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Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jun 16, 2018
Flee from any woman that request for Registry Marriage.

The issue of sharing of properties cannot come in except the wife claims that as a relief in her answer to the petition for dissolution of marriage.
The law assumes that settlement of property and maintenance is an ancillary relief which a man owes his wife if he files for divorce.


For example a man file for divorce after 20years of marriage to his wife.

The law assumes he's the one filling for divorce after she has given him 20 years of her life. She may even throw in how she supported him(even if it's not financial support) and performed wifely duties to him. The law assumes the man can't leave her with an uncertain financial future (I still don't know whether this implies if the woman is rich.. didn't see anything like that though) after she spent two decades building his.

If she claims for settlement of properties in the marriage, the judge usually would look at the circumstances of the case and facts supplied to reach a decision on what to give her.
Judges have a wide discretionary power to settle matrimonial properties as it deems just to do so.

The judge has a discretion to award reliefs sought by parties in a divorce proceeding, according to the facts and circumstances of the case at hand.
If she specifically ask that she shares in the matrimonial properties and the facts and circumstances makes it justifiable that she does deserve a share, the court will order that.

The law doesn't care about who owns what or what anyone brought into the marriage.

The court can order settlement I. e share any property belonging to any of the parties on the request of the woman.

Nigerian law considers marriage as a partnership.

The law assumes when the partnership finally end, nobody leaves empty handed except the woman didn't specifically ask for anything.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jun 16, 2018
I guess this is why men are scared to file for divorce or reluctant to file for divorce because from the way it seems now the law assumes you've wasted the woman's life.

Like only women can file for divorce because if you do you'll lose much.. smh


I won't advice any man(not even my enemy) to do registry marriage .
If a lady insists on registry marriage please she can't be trusted, kindly cancel the wedding.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by IamD18: 5:18pm On Jun 16, 2018
Don't trust any broke fellow.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by ibkayee(f): 5:24pm On Jun 16, 2018
Lol you again

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jun 16, 2018
IamD18:
Don't trust any broke fellow.

If you don't want to share your properties then flee from any woman who insists on registry marriage.

or else na suicide go end am o.

Go and do ordinary customary marriage not statutory ..no matter how you love a Nigerian lady if she opts for the registry (statutory) don't think twice /thrice before you flee.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jun 16, 2018
ibkayee:
Lol you again

Which one is me again? you don't want me to advice them so that women can share properties with them?

Your comment isn't needed abeg.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jun 16, 2018
If you love your life..
A word is enough for the wise..

Marry a lady that has her own properties so she won't say
you wasted her life.
You've your own properties ,I've mine.
we're both rich so there's no need requesting for any
property.
If you can't do that I'll advice you not to attempt registry
marriage.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by QueenSuccubus(f): 5:31pm On Jun 16, 2018
undecided


What do u mean by *REGISTRY MARRIAGE* ?

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Cuddlebugie(f): 5:33pm On Jun 16, 2018
Is Elder001 married?

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Holymann(m): 5:38pm On Jun 16, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
undecided

What do u mean by *REGISTRY MARRIAGE* ?
Court Marriage

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Masterppower: 5:46pm On Jun 16, 2018
Court marriage is indeed a terrible disaster in the waiting....


While the original intent was good, bad and evil women/girls have exploited it for their personal aggrandizement.....


Guys, I second the ops opinion...

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by ednut1(m): 6:33pm On Jun 16, 2018
Smh. Abeg do it for other reasons. D points u highlighted who go enforce am I dont see any man sharing his property

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jun 16, 2018
Cuddlebugie:
Is Elder001 married?

You just said so.
How are you?
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jun 16, 2018
ednut1:
Smh. Abeg do it for other reasons. D points u highlighted who go enforce am I dont see any man sharing his property

You're asking me that?

do registry marriage with a lady who knows the constitution very well and you'll know who's going to enforce it.

If you like go and do registry marriage.. suicide will end it last last

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jun 16, 2018
Masterppower:
Court marriage is indeed a terrible disaster in the waiting....


While the original intent was good, bad and evil women/girls have exploited it for their personal aggrandizement.....


Guys, I second the ops opinion...


which second option?

traditional or wedding
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 11:49pm On Jun 16, 2018
Mods night done reach make una go sleep
I wan off light lipsrsealed

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by jaksmillioniar: 11:53pm On Jun 16, 2018
Elder001:
Flee from any woman that request for Registry Marriage.

The issue of sharing of properties cannot come in except the wife claims that as a relief in her answer to the petition for dissolution of marriage.
The law assumes that settlement of property and maintenance is an ancillary relief which a man owes his wife if he files for divorce.


For example a man file for divorce after 20years of marriage to his wife.

The law assumes he's the one filling for divorce after she has given him 20 years of her life. She may even throw in how she supported him(even if it's not financial support) and performed wifely duties to him. The law assumes the man can't leave her with an uncertain financial future (I still don't know whether this implies if the woman is rich.. didn't see anything like that though) after she spent two decades building his.

If she claims for settlement of properties in the marriage, the judge usually would look at the circumstances of the case and facts supplied to reach a decision on what to give her.
Judges have a wide discretionary power to settle matrimonial properties as it deems just to do so.

The judge has a discretion to award reliefs sought by parties in a divorce proceeding, according to the facts and circumstances of the case at hand.
If she specifically ask that she shares in the matrimonial properties and the facts and circumstances makes it justifiable that she does deserve a share, the court will order that.

The law doesn't care about who owns what or what anyone brought into the marriage.

The court can order settlement I. e share any property belonging to any of the parties on the request of the woman.

Nigerian law considers marriage as a partnership.

The law assumes when the partnership finally end, nobody leaves empty handed except the woman didn't specifically ask for anything.
God bless u dear most wish to theif our property cos of marrage some born a child not for u but claim is urs. d best marrage is traditional cos if she cheat she bring pains and shame to her family and in some place is abomination she die

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by allanphash7(m): 11:53pm On Jun 16, 2018
Never
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by SalamRushdie: 11:54pm On Jun 16, 2018
True

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Yomisky(m): 11:54pm On Jun 16, 2018
ok
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by bebe2(f): 11:55pm On Jun 16, 2018
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by spiritedtete: 11:55pm On Jun 16, 2018
Forget that thing OP court marriage or field marriage.... in fact even if she is the Attoney General of the Federation. "this is africa" if the husband didn't kill her... his family will oo.

Na that time you go know say person dey sleep wakeup for the other side. This divorce sharing of property kolewerk!

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by amethystnnty1: 11:56pm On Jun 16, 2018
spiritedtete:
Forget that thing OP court marriage or field marriage.... in fact even if she is the Attoney general of the federation. "this is africa" if the husband didn't kill her... his family will oo.

Na that time you go know say person dey sleep wakeup for the other side. This divorce sharing of property kolewerk!


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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by MissRaine69(f): 11:56pm On Jun 16, 2018
This is why there are lawyers to ensure that every loop hole is explored and exploited..

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Addictedtodrugs(m): 11:57pm On Jun 16, 2018
My serious gf want us to do court marriage and I already agreed!! Should I still trust her ?
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by amethystnnty1: 11:58pm On Jun 16, 2018
I'm of the belief that the state should stay away from the institution of marriage but since it can't I like that individual have the option to go the other way in Nigeria for now

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Mznaett: 11:58pm On Jun 16, 2018
Let me use this thread to ease off the heartbreak our guys gave us this night. grin grin

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by tete7000(m): 11:59pm On Jun 16, 2018
People go into marriage thinking it won't last. Marriage built on foundation of sand of distrust and mutual suspicion. Na by force to marry if you already from inception thinking it is not going to work? Devil has indeed taken over the hearts of people and enslaved them with his reign of fear.

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by jaksmillioniar: 11:59pm On Jun 16, 2018
MissRaine69:
This is why there are lawyers to ensure that every loop hole is explored and exploited..
why cheat In d first place

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Michealsinzo: 12:01am On Jun 17, 2018
Flee from any woman that keep insisting...HE WHO HAVE EAR LET HIM HEAR �...now is only the wise that survives ...

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Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by amethystnnty1: 12:01am On Jun 17, 2018
jaksmillioniar:

why cheat In d first place

Cheating isn't the only reason people divorce

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