fvck out quickly
2. I kick her out slowly by pretending not to know what she does & let her be the hoe she is,give her false hopes while i replace her without her knowing...

Seems you're the only one in this relationship o. Try telling her how you feel about it, if no improvement then you should take a bow. I can do some nasty shit but my dear, I can never disrespect my man by giving out my contact to another nigga in his presence

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chiommy123:
I think you should sit her down and make her understand how her actions make you feel and tell its her last chance to make things work

...it's...

Let me tell you one thing about some ladies, When you meet a lady that is professional in cheating that's how they behave.
A girl once did this to me, she'd chat with guys in my presence ( on messenger) and be showing me there pictures and chats while laughing

I suspected her but had no proof though only for me to later discover she's been going to meet those guys and having sex with them behind my back

This is someone that invites me to her place showing me to her siblings o SMH

Bros, Start hanging out with girls too and dont do it in such a way that u will make it look like u want to make her jealous. Let it come naturally, feel free as if u are not in a realtionship because that is obviously what she is doing too and let her see and hopefully she will feel the same pain you are going through now. But if she doesnt care, my brother move on. All ladies are naturally jealous especially when they are in love with a guy. And dont let her use u and dump u when she finally get a better option to u. Dump her b4 she dumps u

Some make friends with guys than ladies

Ur fiancé is a cheerful giver .......

she has rejected many men because of you yet you didnt marry her but now that she'z accepting many men will you now wife her?.....You were a weakling!

your Fiancee iz a Free Marketer

A lady that keeps mostly guys as friend should never be trusted.

the truth about your girl is that she is testing the waters. drop her and move on.


How can your gf or fiance collect number from another guy in the bus, guy you are doomed because that girl is a CHEAT and will CHEAT on you soon

OP run out of the relationship as fast as your legs can carry you.