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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 3:43am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:


They should carry on grin


You are a sinile fool.

no wonder you were abandoned to die in the hospital.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 3:45am On Jun 14, 2018
as for mrphysics the secondary school teacher,you don't worth my time a bit.


nwa teacher.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 3:47am On Jun 14, 2018
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IamD18:


Lol, I'm not against kids using cyber-space or so. They should carry on cool

The most important thing is to know how to handle them as kids, don't belittle yourself before them in a bid to socialise cheesy cheesy

Kimbra just admission in a university grin But she no wan take her first year serious, she's busy emulating Pocohantass and some other ladies that are graduates grin

E go clear for her eyes very soon.

As for Highqueen. She's just foooooolish, I've counted her off grin
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You are simply a nobody,NL first class tout.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 3:54am On Jun 14, 2018
AxceX:
I've gotten used to it by now,so many traits of females I see on here.the feel too big ones that think they're privilege to things bcus their moniker says (f),the gold diggers in disguise i recently encountered one..You know I feel sorry for some guys here who'd asslick this ladies for mere few minutes attention.

The annoying part is they end up fallen below expectations when I'm able to catchh a glimpse of the person behind the (f).
That is the point. Imagine someone like Kimbraa, a year one student, coming online to insult men. There's nothing wrong being a year one student, we all passed through that stage some years back. However, we didn't do that insulting people online. Osadebe, the great Igbo musician said "Onye nka mma, akokwaram onu", translated to be "Who I am better than should not insult me".

The point is that they're in their heydays of insult based living, very soon, Just like their role models here have done, they will come down and start forming repented beings.

What do you say to one who doesn't know what Tax is about.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 3:55am On Jun 14, 2018
kimbraa:
A flaccid dick doesn't make women wet. Beg Séun for a job 'cause you need one. How can you be broke and impotent at the same time? grin
lol,you are wicked aswear.grin
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 4:00am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:
as for mrphysics the secondary school teacher,you don't worth my time a bit.


nwa teacher.

k

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 4:07am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:
as for mrphysics the secondary school teacher,you don't worth my time a bit.


nwa teacher.
K

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 4:25am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:
as for mrphysics the secondary school teacher,you don't worth my time a bit.


nwa teacher.
K

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by dumininu01(m): 4:30am On Jun 14, 2018
Mehn no big deal if u like d guy...jus go for it wink
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by aka12(m): 5:04am On Jun 14, 2018
I don't think most Nigerian guy or men are like that especially emotionally matured oned. I was asked out by a lady, wic turns out to be the most thriling and amazing relationship I had. We had to mutually part ways because of distance and we r still besties till tomorrow

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by pocohantas(f): 5:35am On Jun 14, 2018
LOL! Such insecurity.
It is just a matter of time anyway.

OP, it all depends on the guy.
You can't be so sure till you give it a shot.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by makydebbie(f): 6:23am On Jun 14, 2018
This one depends on the guy you're dealing with.

I'm very outspoken, if I like you or even feel sexually attracted to you, I'll say it. We don pass that stage where we'll feel insecure because we're shooting our shot lol.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Donjazzy12(m): 6:42am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:
sure,they will use it against you las las.
You ladies use it against us all the time and we don't complain.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by pryme(m): 6:58am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

not in Nigeria ...
the west yes its possible.. but back home na

even the man would be seen as not manly ... like a bitch
noone wants a manbîtch .

And you just reduced your standard with this post. It's like you tried dating Boys not Men (when you were back home).
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by IamPlato(m): 7:34am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

with the sort of guys we have in this country?sad
they will always make it known to you that you were the one that came for them when the chips are down.
...


Ladies Kill The Ego na.


Ask A Man Out If You Love Him... If You Get Rejected Then Accept It... Guys Get Rejected every Day. You Have Definitely Rejected Guys Too...


Wether The Asking Comes From You Or Him, if It Will End It Will End. If It Will Work It Will Work...



Alot Of Guys Consider That To Be a Brave move By A Lady...


Dont get Wrongly Indoctrinated my Dear Preshy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Twoclans(f): 7:52am On Jun 14, 2018
makydebbie:
This one depends on the guy you're dealing with.

I'm very outspoken, if I like you or even feel sexually attracted to you, I'll say it. We don pass that stage where we'll feel insecure because we're shooting our shot lol.

Sweetie loud it. kiss kiss

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:12am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.


Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.

Your ‘lights’ are not usually green enough
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by weyreypey: 8:20am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

not in Nigeria ...
the west yes its possible.. but back home na

even the man would be seen as not manly ... like a bitch
noone wants a manbîtch .

Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by weyreypey: 8:20am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

not in Nigeria ...
the west yes its possible.. but back home na

even the man would be seen as not manly ... like a bitch
noone wants a manbîtch .

.......

...

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by famosh: 8:21am On Jun 14, 2018
luminouz:
Lol...
I actually cherish bravery in humans...a girl who could be bold to ask me out obviously knows what she wants and I like such women. What the OP said about some men taking them for granted doesn't apply to me. If there is one thing I know about myself,my looks do not freak me,my intelligence does!!!

"Your looks do not freak you!" Funny bro! Almost every Nigerian guy is actually this deluded! They think they're the 8th wonder of the world! Are you Brian Okwara or Usher ni?

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by okwabayi(m): 8:22am On Jun 14, 2018
This poster has created this thread for the nth time on this platform. I don't know who to blame for always sending this to the front page when other sensible topics stay wasting away. At times like this I realize people my age do not belong here. I better leave this forum to jambites and pre-ssce aged posters.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by DIYhackers: 8:22am On Jun 14, 2018
This post is strictly the opinion of the poster
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:22am On Jun 14, 2018
"Deputy Jesus" grin grin, I hope ladies know the difference between asking a guy out and asking a "Nigerian guy " out ,fullstop lipsrsealed
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by weyreypey: 8:22am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

ticket to cheat anyhow grin
So you cannot share preek with fellow women?
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Toks2008(m): 8:22am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.

I guess all these apply to boys...Real men will never look down on any lady who ask them out.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:23am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



feminist spotted
ko ko ko
hello chimamanda
come and take ur sister commot for here
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:23am On Jun 14, 2018
Till u r 50, dey there. Mumu
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:24am On Jun 14, 2018
It's just the same way we ladies feel when ugly guyz ask us out. When a lady a guy consider pretty ask him out, half of his problem in life is already solved

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by weyreypey: 8:24am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

grin

I tell you,they will so belittle your presence and still go for the ones that actually like.
and when being reminded of their acts,they will ring it to your hearing that you actually did the chasing ,and not the other way round.cheesy
Where's the fun in asking a man out ..... For the man you took away the most important part of the affair.... the chase
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 8:26am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.

My sister honestly the most important thing is prayer wether a lady ask a man out or a man ask a lady out if they will be inlove they sure will and if they will fall out of luv they sure will too. The only thing i see is that most ladies in general fail to understand men and how to relate with me.

First and foremost never see yourself as equal to men no matter how successful u may b always see d man as your head

Second is submissiveness learn to be submissive as a lady

Thirdly do not date a man for only good looks compatiblity matters a lot be sure you both are compatible and on the same page in at least 80% of your idea

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