Morning Peeps, I got this issue bothering my mind, i got this nigga of mine, Best pal to be precise. We are always there for each other, and whenever m short of cash, he is always there for me, but of lately he is somehow financially down due to the fact he is sponsoring his own academy, but the main issue is that whenever he demand cash from him, i always try my best to be there for him but of lately he just start borrowing money from me for no other reason, but just to take care of his girlfriend(i mean girl she never know more that 5 month) and it is affecting him too much cos this girl is just over-demanding, and the guy is trying to comfort her at his own expense.

So N'lander how will i talk to him to stop spending and borrowing because of this so called girlfriend that i won't sound like m not ready to help him. Like m just fed up lending him money on this particular issue, if it is for another reason, i will surely help him.
Thanks in adv as any sensible advice will always be welcome.

man ur nigga don turn client be that Oo.. issa serious something

Client or no Client, z barbaric tryin to please a girl wen u never please urself

Forzap:
man ur nigga don turn client be that Oo.. issa serious something

Stop giving him.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Stop giving him.

Best advice.

Or simply tell him you don't have so it wouldn't look as if you have and is refusing to give to him.

Don't borrow him.

Always make sure you find out the reason for requesting money from you and if it is because of his personal development which is going to be helpful to you and him at the later on, then do proceed by giving him but if it is because of the five-months lady then you can halt the step by refusing to give him in a wise mannerism...

Trust me,is because of this so-called girl,av told him many times if he is financially down, he shd let d girl knw instead of doing unnecessary thing, but he wn't just listen.

pelicanbeau:
Always make sure you find out the reason for requesting money from you and if it is because of his personal development which is going to be helpful to you and him at the later on, then do proceed by giving him but if it is because of the five-months lady then you can halt the step by refusing to give him in a wise mannerism...

Don't give him again and don't advise him to stop spending his whole money on her because you will probably become an enemy.

His eye will clear soon and he will see for himself. And he will give himself brain when he sees the girl for what she truly is. Nobody will need to advise him then when his account is red and she still leaves him

drop it like its hot, tell him point blank, because when she dumps his ass, or somfin goes wrong he will come crashing on you looking for a shoulder to cry on

They will never learn. As much as they come online to rant against it. They keep cashing out all for useless vagina Oh well.

pelicanbeau:
Always make sure you find out the reason for requesting money from you and if it is because of his personal development which is going to be helpful to you and him at the later on, then do proceed by giving him but if it is because of the five-months lady then you can halt the step by refusing to give him in a wise mannerism...

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