Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I really feel your pain sir.
But am so happy you've summoned courage to start all over again.
For better for worse is a myth, it doesn't exist anymore.
But Sir, how did the marriage certificate end up in her hand? 1 Like |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
iLegendd: Nice story. I'll cry about it later. This is one of the reasons we're always trying to teach men how women work, but they never listen.
I have never dated a girl who have refused to let me see her phone. There is a way you'll treat a woman, she'll never hide a thing from you. It's doesn't matter if you're rich or not.
Most men just don't know how women work or don't care to know and this how it will keep happening. I don't pity those men.
Anyway, it has happened. People who know about court proceedings will help you out. My friend go Sidon one side joor. Nonsense 3 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by damtan(m): 4:44pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
to marry self just dey fear person 6 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by ranmoor: 5:39pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
pointblank247: my piple i beg to differ, if that lady was remorseful and the mum has been begging you, i suggest you forgive her, she will be gratefull and humble for life u made me remember a man dat caught Magun on his wife at ikirun. The first time he caught the wife n sent her out, the families came to beg him cited your logic... Few yrs later, the husband died on her. The Magun was placed by one alfa concubine... My Bro, anything cheat, flee 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Ximenez(m): 5:44pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
First she left you because you went broke and then she cheated again. Those two things are unforgivable. God forbid you find out your daughter is not really your daughter. 9 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Ximenez(m): 5:47pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Bidobado:
This guy did nothing wrong and it wasn't his fault for losing his job. What I find very strange and worrisome, is how easy it is for Nigerian women to switch to their dark side when things go wrong financially. Almost as if the love wasn't there in the first place. God forbid I ever marry a Nigerian woman.
Because she married the money not him, ubunja can testify to this. The wife belongs to same specie with shugavee, pocohantas et al. 11 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by pocohantas(f): 5:51pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Ximenez: Because she married the money not him, ubu nja can testify to this. The wife belongs to same specie with shug avee, pocoha ntas et al. No go work o, be here shouting poco.hantas upandan. E go soon clear for una eye... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 12 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Ximenez(m): 6:09pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
pocohantas:
No go work o, be here shouting poco.hantas upandan. E go soon clear for una eye... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Which work again do you want to give me by this time. I just read about a married woman who share similar traits with you, so i called you to come and advise the husband instead of avoiding the thread. 6 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by pocohantas(f): 6:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Ximenez: [s]Which work again do you want to give me by this time. I just read about a married woman who share similar traits with you, so i called you to come and advise the husband instead of avoiding the thread[/s]. Fix yourself ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Ximenez: [s]Aunty, nothing to fix about myself for now. I'm just asking you to advise the op, since you are alleged to have acted like the wife severally[/s]. More trash. I can't waste any extra post on you. Let's pile it all here ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 2 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by muyinet: 6:18pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
HARDDON: SENSE PILL
1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term. * it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth. * a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam
2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties
3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.
4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.
5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.
6. Only a fool bond blindly.
7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job
This is so true. 1 Like |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Ximenez(m): 6:18pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
pocohantas:
Fix yourself ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Aunty, nothing to fix about myself for now. I'm just asking you to advise the op, since you are alleged to have acted like the wife severally. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Thing is many of us “guys” are blinded by love and don’t seem to see the reality these days. And lessons as this are the only way we can learn. Don’t date or marry woman who is waiting for you to provide or set her up after marriage. Don’t date or marry a woman who cannot get a job by herself, don’t date or marry a woman who does not understand what life is, who thinks life is a funfare. A woman said the other day that men should date women who earn as much as they do. If you are still hustling, date a hustler like yourself. Don’t date a liability. Liabilities remain liabilities forever. I am not sure they can become assets. Marry an asset! They will help you go through the struggles of life easily! 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by kenex4ever(m): 8:10pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I'm beginning to buy d idea of baby mama. 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by CJIDEX(m): 9:07pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
angelboy01: Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding. She started loosing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter. Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes. Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it two me so I began to suspect her. One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me. I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife. It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face. I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it. Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol. Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.
In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.
Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys. No woman no cry.. However you need to move on, notwithstanding that your wife has possession of marriage certificate, you can still have a smooth divorce order in court (I've handled similar cases) at a relatively moderate charge and on the issue of custody the court will favourably grant same to you considering your wife's moral standing. Pls contact me further on 08060672567/babajideclement@gmail.com. cheers, Barr. O.B Clement 2 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Twoclans(f): 9:27pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
oshe11:
Even bible said the Only reason a Man is allowed to Divorce his Wife is when she Cheats.....
So You can forgive her but NEVER TAKE HER BACK.......
Let her Leave with her UNFAITHFUL PUSSEE My guy ,tell us what the Bible says about an unfaithful husband . Cheating is horrible regardless of the gender involved .So many women forgive and accept cheating husbands back even though I cannot say how safe such husbands are when they return home.That is why so many men die prematurely. 13 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Adasun(m): 10:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
HARDDON: SENSE PILL
1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term. * it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth. * a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam
2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties
3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.
4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.
5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.
6. Only a fool bond blindly.
7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job
harddon on da radar ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by HARDDON: 10:06pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by RedDistrict: 10:09pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
kenex4ever: I'm beginning to buy d idea of baby mama. Makes two of us oo, God epp us 8 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by kenex4ever(m): 10:11pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
RedDistrict:
Makes two of us oo,
God epp us atleast with baby mama u wont care if she cheats. 7 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Kobicove(m): 10:29pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
The rate of infidelity in marriages is rising very fast in Nigeria ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 1 Like |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Bahddo(m): 10:29pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
This marriage thing looks like a trap ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) 3 Likes |
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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Aleora(f): 10:35pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
angelboy01: I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.
She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.
Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.
Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.
One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.
I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.
It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.
I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.
Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.
Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.
In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.
Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys. this is not the appropriate place to post this,get a lawyer,he or she will help you with the divorce and you wont spent close to 650k. 1 Like |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Jimmy231: 10:35pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
angelboy01: I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.
She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.
Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.
Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.
One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.
I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.
It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.
I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.
Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.
Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.
In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.
Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys. Just run for her. She go wan re marry before you na there u go catch am 1 Like |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by oshe11: 10:36pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Twoclans:
My guy ,tell us what the Bible says about an unfaithful husband .
Cheating is horrible regardless of the gender involved .So many women forgive and accept cheating husbands back even though I cannot say how safe such husbands are when they return home.That is why so many men die prematurely. Sure. Honestly Bible never gave women any grounds to leave their marital home(You can check that out) But trust me, its not easy staying with a partner that cheats/ed unless u knew thats how he/she was but still decided to marry him/her |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by xangerar: 10:36pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
You can obtain a certified true copy(CTC) of the document from the Registry of issue.
Proceedings for nullification of marriage, otherwise called divorce may not cost you that much depending on the lawyer whose legal services you have sought. You do not need a senior lawyer of that charge, maybe a young lawyer with an experience can pull it through for a quarter of that price. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Centcanada: 10:37pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
My guy many ideas will flow from different direction but the question is this. How will you compile all just because you want to file a divorce suit? If you really feel you love her, forgive her and bring her back that if she is ready to repent, but if you think you are done, pray to God and follow your heart and I believe God will see you through. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Betakeshi: 10:38pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by agog: 10:44pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
This is soo sad and painful 1 Like |
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Most important thing now is to do a DNA test to be sure if she is ur daughter......then move on with your life.
You are a great man.
NB: In case you want to remarry....get a woman that is already established, not gold diggers. They are usually ungrateful no matter how u try. 4 Likes |