Preshy561:
sure,they will use it against you las las.

MariaLavina:
The less you reply, the lesser you drag your twin in the mud

IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!

adesina746:


My sister honestly the most important thing is prayer wether a lady ask a man out or a man ask a lady out if they will be inlove they sure will and if they will fall out of luv they sure will too. The only thing i see is that most ladies in general fail to understand men and how to relate with me.

First and foremost never see yourself as equal to men no matter how successful u may b always see d man as your head

Second is submissiveness learn to be submissive as a lady

Thirdly do not date a man for only good looks compatiblity matters a lot be sure you both are compatible and on the same page in at least 80% of your idea

luminouz:
Lol...
I actually cherish bravery in humans...a girl who could be bold to ask me out obviously knows what she wants and I like such women. What the OP said about some men taking them for granted doesn't apply to me. If there is one thing I know about myself,my looks do not freak me,my intelligence does!!!

mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.

Toks2008:


I guess all these apply to boys...Real men will never look down on any lady who ask them out.

Nigerian men

mrdino:


So your sole criterion for dating a guy is his 'hotness'?

mhisbliss:
Submit to who? My lord and personal saviour? Buhahahaha

GrammarNazi1:

When I quote someone TO CORRECT a grammatical error, the first letter will be lowercase. This is because I use an ellipsis. I can only use an uppercase after an ellipsis if the first word is a proper noun.



The use of quotation marks when I refer to a person's comment or statement is superfluous after I must have cancelled the part of the comment I want to correct. I need quotation marks only if I do not cancel the part of the comment I intend to correct.

The first letter of a quotation must be a capital letter ONLY IF YOU'RE QUOTING A FULL SENTENCE. This is the first letter of a quotation, not when I cancel someone's comment in order to correct.

As you can see from the screenshot below, ONLY DIRECT QUOTATIONS SHOULD BE IN QUOTATION MARKS AND THE FIRST LETTER OF A QUOTATION SHOULD BE A CAPITAL ONLY IF YOU'RE QUOTING A FULL SENTENCE. MY CORRECTIONS ARE NOT DIRECT QUOTATIONS AND MOST ARE NOT FULL SENTENCES!

Here are comparisons (highlighting a phrase to be corrected) using a comment by a fictitious moniker, NAIRALAND234:

Thank you, Mr. Olawale, for saying Okun peoples deserves more from the Yahaya Bello's government.

a) ...people deserve more...

The above example of corection is actually wrong and flouts several grammatical rules...rules you always flout. The above is exactly how you always correct.


b)"...People deserve more..."

The second example is exactly what I'd type. All grammatical rules are obeyed.
The quotation marks indicate the word or phrase highlighted part of another person's comment which is being corrected, not yours.

Again, wannabe 'Grammar Nazi', follow all grammatical rules if you want to be what you claim to be. Go the whole nine yards of it.

mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.

IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!

kimbraa:
Shut up! What is civility about wooing a man? So getting dumped was all your brain could make up? Men don't love being wooed, and that's a fact 'cause a lady who wooed a man doesn't leave much to the imagination. Would you rather hunt as a man or be hunted? It boast a man's ego to go all the way out for what he wants, and not have things delivered to him on a platter of Gold.

Ladies, go read why men love bìtches by Sherry Argov, men spoke on this subject and sampling on a majority opinion was taken. Some said they won't value a lady that wooed them. The thought was; "If she wooed me, then she could woo another man, and they don't like perceived threat to their relationship".

mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.

Preshy561:
sure,they will use it against you las las.

kimbraa:
So an "S" made you cancel my post? You're an intelligent mumu. [/s]

kimbraa:
This one will always type from his anus. The French woman who wrote the best selling "Why Men Love Bìtches" obviously knows more than you. The fear of getting dumped wasn't even why she talked of not wooing men. Need I also remind you that Western men didn't agree to your logic? You live in your cave and claim superior knowledge. Go read books since you've never crossed the borders of Nigeria.

IamD18:


Hahahah.....Even if I wake up on Nland, it's still doesn't change the fact that I'm ahead of you in this life. Does it?

I can be nice oo....... Just suck my preeeeq small make I place you wia you go do your industrial training.

Elder001:

Men don't love being wooed... where did you get this fact from?

That's a ridiculous generalization. There are more than 4billion men in this world ,because most of them don't like being wooed doesn't mean you should generalize.

and as for the ego, do you think all men are like African men whose lives revolves around ego?

Have you ever travelled to countries like South Korea, Thailand,Philippines, Japan and Pakistan or at least have some relatives there?

Women woo men everyday in south Korea .

What I'm I even saying.. you probably never ventured from the shores of west Africa.

It boasts a man's ego, it boasts a man's ego... like really?

What boasts your own ego?..



Shut up! What is civility about wooing a man? So getting
dumped was all your brain could make up?

You claim to be civilized but you started a conversation with that write up? ..I truly don't blame you or find it funny.

I blame myself for replying a direction less teenager.

You still have a lot of growing up to do.

This isn't the first time I'm seeing your comments on this forum..

Life is all about phases kid.
When you pass through certain phases, the way you think about life and your personality will change as you move over the phases.

youcanmakeit:
Remember men are different..If a guy start taking a girl for granted because she ask him out, be rest assured that the guy self-esteem is very low..Only boys will act like that..Boys prefer chasing and begging women. Op, your brother and his friends are still BOYS

No Real Man(I mean no Real Man) will take a girl for granted simply because she was the one who ask him out.. Instead he'll so much appreciate her effort and make sure she doesn't feel bad about it..

Some years back a lady asked me out, she never regretted it

sinaj:
Yaaaaawns!

Issorites!
Just know that some guys love being asked out sha.
One man's meat is another man's poison