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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 12:01pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
dingbang: ![]() |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by dingbang(m): 12:10pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
ednut1:because I am about to do my own so nobody should call me the devil 2 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by KevinDein: 12:10pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
princepee:That's why all these pre-wedding pictures I see around seem like a big joke to me, TBH. People engage in all sorts of deceit (to ex and present partners) to get married, the whole thing is a sham, a scam, a fucckking charade. 3 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 12:47pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
KevinDein:who do we blame ![]() |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Jeferious: 1:23pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
When I see people whine and rant over what they perceive as injustice and breach of trust, I just laugh like say I drink one full jar of laughing gas. The thing is, when dealing with people, expect the worst while praying for the best. This has nothing to do with pessimism. It is more like cautiousness and guardedness. When I see a lion, I know it should charge and attack me. Maybe, it might not. A snake should bite me if it sense that I'm danger once it notice me. But then, it might crawl away if it feels I'm not worth its venom. And it is the same with men. They may love you, they may hate you. They may be loyal, they might disappoint you. But then, whatever the feelings of all these creatures towards you, your readiness to preserve and protect yourself is very paramount. This is exactly the foundation of self-love. I'm not expected to leave myself at the mercy of the lion, the snake or the disappointing man. And this is why a reasonable man would fortify himself emotionally, physically, psychologically and in every other necessary aspect. He does not abandon himself at the mercy of others. It is this mentality that has helped me throughout life. I don't expect much from people. But I won't let them disappoint me. I would rather disappoint the whole world than let the whole world disappoint me. 8 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by iLegendd(m): 2:39pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Nice thread. Keep it up. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Rakash(f): 3:55pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
drdaniels:Guy i am sorry about what happened to you but the honest truth is that you got beaten to your own game, so because your girlfriend did not come around to make your sister up as planned you didnt call her till now, that shows exactly the type of boyfriend you have been to her all this while, you couldnt even call her to find out what really went wrong. i guess she saw that you were not a marriageable material or husband material so she had to zoom off. take heart better women are to come 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by chloride6: 4:23pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
[right][/right] Rakash: So she found a husband and planned her wedding between June 2 and now? Nawa ooh 3 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Rakash(f): 4:31pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
chloride6:that is not what i am saying, yes she was mean and wicked but that doesnt change the fact that he also wasnt much of a good boyfriend to her. |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 5:06pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
chloride6:lol. D guy go be all this abroad guys. Wey just come home nd do d marriage ![]() |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ibkayee(f): 5:18pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Worst thing about it is how nonchalant she seems in that conversation with you. Take heart dear, I hope you can move forward and find someone better 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by encryptjay(m): 5:46pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
She's unable to come up with a proper lie! Is she Muslim? Is her name Mariam? Was the marriage arranged? |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by 1234IKECHhukwu: 6:15pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
I pity men that always put their hope on women b/cos they can disappoint u at any point in time,& if ur not careful with ur thoughts suicide might be the next available option.( THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT ) |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by MoonWater: 6:25pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
GAZZUZZ:lol bro e fit no be like that. Women often times calculate their decisions based on the immediate circumstances. She might have seen the new guy as promising but will certainly come back to the old guy very soon since they never broke up. Its funny how women are wired to reason. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Even at that. Why didn't she just end it with the other one months before. Was she indecisive till the last moment? |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Bamz(m): 8:35pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by zicoraads: 8:36pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
ibkayee:She seems not to even care. I understand how he feels though. The need to just know is always very strong in situations like these. Like someone mentioned before now, closure is everything. The silence sometimes kills faster than the act itself. That said, this guy will probably do same to the next girl he meets, who will also do same to some other guy and the circle will continue. 2 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ibkayee(f): 8:42pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
zicoraads:Lol it's not even about 'needing' closure tbh, he has the right to know, it's the least she could do, what she did was heartless Yeah maybe if he develops resentment towards women or something, yeah na cycle, crazy world 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by edimolu(m): 8:47pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Rigel95:not some , most 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by R3B3L(m): 9:07pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
A married frnd told me d flaw of every woman is to forget easily... program urself to let go because u are dealing wit both idealistic and emotional entities. Don't make d mistake of reaching to a female again.. make sure u are d one settling for someone... 3 Likes |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by LordAdamX: 9:54pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Really?! I wouldn't wish her bad, but I wouldn't mind if the marriage collapsed. Two-timing is cheating. Tomorrow, if the husband starts cheating, she'd start complaining that someone wants to steal her beau... -Lord |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by LordAdamX: 9:56pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
dingbang: The hypocrisy is just deafening. A n*gga cheats on a girl, it's bad; she double dates, it's fair. We should all just practice open relationships then. -Lord 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 10:04pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
drdaniels: You dodged a bullet. Time will reveal to you how lucky you are. Now move on; many have experienced worse. 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by LordAdamX: 10:05pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Jeferious: Story of my life. I actually EXPECT people to be douchebags, including family members, so I ain't surprised when they act it out. Seen enough sh*t to know people are no different from wild animals. Makes life relatively easier. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Jeferious: 10:14am On Jun 18, 2018 |
LordAdamX:Yea. Everyone is a wild animal. Just make sure, for your good, that you are the ultimate predator 1 Like |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by LordAdamX: 1:16pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
Jeferious: I have no reason to be the ultimate predator? I've got one life to live. I'm simply not about to let anyone screw it up. -Lord |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by cooooooks(m): 11:06pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
Delete her number. My people abeg make sure that you are in the same relationship your gf/bf is in oh. Don't claim the relationship by faith o. |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by drdaniels: 10:29am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Chubhie:I totally agree with you bro and I'm channelling my energy to more productive things |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by drdaniels: 10:32am On Jun 20, 2018 |
pocohantas:This is a woman I gladly do anything for just to make her happy |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by peacengine(m): 10:33am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Some h***s aint loyal |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by peacengine(m): 10:36am On Jun 20, 2018 |
1234IKECHhukwu: Truth |
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 10:50am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Move on. I know I did. |
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