Good evening nairalanders...
I need help/advice about my girlfriend situations, I have been dating this girl since 2015, when I was very broke. when I don't have anything Lagos Island, she used to be of my helper because I was staying with my sister, a grown up guy trying to find way of surviving and she's doing her IT back then at my sister's shop. after like 3months I got a job but ever since then, if we spent time together maybe cinema or any place. she doesn't allow me to buy anything for her, even I will have to fought her before she can accept ordinary wears I bought for her. she doesn't like social media stuff, I desflowered this girl at the age of 23yrs. more than 3 years relationship now, I can always beg and beg her before she can accept anything from me. she truly loves me but I don't know any woman out their having same experience I need to know why my girl doesn't like taking anything from me. I'm currently transferred to Abuja. even if I had to send her ticket to her to fly come meet me, I'll beg her grandmama before she could agree in coming. I never caught her cheating before, neither see anyone or calls from any guy. now my relationship is being disturb because I'm having doubting mind if I should marry my baby hope I won't get any problem. in fact have spoken with her not quite long I was doing shopping bought her Ankara and sandals, immediately I sent it to her, she said thank you but I never said I needed anything... like what? you appreciate and I am showing love to you. I don't know what else to do. I need help my sister out their come and help me out. I LOVE HER and she loves me. please help me

Had it been her character is the other way round you will still come here to seek for help



So now what do you want really??

I Refuse to read this Error note
Donpiiko come here with that ur so called GF ... wt is this op trying to say please ...

I am not understanding, something is confusing me. Maybe it is the grammar.

Jasen1:
Had it her character is the other way round you will still come here to seek for help



So now what do you want really??

The guy that is possessed ...

na people like you dey make women say we men are confused


if she is always asking, na wahala
if she's not asking at all na double wahala


anyways the possible reasons for her refusal to accept ur gifts are viz:


1) she's tryna make you think she's wife material 100yards so you can put a ring on it sha-per-ly....................(she doesnt know you're a confuse guy though )


2) she has a side niggie or maga that do the "gifting and spending"....,................,.she prolly has several guys with their specific roles and fortunately (according to you, unfortunately), yours ain't spending


3) she's a feminist that takes her independence in high esteem..........if this is the case oga just qun for your dear life o cos na two of una go dey drag for house


and lastly,.


4) she prolly is just structured like that and feels she doesnt have to be a burden to you................if this is the case, wife her up immediately!!

OP, let me understand you.

You are bothered that you are dating a Nigerian girl, that never demands or collects anything from you?

Is that the problem? Should that be a problem?

When you ask na problem
When you don’t ask, na problem.

Moral of the story, keep on asking.

She says she has had it with NL for the day, the OP says it's too good to be true that his girl doesn't act typical by demanding things from him.

Lalas247:


I Refuse to read this Error note
Donpiiko come here with that ur so called GF ... wt is this op trying to say please ...

DonPiiko:
She says she has had it with NL for the day, the OP says it's too good to be true that his girl doesn't act typical by demanding things from him.

So wt is the problem

Maybe some girls have taken advantage of him in the past and he feels it's not normal to be in a beneficial mutual partnership

Lalas247:

So wt is the problem

DonPiiko:
Maybe some girls have taken advantage of him in the past and he feels it's not normal to be in a beneficial mutual partnership

I see.....

pocohantas:
OP, let me understand you.

You are bothered that you are dating a Nigerian girl, that never demands or collects anything from you?

Is that the problem?

i knew you'd run down to this thread

lekubanti:

She might feel she has no right to eat your money until married to you. So chill eh, you'll get billed appropriately after wedding.

lekubanti:

She might feel she has no right to eat your money until married to you. So chill eh, you'll get billed appropriately in marriage.

samyfreshsmooth:
na people like you dey make women say we men are confused


if she is always asking, na wahala
if she's not asking at all na double wahala


anyways the possible reasons for her refusal to accept ur gifts are viz:


1) she's tryna make you think she's wife material 100yards so you can put a ring on it sha-per-ly....................(she doesnt know you're a confuse guy though )


2) she has a side niggie or maga that do the "gifting and spending"....,................,.she prolly has several guys with their specific roles and fortunately (according to you, unfortunately), yours ain't spending


3) she's a feminist that takes her independence in high esteem..........if this is the case oga just qun for your dear life o cos na two of una go dey drag for house


and lastly,.


4) she prolly is just structured like that and feels she doesnt have to be a burden to you................if this is the case, wife her up immediately!!

Laughs...Pure broh

austyn0:
Laughs...Pure broh

see ur face

Lalas247:
see ur face

Wetin do am?

austyn0:
Wetin do am?

No beard

Lalas247:

No beard

Laughs,, you are a lover of beards?...Sorry to disappoint you dear, my height, voice and brain is enough beard for me...

#TEAMFOREVERYOUNG

austyn0:
Laughs,, you are a lover of beards?...Sorry to disappoint you dear, my height, voice and brain is enough beard for me...

#TEAMFOREVERYOUNG

Is that what u tell yourself .... what a shame
So all this time u dey follow me p,at u don’t even hair a strand of hair on your face eh Austin

Infact I have nothing more to say to you

Lalas247:

Is that what u tell yourself .... what a shame
So all this time u dey follow me p,at u don’t even hair a strand of hair on your face eh Austin

Infact I have nothing more to say to you

Calm dear...

Na so my God create me..

austyn0:
Calm dear...

Na so my God create me..

Lol

....

Chei I just witnessed the death of English. This is clearly a yoruba dude from ekiti

She get sister

Nigerian men are indeed confused.

A lady asks for stuff... Gold digger, greedy, Ashawo,and all forms of unpalatable names...

A lady doesn't ask... Ashawo ,Another man is giving her, Proud, Feminist, She will kill you, Run for your life, She is a man..

Kikikikikikkikikikiki.

Una never chinchumchin!

u will later run wen u saw her fmly Bride prices

She's just pretending if she's not comfortable but can't ask when she's in need and knows you can help. We call it suffering and smiling. Talking from experience.

Leave her and go after the one that will ask and even suck you
Is it that some of you don't appreciate good things or think it's not possible
You have a problem.

lekubanti:
Good evening nairalanders...
I need help/advice about my girlfriend situations, I have been dating this girl since 2015, when I was very broke. when I don't have anything Lagos Island, she used to be of my helper because I was staying with my sister, a grown up guy trying to find way of surviving and she's doing her IT back then at my sister's shop. after like 3months I got a job but ever since then, if we spent time together maybe cinema or any place. she doesn't allow me to buy anything for her, even I will have to fought her before she can accept ordinary wears I bought for her. she doesn't like social media stuff, I desflowered this girl at the age of 23yrs. more than 3 years relationship now, I can always beg and beg her before she can accept anything from me. she truly loves me but I don't know any woman out their having same experience I need to know why my girl doesn't like taking anything from me. I'm currently transferred to Abuja. even if I had to send her ticket to her to fly come meet me, I'll beg her grandmama before she could agree in coming. I never caught her cheating before, neither see anyone or calls from any guy. now my relationship is being disturb because I'm having doubting mind if I should marry my baby hope I won't get any problem. in fact have spoken with her not quite long I was doing shopping bought her Ankara and sandals, immediately I sent it to her, she said thank you but I never said I needed anything... like what? you appreciate and I am showing love to you. I don't know what else to do. I need help my sister out their come and help me out. I LOVE HER and she loves me. please help me

A true color of a lady is revealed the moment you put that ring on her finger.

Op be careful.

Women can pretend for Africa...

I know one babe my uncle got married to.
When they were courting this babe was a hard working woman. Very good some times we wonder if she was a human being. Whenever she pays us visit she must make sure she cleans the house and wash anything washable. Even if the house was clean she will clean it again. When we tell her not to bother she said working is her hobby.
The moment my uncle puts that ring on her finger, whenever she comes to our house she would sit in the parlour cross legs and watch movies the next moment you will hear her ask if there's food in the house to eat. After eating she can't wash plate again o.

Op fear women..