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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Ishilove: 5:03am On Jun 17, 2018 |
The lady is truly speechless. She doesn't know which kind of lie to tell you. Stories like this are why I always advise people to pray well when dating so that God can expose time wasters before they have a chance to live up to their nomenclature. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by MoonWater: 5:44am On Jun 17, 2018 |
drdaniels:sorry about that but dont worry, she will still come back to fvck you. Make sure you disgrace her any time she comes. How you chose to execute that is your choice to make |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:57am On Jun 17, 2018 |
His body language was not convincing enough. The other man hit the nail on the head, went straight to the point and took her straight to Mama, then paid the bride price. there's No greater assurance than that. Finally you will need to improve on your "other room" skills, no woman will leave 4.0 V.6 for a 1.3. Learn to use that tool properly. good luck in your future endeavours. 4 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:58am On Jun 17, 2018 |
MoonWater: I doubt that seriously. One of the reasons she left was a lack of skill in that area. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 7:12am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Omo na wa o. I no dey carry woman matter for head . Immune to this kinda bulshit. No such tin as love beware |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 7:22am On Jun 17, 2018 |
GAZZUZZ:i doubt dat. Most ladies wont mind if u no get skil as long as u get money and wan marry dem. To marry na der life greatest life ambition. Dey wont mind getting prick outside 6 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:40am On Jun 17, 2018 |
ednut1: Talking from experience? |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 7:56am On Jun 17, 2018 |
GAZZUZZ: |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by CAPSLOCKED: 8:07am On Jun 17, 2018 |
hooklover: WHERE GOT ME WAS THE "PUT IT ANYHOW" THAT FOLLOWED HER RESPONSE OF "I DON'T KNOW HOW TO PUT IT" WHEN THE POSTER DEMANDED EXPLANATION. HER FINAL ANSWER WAS A PROUD "NO". NO EXPLANATION, NO APOLOGIES, NO REMORSE, NOTHING. I'M LAUGHING SO HARD WITH PAIN IN MY HEART RIGHT NOW. IT'S JUST SAD. 5 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Twoclans(f): 8:19am On Jun 17, 2018 |
The word fiance is highly overused .When I was a baby I was told you can only call someone your fiance when bride price has been paid. Or appropriate ceremony and concurrence between the two families has been done. Regardless its never right to keep someone you are sexually involved with in the dark about your decision to move on from the relationship irrespective of the gender. 4 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pedrilo: 8:20am On Jun 17, 2018 |
jessca048:ur thought process is nauseating 2 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 8:24am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Twoclans: That one nah wife, with license to impregnate 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pocohantas(f): 8:40am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Ishilove: That's it, rather than try to explain and get it all wrong, she chose to be silent. I have a friend who pulled similar stunt, even me her so called friend didn't see it coming She told me she was getting married the next month, claimed it just happened. The only thing that would have been a surprise might be the other guy proposing, but when she was dating two of them...she knew what she wanted. It is a little over 2yrs now, I haven't spoken to her. If she had played it cool, we might still be in talking terms, but she started playing victim. OP, should just move. It is the hustle for marriage that causes all this. Sadly, it would keep happening. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Sterope(f): 8:51am On Jun 17, 2018 |
True CaptJeffry: |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Originalsly: 8:59am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Take heart...it 8s better for you it happened this way.... it is only now you're finding out she is deceitful. Guess she got you to agree no sex until marriage.... while the other guy got green light all along. Move on....open your eyes ..wide...before jumping into marriage decision with your ehmmm....next fiancee. |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 9:16am On Jun 17, 2018 |
drdaniels: wtf bro! You must be on a celestial level of dumb to not know your girl was getting married. You guys keep letting women get away with things like this 4 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 9:25am On Jun 17, 2018 |
You all need to stop turning women into Lord of the Ring Don't propose until you are able to do the wedding in 6 to 9 months. Your case is a lil different (OP) because you had the wedding outfit already which suggests you were planning the wedding to happen real soon (I hope) I wouldn't wear an engagement ring without wedding plans in place. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Ishilove: 9:30am On Jun 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:I hope at the end the deceit is worth the breaking of friendships and the betrayal. Some women sef |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pocohantas(f): 9:33am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Ishilove: Considering the status of her husband, I think it is worth it |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Michelle55: 9:33am On Jun 17, 2018 |
I'm sorry this happened to you but take it as one of those things we usually experience in life and move on.. it's gonna be hard moving on but you can't change what has already happened so the best therapy is to wish her well and face your life squarely, your own God designed woman will waltz into your life sooner than you think. it might also be a sign that both of you ain't meant to end up together as a couple. I always believe that as humans that what we ask and pray for will eventually be given to us but not in the exact package we want it but in the package God thinks is best for us. so believe she's not yours and wait for your own that wouldn't leave you in good or bad weather!! be happy because you need and deserve it. 3 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by CyberWolf: 9:35am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Maybe she told you no sex till marriage and you agreed, told same to the other guy but he insisted and had his way, then the banging threw her off balance and like they say, the rest is history.. This is just assumption because I don’t know what happened. Take heart and move on, this is life.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Ishilove: 9:35am On Jun 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:She followed money and betrayed everyone. I sincerely hope the marriage fails 3 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by lereinter(m): 9:35am On Jun 17, 2018 |
jessca048: it will happen to u too 2 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by lereinter(m): 9:39am On Jun 17, 2018 |
were you in a long distance relationship abi she's not really your fiancee maybe gf I don't know how insensitive 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 9:42am On Jun 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:I never see person wey lie pass you for this forume.You always have experience/story to tell on every issue cho cho cho cho cho like parot 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pocohantas(f): 9:48am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Ishilove: I don't hope so ahbeg, I really do wish her the best. Tbh, I felt hurt, for the ex especially. I realised she played us both. LOL... 2 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by wagazala: 9:50am On Jun 17, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: I'm sure he's soapy cos he didn't get to hit it. If had been tadadada he ought to be popping a few with his mates celebrating as you suggested. I mean, why get weary over a girl. Plenty more fish in the sea. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by sexy74(m): 10:06am On Jun 17, 2018 |
drdaniels:My brother thank God it happened now and like this. You have one person less to worry about and get focused for better thing to come in your life. She has never been for you, she was just using you to mark time. If you where more observant you would have seen signs. Learn this one too, never cover up for a woman's misdeed to your family. 2 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by princepee: 10:51am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Things ladies do for money, I believe the other is richer and she feels more secure with him,.., the hustle is real,. And ladies could be very deceitful if their chose to be, take heart mannn! Work hard make some money u will have a lot girls running after u. |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by emelda86(f): 11:31am On Jun 17, 2018 |
This is the height of wickedness gosh...u don't do that to someone you claim to love haba!!! Op take heart your true love will locate |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Is she the same girl in this ur previous story? Answer fess lemme know how to advise you. 1 Share
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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by dingbang(m): 11:57am On Jun 17, 2018 |
All the females commenting here are advising the man to move on, well I agree with them 100percent, but let it be known to these confused souls that when this same situation happens to a sister, I hope they all will give the same advise to her, telling her that shitt happens and she should move on.. Have a blessed day 7 Likes 1 Share |
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