Westaslave2:
C ur foul gutter mouth...did u knw d chains of business nwanyiakwaetiti controls in nnewi...u tink every1 is as poor lyk u S.Ms

Biglittlelois:
I notice that the so called rich guys that are choosy were once dirt poor who suddenly have a stupid entitlement forgeting that those from humble background will one day become wealthy, Bill gates, Mark of Facebook etc were not born rich, they married from humble background.

pocohantas:
I agree.
Everybody should marry from their social class.

I won't advise my brother to marry a broke jobless girl.
In fact, I told him to find one within his circle. It is better that way.
She shouldn't be stingy though, because if she is...it is a waste of strategy.

darmywealth:
dats just bias to me what if a rich guy (true wealth not yahoo) falls for a broke woman with great ambitions and aspirations? if you love someone u build them to be what u want i mean ur taste unless she is not ready to upgrade but if she is and even at that u still try......true love conquers all we still have some guys and girsl that are poor now but have tendencies to become millionaires and billionaires tommorrow only if they have the rigth supoort financially and morally......with dis few point of mine i will like u guys to kindly shut d f*ck up and argue with ur charger

ArchangeLucifer:





Madam Nairaland Adviser!

All your years advising people on nairaland and they are getting married every weekend sharing their pre-wedding photoshoot with us and you're still single and creeping up on 35. Instead we get details of your how you serially cheated on your bf in a hotel room with another man for money.

You have been advising people on nairaland for more than 5 years now (even longer than Joro Olumofin) yet you are not married.

When will you get married?


Oh, I just remembered... Marriage does not define you, You don't need a man in your life, you are a career lady, bla bla bla

bla bla bla

Yawn.

Westaslave2:
Jesus christ dats d harshest thing i av heard in nairaland...pls pocohantas is he ur ex

Biglittlelois:
I notice that the so called rich guys that are choosy were once dirt poor who suddenly have a stupid entitlement forgeting that those from humble background will one day become wealthy, Bill gates, Mark of Facebook etc were not born rich, they married from humble background.

popweezy:
ME I CAN MARRY BROKE LADIES HO. AS FAR SHE IS NOT BROKE UPSTAIRS. NO PROBLEM

ArchangeLucifer:





Madam Nairaland Adviser!

All your years advising people on nairaland and they are getting married every weekend sharing their pre-wedding photoshoot with us and you're still single and creeping up on 35. Instead we get details of your how you serially cheated on your bf in a hotel room with another man for money.

You have been advising people on nairaland for more than 5 years now (even longer than Joro Olumofin) yet you are not married.

When will you get married?


Oh, I just remembered... Marriage does not define you, You don't need a man in your life, you are a career lady, bla bla bla

bla bla bla

Yawn.

Kenkaniff:
Who wrote this trash??
Na who wear shoe know where e dey pain am besides coming to think of it,guess it's ideologies such as this,that sinks the world in despair.
I'm from a rich background but married a broke lady and I'm having the best things of life that money couldn't buy that my family has given me yet my wife provides it all.
Money is not everything.
Take down this self righteous article.
Who get sense make them hear simple!!!

Biglittlelois:
I notice that the so called rich guys that are choosy were once dirt poor who suddenly have a stupid entitlement forgeting that those from humble background will one day become wealthy, Bill gates, Mark of Facebook etc were not born rich, they married from humble background.

franchasng:
5. Broke Ladies Are Very Difficult To Please!

Contrary to what many guys believe, rich ladies are easy to please unlike the broke ladies.

A rich lady may gush over a rose flower you got for her, but a broke lady will never do that but will only be pleased when you buy her reigning expensive clothe or gadget, and this mentality of broke ladies unknowingly to them, distracts rich guys.

A rich guy out of love may feel getting his broke girlfriend a rose flower or something like that as bday present, and to his greatest surprise, the lady was expecting the latest iphone or even a car which she may unknowingly show, and end up making the guy cancel her from his top list of would be

franchasng:
5. Broke Ladies Are Very Difficult To Please!

Contrary to what many guys believe, rich ladies are easy to please unlike the broke ladies.

A rich lady may gush over a rose flower you got for her, but a broke lady will never do that but will only be pleased when you buy her reigning expensive clothe or gadget, and this mentality of broke ladies unknowingly to them, distracts rich guys.

A rich guy out of love may feel getting his broke girlfriend a rose flower or something like that as bday present, and to his greatest surprise, the lady was expecting the latest iphone or even a car which she may unknowingly show, and end up making the guy cancel her from his top list of would be

franchasng:
6. What The Society Will Say!

Against all odds, some rich guys who by nature's making fell deeply in love with broke ladies end up not marrying the broke ladies simply because of what people will say, what his rich friends will say, and what the society in general will say.

It is not that easy for a truly rich and famous young man to marry a poor lady he picked from nowhere, the odds of it happening in today world is very slim.

Especially now that we have social media broadcasting every single step we take in life, most rich guys hate negative media because it may affect their business, career or family reputation and political image.

MhizzAJ:
Rubbish

franchasng:
Hey ladies and gents, I am here to reveal to you, some of the major reasons rich guys marry rich ladies.

This thread is not talking about some classless guys who by chance or luck or whatever reason stumbled upon big money not really wealth per se because wealth comes with persistent gathering of riches with years.

So before you read further, note that Yahoo boys and their likes are not rich by my own standard!


Truly rich guys don't and will never marry a poor or broke lady, and you know why

1. Their Daily Activities Run Opposite Direction:

In as much as majority of women wish, desire and daydream of getting married to a rich guy, many won't achieve this not because they are not pretty and sexy, but because their daily activities does not match with the daily activities of rich guys, which makes it highly impossible or let me say, difficult for rich guys to get to see them often.

For instance, Paddy Adenuga who we all know is a rich guy, wakes up, prepares and heads straight to his office to start the day's business activities, where he will be probably be meeting with other top company CEOs, directors, top bank marketing executives, brand ambassadors, etc, and maybe during lunch, he drives down to his usual lunch spot at maybe Lagos Atlantic or any other top class restaurant to have his lunch, and probably heads back to his office from there to continue meeting with other top executives and business gurus in his field.

While he is doing all these....Folake, a very pretty girl who has been daydreaming of marrying a rich guy like Paddy Adenuga is at home with her phone logging in from Instagram to Facebook to Snapchat to Badoo to Twitter, changing her best photoshopped and filtered photos hoping to catch one rich guy that will end up marrying her.

Folake refuses to get busy with a career or business that will increase her chances of meeting potential successful guys.

Advice to Folake:
Start a business and be dedicated to it, or get a job, if you can't get one, learn a trade, something like fashion designing, etc, maybe from there, you might get to make a dress that Paddy Adenuga's sister or niece likes and from there, she makes you her regular designer and gets to introduce you to her family members and you may probably get to meet Paddy Adenuga or other of his rich brothers and cousins who may probably fall for your beauty haven get to see you as a dedicated, hardworking, pretty fashion designer and not just a usual fine girl they come across everyday and possibly chop and clean mouth

franchasng:
2. Their Parents Won't Allow Them to Marry Broke Ladies!

My brothers and sisters, haven suffered so much and later you are able to climb out of that poverty hole, believe me, you will never wanna go back there, neither would you want your children, grandchildren and even siblings to go back there, never!

This is why rich men fix marriage for their sons and daughters to also marry sons and daughters of their fellow rich friends. It is as easy as that, and please don't blame them....blame Mr. Poverty for showing them pepper while poor

By chance, some rich guys, guys especially do come across ladies from broke or poor family background they wish to marry, but most often, these dream gets murdered by their parents who will go extramile to ensure their children dare not make the mistake of marrying a broke lady, its sad, but that's the reality, so if you are a broke lady and you are dating a rich guy, my sister....don't rejoice yet because the doomsday will come...that day he will present you to his family and everyone is like....who is she? what does she do for a living? who is her dad? which school did she finished from?

Don't give up....in every rule, there is always an exception and who said yours can't be the very few exceptions Please don't forget to send me your wedding invitation so I can at least come chow some free chicken and still go home with free wedding box gift, Fatima Dangote's wedding comes to mind

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol... Perhaps she asked the question innocently. Marry a rich lady na, they full everywhere.

franchasng:
3. Most Broke Ladies Have Disgusting Mentality & Money Attitude That Repel Successful Guys!

How do you explain the life of a lady who is so fixated on her mobile phone chatting with every Dick and Tom trying to hook up to the extent it becomes her habit, such that even while she is still with Jesus Christ, she will still be looking for the Savior

You are with a very promising young man on a date or something, but you are busy chatting and smiling with some unknown Yahoo boys living in Malaysia or some Janitors living in California, who only dresses up after his Janitor work and rushes to pose in front of McDonalds to snap some cool pix and tag it: Lunch Time! Ah my sister, you have joined bad gang

Due to chronic poverty and years of suffering, most ladies' mentality has been raped front and back, they believe taking them to shopping denotes true love and buying them the latest iPhone means you will marry them, ah ah....is that how you used to do Aunty me

Men generally don't like spending much on the lady they truly want to settle with because they know that whatever they have belongs to her, so whats the need trying to impress with what she will still get to enjoy to the fullest

Most times, men spend lavishly when they want a lady; probably a new catch to open legs lavishly and very fast at that, so they use heavy spending within a twinkle of an eye to blind her reasoning and before she knows it, she is screaming....daddy ejoor, egbami o

Most broke ladies want to live Davica Daloca lifestyle at the expense of some mumu guys, and with time, this becomes their way of life, which repels successful young men they want to marry

franchasng:
7. Rich Guys Believe Broke Ladies Are Gold Diggers!

This we all know is a fallacy of hasty generalisation, but the world in general live by fallacies of generalisation and nobody can change it.

Again, majority of broke ladies are truly gold diggers and this unhealthy attitude of most have ruined the chances of broke ladies getting married to rich guys.

In developed countries like USA, Canada, UK, Germany, France, Japan, Australia, Spain, Switzerland, etc, you can never see a rich guy getting married to a poor lady because they don't want the lady to later divorce them and file for child support and alimony, which usually runs into hundreds and millions of hard currencies.

So in the western world, laws and policies helped in stopping rich guys from marrying broke ladies and in Africa, gold digging, hungry attitude, pressure from the poor girl's family are part of the reasons rich guys avoid marrying broke ladies.

I think broke, average and semi average ladies have a big task to change this bad mentality successful men have about them for things to change for good in future.

JennyOfOldstones:
Bravo! I love this thread. The Cinderella mentality has been instilled in most women since they were girls so it's difficult to realize that Cinderella is just a fairytale. Rich men don't marry poor girls too because of her family
The poor girl may not even be a demanding person but her family might be full of leeches. No rich man wants the responsibility of taking care of his immediate family and demanding extended family.

Kenkaniff:
Who wrote this trash??
Na who wear shoe know where e dey pain am besides coming to think of it,guess it's ideologies such as this,that sinks the world in despair.
I'm from a rich background but married a broke lady and I'm having the best things of life that money couldn't buy that my family has given me yet my wife provides it all.
Money is not everything.
Take down this self righteous article.
Who get sense make them hear simple!!!

Westaslave2:
easier said dan don...dnt fall my hand o

Deltayankeeboi:
mtchewww. Oga enjoy your poor wife alone. You are not to decide for others.

PearlStreet:


Sharrap
A big fish in a small pond is a small fish in the ocean.

I hope you're intelligent enough to understand

CeeKay17:

Exactly bro. As far as your brokeness doesn't transmit (I mean transmission transfusion ) from your pocket to your brain, then we are good.
Many girls are not just financially broke, but they are also mentally broke. Those are they type I can't associate with.

pocohantas:


A very bitter acclaimed NL ex.

pocohantas:


A very bitter acclaimed NL ex.

mapet:


I pray rich people "wean" themselves from this position. We are having too many failed marriages because people don't marry their friend