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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 12:18pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Lalas247:How can they ask guys out when they know exactly what I'm talking about and what it feels like to ask a guy out? me I'm a mordern age woman, I'm outspoken, if i feel something for a guy I'll tell him bla bla bla, they're just saying it because its nairaland, they ooze hypocrisy, especially that poco woman, she should ask a guy out and tell me what happened afterwards then I'll take her serious 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 12:20pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
adesina746:And aside the bible you're always quick to reference, what doctrine or legal law proclaimed it isn't right for a guy to submit to a girl in this modern world? |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:21pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
adesina746:This is the 21st century and times have changed and life is dynamic not static.Laws do change,Culture also changes,some religions have different sects so their laws/doctrines differ. That said I earlier pointed out that I am not religious,Submission to me is mutual and I sometimes do it and the person I do it to must reciprocate in return.Submissiveness is not a gender thing it goes both ways. And I don't need anybody to guide,protect me blah blah I can do all that. I don't believe that or go with stereotyping,I go with my rules what works for me and not what religion says. Everyone has what works for them and that your advice cannot work for me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
I completely disagree with this... 2 of the best relationships I've had were born out of me approaching the guy. You don't 'ask' a man out... you just approach, make yourself available and convey the message that you admire HIM. Unless you're attracted to trash you won't be treated any less for displaying love for another being. So, it's not men that are the problem it's the kind of men YOU are attracted to. The worst case scenario for me would be a polite, 'no... I'm with someone' or 'I'm really sorry I don't have those feelings for you'. And my self pride is too high to be damaged by the truth! I love and respect the truth. Girls... Pick the man you want instead of settling for a man that wants you... that's my 2 cents 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 12:25pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Ok. Goodluck |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 12:28pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
LivingFree:You don't have to lie to prove me wrong |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 12:31pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: And what legal law also proclaim that it is right? Sebi we have all seen where modern age is leading us to. For once forget being sentimental and try to reason about the facts. May be u will see a little sense in what am saying. I agree some men might be out of place in their behaviour at treating women. But that does not change the fact that ones a woman finds herself in a relationship she should follow the principles that will make life easy for her part of it is submissiveness. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: Wow. Sweetie, not everything is about you... I am very comfortable telling a "God amongst Men", that he is a "God amongst men". I would've expected a more fresh approach to life coming from a young lady but I guess you don't want to test the boundaries of life and that's not my problem. My self-esteem isn't dependent on what others think about me... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by jaxxy(m): 12:37pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: Whilst u are some what correct I think its good for ladies to ask men out Just to have a feel of what men go tru asking ladies out without knowing wat the outcome cud be, the suspense and patience just so u appreciate whenever a guy woos u and know Wat he had 2 pass tru. Im not saying entertain any or every guy dat approaches u bt understand it wasn't easy for him. However sm guys have mastered the Art! |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 12:37pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: It may also interest you to know that my woman also asked me out and i must tell you that till today we are fine. U may choose to believe it or not . But i can never leave her for another lady because she has values. Now its not about who asked who out. Its about compatibility and Gods blessing at times I know of a friend who is also married to a lady he met got down with same week and now they are married today with a female child and the other ladies that formed hard to get has been discarded by him so what are we saying |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by princfred(m): 12:37pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Without asking him if a lady is friendly, responsive enough and alluring enough the guy if interested will get a clue and the lead on to do the asking out. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 12:39pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
LivingFree: Nice one. What will be will be no matter who started what |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 12:40pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
adesina746:I wasn't there so arguing with you is a total waste of time and you know it is |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 12:46pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: U dont need to be there am just saying the basic facts . The only thing i want you to know from personal experiences is that what will be yours will be yours no matter what form it comes or take and u will most times not struggle to get what belongs to you 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 12:46pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
LivingFree:Why would your life story be about me, its boring and I'm not a boring person, my self esteem is very high as well and I'm not about to throw it away by throwing myself at a nigerian man, we have different interpretations of life and that's why shouldn't impose lawlessness on me thank you |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 12:49pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
adesina746:Instead of answering questions you just jump at another issue entirely, the submission should be mutual not one sided |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lovexme(m): 12:49pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
I suppose I'm not a Nigerian then. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by 4Organic: 12:50pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
If a girl approached me and asked me out and i said "no" Am just trynna imagine how am gonna say "no" I mean if a girl approaches you and you reject her you might be the most unkind person on earth. I will say "YES" and i will try to avoid making her upset. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 12:55pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss:exactly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 12:59pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss:my dear,NL is full of pretentious beings. both men and women!! don't feel flabbergasted about it. I am not disappointed at some pretentious comments here,worst is that the guys that claimed they were toasted never agreed to marry these ladies. and the ladies here that form civilization didn't end up with those ones they approached. lool,I can't stop laughing. Will chat you when I'm back dear. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 12:59pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: The thing is that it is a priviledge and luck on your side if your man is submissive. However dont expect it so as to have peace in your relationship. The fact remains that men are built with Ego and thus might not be easy to b submissive. But one thing i can assure you is this with time most especially after some certain years in marraige like say 10- 15 years the man naturally becomes submissive to his wife. Anything the wife tells him he does in most cases. Go and ask couples that have been married for that long. The ladie now becomes boss and is in charge. That does not mean she is disrespecting him. That is when u hear things like let me talk to.my wife about it and d likes 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Babaolorioko(m): 12:59pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: Just because you can't propose to a man, that doesn't other can't. It is a matter of choice. For any Lady to propose to a Man she would have known he is a mature type who will appreciate her. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss: OKAY, but you'd sell your first born for a white man! I understand your type. Self hate is killing you but in your attempts at hiding it you have fooled yourself. I didn't comment on this thread to exchange words with you in particular so this will be my last reply because I'm very protective of my brain cells. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 1:00pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
hypocrites and civilised men and women of NL, ndewo. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 1:02pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Preshy561: Madam u are just pouring your own frustration all over the place without reasonable argument or contribution u better take it easy and if u come here u quote me wit insult i shall give it to u double till u tire 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Saff(f): 1:05pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
LivingFree:So what happened to those wonderful relationships then? Anyways the point is going out of your way to approach someone. Making yourself available is completely different from approaching a man, and asking him out. And I think that’s what the OP is talking about. There’s power in femininity and letting a man do his job. Just saying. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 1:10pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
LivingFree:Self hate? Nah, your comment is a reflection of who you're and thats why I'm not coming off my high horse, enough said. Last last you don't have brain cells, you're only blowing your horn like every other fool does, that puddle in your school can only churn out cockeyed nonsense and replying you is only increasing your I.Q be thankful b!tch |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 1:11pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Babaolorioko:Not any man, a Nigerian man, learn to read before replying |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 1:12pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
adesina746:Why are arguing over this, believe what you believe, but as far as I'm concerned, submission should be mutual |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 1:14pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
adesina746:my mention is not a circus where clowns are entertained. get lost and thank you. |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 1:15pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Preshy561:Lol so true, ttyl 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 1:15pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
mhisbliss:take is jaweh,e never reach. livingfree,you too. |
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