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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Badmus20(m): 10:07am On Jun 14, 2018
hmm

Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:08am On Jun 14, 2018
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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 10:09am On Jun 14, 2018
adesina746:


And you now wonder why your man will leave u for a lady thats is not even as beautiful as you. My sister Submissivenes to your man is golden o biko
Can you submit to a girl? No? Then you don't know what you're saying

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:10am On Jun 14, 2018
Haha the shear amount of pretentious hoes on this thread sef is alarming! Women are useless! cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by CAPSLOCKED: 10:10am On Jun 14, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

My zodiac sign is aquarius and such women expect men that can treat them as equals.I am not a religious person so I expect an egalitarian relationship from my spouse not a master slave one.
I am equal to him.

As for the second submissiveness must be mutual you submit I submit it is part of the egalitarian relationship.

As for your third advice I agree.

AUNTY AMAZON.. YOU AND THIS YOUR ZODIAC THING SEF.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by erico2k2(m): 10:10am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

OK fair enough...
so I'm guessing you are happily married with kids to that lady who asked you out first ... right?
Well at that age it was all about dating going out and having fun, no one talked about marriage, so the answer is NO, however I'm married to my best friend with kids
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Brugo(m): 10:13am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard....
not worth the risk grin

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by ElDaIllest(m): 10:14am On Jun 14, 2018
kimbraa:
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round.
I'm certainly sure in this your earth lifetime you've never been in a man's body or experienced being one, you shouldn't jump to what "all" men loves or do not love. Not all men love chasing women for long. Be guided.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:14am On Jun 14, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


AUNTY AMAZON.. YOU AND THIS YOUR ZODIAC THING SEF.
Oga caps good morning,Ever since my wonderful friend Xhosanostra told me about astrology,I found it interesting and believe in it to be true because I possess some of those traits.Astrology is fun.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Brugo(m): 10:15am On Jun 14, 2018
Badmus20:
hmm

cheesy you’d be surprised
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:17am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

Eric not bad ...not bad at all
u have a goatie ...... if u need full one I can refer u

but it will cost grin


chai!!! n buhari have not paid my wages, if you have any wig that you are no longer using .. that should do ! undecided
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by weyreypey: 10:21am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:


sad see your life..
sad
Don't worry. I am fidelity personified.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by ogbu80(m): 10:24am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



say no more bro
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by annyberry: 10:24am On Jun 14, 2018
luminouz:
Lol...
I actually cherish bravery in humans...a girl who could be bold to ask me out obviously knows what she wants and I like such women. What the OP said about some men taking them for granted doesn't apply to me. If there is one thing I know about myself,my looks do not freak me,my intelligence does!!!
Nice words......it only a silly guy would take a lady for granted,I actually approached my man funny enof we are getting married soon.....

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Oxygen1998: 10:24am On Jun 14, 2018
what is diff abt those dat dnt v beards?
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard....
not worth the risk grin
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 10:27am On Jun 14, 2018
annyberry:
Nice words......it only a silly guy would take a lady for granted,I actually approached my man funny enof we are getting married soon.....
Awwwwwwwwwww....
That's so cool..
Wishing Y'ALL the bestest!!!! grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:30am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:


Lol grin

I don't support a lady asking a guy out, but I hate it when dump ladies thinks it's a guarantee for not getting used and dumped grin

Funny enough, asking a girl out isn't my thing cool Because I don't love.

I play my card, she codes, we benefit from each other and move on. No time for deceitful emotional confessions grin
u really dont need to ask a girl out before u two get to businesscheesy.sometimes its just done if d guy is a romantic or he has geniune love for d girl. Having said that there are guys who who have been asking a girl out for months and yrs and they have been kept on hold while her main guy will be enjoying all the goodiescheesy. Maybe when d main guy breaks her heart then she gives the go ahead to the other hopeful toasters in the substitution listcheesy. Na so e jus becheesy.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:31am On Jun 14, 2018
If he ask a guy out and she's in her 30s, in our primary sch days we used to sing one song like dat "fire on d mountain-RUN!RUN!RUN!RUN!"
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 10:48am On Jun 14, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:



IF YOU'RE WITH I AND THE BOYS THERE'S NOTHING YOU WON'T HEAR. YOU'LL CONCLUDE WE'RE THE BIGGEST HOOLIGANS.. BUT THAT'S JUST WHAT BOYS DO WHEN THEY'RE TOGETHER AND NOT HAVING IMPORTANT THINGS TO DISCUSS.
AFTER ALL THE RAZZ TALK IN THE GROUP, EACH ONE OF US ARE LOVELY AND COMMITED IN OUR OWN DIFFERENT WAYS.
JUDGE A BOY BASED ON WHAT YOU HEARD IN THEIR GROUP AT YOUR OWN PERIL. IT'S MOSTLY JUST MADE UP NEWS, NOTHING SERIOUS.
WHO TOLD YOU THEY THOUGHT YOU WEREN'T LISTENING? HAHA. YOU DON'T KNOW US.





THE MAIN REASON YOU BROUGHT THIS HERE.

WE DEAL WITH BACK AND FORTH REJECTIONS ALL OUR LIVES AS MALES. MANY GIRLS CELEBRATE AND APPLAUD THEIR FRIENDS FOR TURNING DOWN AND EMBARRASSING A BOY.. REJECTING MALES IS LIKE A SPORT FOR YOU. YOU'LL RATHER REJECT A BOY YOU LIKE COUNTLESSLY JUST BECAUSE YOU ENJOY HIM CRAWLING FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
SUDDENLY, ALL THE GIRLS IN THAT CATEGORY AGREE THAT IT IS UNJUST AND EVIL FOR A BOY TO TURN DOWN A GIRL.

WEIRD THING IS, YOU'RE UNHAPPY THAT HE TURNED HER DOWN BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LIKE HER, BUT YOU'LL BE THE SAME PERSON TO DRUM "BOYS ARE SCUM" ALL DAY IF HE HAD JUST PRETENDED TO ACCEPT HER (IN ORDER TO NOT HURT HER FEELINGS) AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION.

YOU PEOPLE ARE CONFUSED.

grinI'd love to disagree with you but i just can't see what to disagree with, you're right especially @bolded and its wierd but we're not confused

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by akiOYIBO: 10:48am On Jun 14, 2018
Saff:
Beforeee nko

It’s all part of the game, if you don’t play it well you’ll end up heartbroken and shattered. All the guys will come and say “ it doesn’t matter, we like bold women”

Just an advice, never listen to what men say, listen to their actions. That’s all.
Here they are again claiming victims and innocents in what they are apparently guilty of. Its a welcome development that men are no more thinking with thier d!ck, ladies deserve every bad attitude they get from guys.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by akiOYIBO: 10:50am On Jun 14, 2018
sinaj:
Yaaaaawns!
Issorites! Just know that some guys love being asked out sha. One man's meat is another man's poison
dont mind those ugly low self esteem-one-pant ladies.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by CAPSLOCKED: 10:54am On Jun 14, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

Oga caps good morning,Ever since my wonderful friend Xhosanostra told me about astrology,I found it interesting and believe in it to be true because I possess some of those traits.Astrology is fun.


ASTROLOGY IS FUN TO ME BECAUSE.. THERE'S A WAY IT WORKS WITH THE HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY.
IT CAN BE FUN TO DISCUSS, BUT PEOPLE LOVE TO TAKE IT TOO FAR, CHOOSING CAREERS, SPOUSES, THINGS TO DO AT A PARTICULAR DAY OR TIME? LORD.
BY MAKING HOROSCOPES AS VAGUE AS POSSIBLE, THE AUTHOR CREATES A DESCRIPTION THAT COULD MATCH ALMOST ANYONE.

LET'S ASSUME YOU WERE BORN IN JANUARY, BUT DUE TO AN ERROR WITH YOUR DOB YOU GREW UP WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU WERE BORN ON JUNE 1st, YOU'LL BE HAPPY THAT THE ZODIAC IS TRUE BECAUSE YOU'LL FIND YOUR MATCH WITH THE GEMINI SIGN. LIKEWISE IF THE ERROR SHOWS JULY 31st AS YOUR DOB.. YOU'LL DISCOVER YOU BEHAVE EXACTLY LIKE A LEO.

IT'S POSSIBLE TO BE IN A ROOM FILLED WITH PEOPLE WHO WERE BORN ON EXACTLY THE SAME DAY AND MINUTE YOU WERE BORN AND THERE WON'T BE ANY SIMILARITIES IN YOUR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERNS.

PEOPLE JUST CONDITION THEIR MINDS AROUND CERTAIN THINGS AND FORCE THEMSELVES TO FIT IN. DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY TIMES THE DATES OF THE SIGNS HAVE BEEN CHANGED IN HISTORY? FUNNY ENOUGH PEOPLE STILL CLAIM THEIR SIGNS ARE ACCURATE.


THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS NOT ONE PERSON OR OBJECT IS IN CHARGE OF YOUR FUTURE BUT YOU, AND NO MATTER WHAT ANY ZODIAC SIGN SAYS, YOUR FEATURES AND PERSONALITY ARE UNIQUE AND HARD TO PIN DOWN WITH JUST YOUR BIRTH DATE AND SOME FAKE FORTUNES.

THE CONSTELLATION DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR EXISTENCE.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by LeHMaR(m): 10:54am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



And i was rushed to the thread with hopes of posting something like this... The greedy fellow had to write everything i had in mind... Lemme just like his post and bounce.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by akiOYIBO: 10:54am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard.... not worth the risk grin
Hope u all worth it hmmmmm? With all una quater and half plot of cookies.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Revolva(m): 10:55am On Jun 14, 2018
shut up.....how many naija gals can pay bills of their lovers..disgraceful creatures call naija gals...confusionists....that why 70% of dem r oloshos

https://mobile.facebook.com/naijaolosho
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:57am On Jun 14, 2018
cool
sinaj:
Yaaaaawns!

Issorites!
Just know that some guys love being asked out sha.
One man's meat is another man's poison
wink
sinaj:
Yaaaaawns!

Issorites!
Just know that some guys love being asked out sha.
One man's meat is another man's poison
You just described me ...

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:58am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

grin

I tell you,they will so belittle your presence and still go for the ones that actually like.
and when being reminded of their acts,they will ring it to your hearing that you actually did the chasing ,and not the other way round.cheesy

You've been mingling with donkey's posing as Men....

cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 10:58am On Jun 14, 2018
guccitype:
Why using Nigerian men alone when you can say guys. Nonsense
Because its only nigerian men that are so backward and shallow to that extent
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:59am On Jun 14, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

if to say I for marry in this lifetime, I for marry you.Babe wet head dey dia
I'm not seeking a life partner.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 11:01am On Jun 14, 2018
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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 11:02am On Jun 14, 2018
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Revolva:
shut up.....how many naija gals can pay bills of their lovers..disgraceful creatures call naija gals...confusionists....that why 70% of dem r oloshos [/s]

https://mobile.facebook.com/naijaolosho

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