boiz2men:
60k as salary ?


Is that enough to go into a nigerian relationship?

Divay22:
They are confuse

XingXhang:


Are you married, Divay?

Divay22:

See question o
No

XingXhang:


Ehn ehn...you've been a popular name around here and who knows, your hubby might be here, Divay?

DivinelyBlessed:
Some of us are single because of personal decision.

Money comes first.
"Chase a cheque, never chase a b*tch" - Future

Divay22:

Nope. I don't think so

XingXhang:


I think some people here are responsible individuals too.
Just loosen up a little

Divay22:

Even with you laughing seems you ain't sure... Abeg i no fit for drama.
And like i said the last time, karma is still dealing with me and I'm enjoying it but same time learning from it.

ManIzHot:
....Because it is a CHOICE..

Why will i wanna get married when i am yet to be fulfilled financially..?

Guys don't wanna manage anymore
We wanna have more than enough

We don't want our kids to experience the kinda struggle or hardship we have/had

We wanna be man enough..! Not by keeping beards or having six packs...but having a health business with fat account...!

Why the rush...?
Getting married finish and thinking about finances...thereby looking older than your age? hell no!

Yes we have little cash...like the amount you stated...

but little is nothing!

60k can't build house
60k can't feed my family comfortablely for a month
60k can't take care of our social needs....cause i don't want a boring type of family
60k can't even pay school fee.....unless you wanna take your kids to some Anyhow school


A gal i might be considering dating now.....is that person that don't want to settle for less
smart
ambitious
positive vibe
pretty
decent
God fearing
Good sense of humor


anything aside these......leave me let me be single in peace na CHOICE

XingXhang:


Tbh, I'm serious.
You can meet someone casually here and something serious might start up. We can't really choose where we find love, you know?

Divay22:

Yeah. You're right though.
But I'm not just ready yet..

HouseOfWine:


Single life for me right now is the shizzle

Do U know how much i have saved this year by not having a girlfriend

Better to just have fwb or flings nothing permanent now abeg

I need more money n power

Girlfriend will slow me down indirectly..

austyn0:
In as much as I would hate to admit this,, it is the plain truth...


But,, avoiding girlfriends that would very much likely make good wives in the name of making money first and losing them to other attentive guys,, after making money and you are left with daily quality wife search to no avail...

How do you handle this?

HouseOfWine:



Bro life is all about risk and as of now my main priority is to raise my bar, because that will def make life so much easy that even good, bad and worse gurls will flock to you.

Now that your point on losing potential wifey material, i understand that truly but really bro there are so many fishes in the ocean and i was never a bad fisherman

I lost my secondary school love just because we did universities in different countries, now she is happily married with twins which shoulda be mine but i aint trippin

Such is life U cant win 'em all, U make do with what U have and can have

Brightgem:
Single for reasons already stated in OPs original post. Love and relationships were so much less complicated at a younger age, with advanced adulthood na apology. Nobody seems straight forward, people are suspicious, guys are inconsistent in their acts, its even harder for an introvert without much of a social life.