Asking for a brother who has really tried all he could to get over a relationship of 4years.

How is the best way to deal with a break up.



Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai

He bangs another chic...

honestly its not easy especially when you truly loved that someone

He should delete her number, pictures, keep away all gift they shared and he should avoid staying alone for long a time doing nothing.

Within one or two months, he'll get over her.

I have learned not to love with all my heart. Keep 90% to yourself and two of you share the remaining 10%.

Thank you. He is reading it

If he likes he burns & bury every memory of her & still doesn't go out to mingle & chase new chicks he will always be haunted by those memories.. So let him start getting out & connect with new babes everyday, if he's lucky he might fvck some.. But the bottom line is he should mingle deeply with all the sexy beautiful girls available including ur friends From the way u sounded seems he's more of an introvert & doesn't socialize much wtf would he be crying over her because they broke up & she's probably fvcking someone openly whom she's been fvcking on the low Well don't get me wrong some niggaz can be way too sensitive & the only way for him to shed that skin & come out refined is to get on the wild side by doing stuff he has always been shying away from.. And the first thing is start meeting & asking random chicks out on dates whether it clicks or not.. And do not deny ur friends the opportunity of participating... He won't even remember his ex anymore after the first 3months if done right

Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai

Why does our society think it's wrong for men to cry?
Why are our men told to “take it like a man”, repress their emotions and hide their tears?
Crying isn't always a sign of weakness.


Anyway, whether it’s an amicable breakup or a horrible, crash-and-burn situation, time heals it all.
With time, he'll get over the hurt.

Cuddlebugie:

Why does our society think it's wrong for men to cry?
Why are our men told to “take it like a man”, repress their emotions and hide their tears?
Crying isn't always a sign of weakness.


Anyway, whether it’s an amicable breakup or a horrible, crash-and-burn situation, time heals it all.
With time, he'll get over the hurt.

Thank you so much for this. First Lady I have seen with a reasonable idea. God bless

Hmmn.


I remember vividly , the memories are still Crystal clear like iPhone 8 images and the pain runs deep in my heart like arteries..
The moments are still engraved in my mind like Okorocha's statues and the fights/drama embedded in my medulla like hai hai is embedded in small doctor's mouth..


it happened in the year 2014, a year I can never forget in a hurry ..

I dated This girl for 5 years..Five good years. I could have studied a course and graduated from the university with the time I invested in the relationship .

Sometimes I still miss her like the way Messi does with Penalties.

She was everything ..My heart ..My love..My Queen , My Baby


..She had this radiant smile that could lighten up anyone's mood. She is intelligent , patient,God fearing,cooks well,dances well , neat, sociable, attractive, Perfect dress sense with the most amazing physique I have ever seen.

Anita was everything a man could wish for ..The way she walked,talked, loved and fuc ked ... Kasa !!!! ...she was the 9th wonder of the world to me..

and when she wears that particular red dress with the Jesus rosary hanging in between her two succulent mammary glands and she calls me by my first name in that seductive " toolz o " kinda tone and her orgasm bringing British accent as she slowly rolls her tongue and puts her finger in her mouth while touching her round and succulent buttocks made of the softest extraction of flesh I have seen ,

I totally forget myself and lose control ( in Peruzzi's voice) .At that moment, I know I just have to make paradise because I was already tasting version 1.0 with Anita here.

is it her sparkling white teeth ? , her daily teasing of me being the most handsome man she has ever seen , her dirty talks, when she motivates me to achieve a lot of things I achieved , she teaches me, corrects me in love , how she handles me when I am angry at her ,she knows my weak points , She knows how to garnish my favorite dishes, she is never insecure,jealous or violent ..How she sold her Father's motorcycle to help me with a business I invested in, burned candles with me in school, shunned a lot of richer and more good looking guys for me .....

Damn !!!!


she could literally die for me !!!

Anita...


Anita..

Not until 2014 when the unthinkable happened..



Did I get over Anita ??

yes I did !!! How the hell I did is a story for another day probably..


P:S I think it is more painful or difficult to get over a person after breakup when

1) you unavoidably see the person everyday / once a week / frequently

2) when the. reason for break up is petty/ not cheating/ something that can be easily resolved

3) there is no other better option/person on ground

4) The partner moved on to a better person in terms of looks, money or status

5) When you really really love the person

6) when you are broke

7) When the sex is Ogorodomdom

when you guys are meant for each other ..

give it time. Focus on other things.

Cry
Sleep
Listen to Celine Dion
Cry
Sleep
Cry
Cry
Cry.....

Move On...

Love ur self only. All man for himself . na mumu dey love

Avedonn:
He should delete her number, pictures, keep away all gift they shared and he should avoid staying alone for long a time doing nothing.

Within one or two months, he'll get over her.

I have learned not to love with all my heart. Keep 90% to yourself and two of you share the remaining 10%.

lol. That's too poor

Try Olosho

Tell him to enter into a new relationship. The best way to deal with a break up is to move on

He will definitely get over it. Time heals everything.

Goldberg and cat-fish pepper-soup.

Continuous consumption with cow-tail pepper-soup heals my fragile heart faster

Let him do what Tobi did to Cee C....Na joke o

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Four years That’s a long time to be thinking of one girl.

OP does this brother happen to be you?

Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings..To be free, he need To Delete all her photos, avoid communication with her, get busy esp with d tins he loves doing, seek God, chase his dreams, avoid peer pressure to re date someone..the hart needs to heal first...As you get over this heartbreak, know that there is something better out there waiting for you.

Let him see a therapist... It has resulted to a major depression for him

RosaBerry:
Asking for a brother who has really tried all he could to get over a relationship of 4years.

How is the best way to deal with a break up.



Lol I didn't even know that boys can cry. Chai

Boys don't cry only woman wrapper cry!

YHU CAN'T

I broke up with girlfriend yesterday since then have been listening to trap music. I want to try smoking weed

By flashing your brains hard drive

Think of it as an oppotunity to get someone who is better...a blessing in disguise.