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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by hisgrace090: 11:26am On Jun 20, 2018
Yinxies:
It may not be ad bad as she is painting it. Children tend to feel maltreated when they live with people other than their parents.

I also think she is being ungrateful. No matter what, they took you in. At least be grateful for that.

The best revenge is to bevome successful in life


If you in anywhere resemble this woman, repent now.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Afec1000givers: 11:27am On Jun 20, 2018
your father did not believe in you, your aunt won't make heaven...let me be frank, you won't make heaven either if you do not forgive all your offenders. Replan your life and move forward.Thank God you re alive and you can be educated to any level of your strenght.Try to avoid bad choices of sustainance. If you are having problem starting allover again pls contact me on 07063351645
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Leebeedo(m): 11:32am On Jun 20, 2018
I don’t know you or where you come from. If what you just posted is true, her children will beg from you one day. Believe me , I’ve seen it happen severally. When they finally come, pls don’t treat them badly cos you’ll be making same grave mistakes their mother made.

Work hard.........take care.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by mimicue(f): 11:35am On Jun 20, 2018
MarieSucre:
:Her father sha. Which one is taking her to her aunty to teach her home training? Don't ever pass on your responsibility as a parent to someone else. undecided undecided

The man did not even check up on her, are you saying through all those years he did not become financially responsible enough to take her back? He is truly an irresponsible man. Make trumpet just blow jare, this world is going to hell, dis on wey fatherly love no dey again for this world.



Yes the father as he’s own fault too, cos nobody can treat you like your own parents , but the reason he trusted the aunty with his child is becuse he thought she could help to train her , because she is a woman and would be able to assist her better than he can , if she couldn’t why didn’t she return the girl back to the father. What people haven’t realized is people can be wicked and can’t be trusted even your family can’t be trusted with your child. Most African women are just wicked in nature and can’t even take care of anybody’s child like thier own , only few that have sense and see that there’s no completion in doing it .
What if the father even actually kept her with him , remarried and the child still went through emotional stress , this things happen , you will even go to school and alll sef under your fathers roof , but the child the never be happy , every right will be wrong , things happen , just be grateful of your own situation
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by magicminister: 11:36am On Jun 20, 2018
Yinxies:
It may not be ad bad as she is painting it. Children tend to feel maltreated when they live with people other than their parents.

I also think she is being ungrateful. No matter what, they took you in. At least be grateful for that.

The best revenge is to bevome successful in life

She hasn’t matured to that level and I don’t blame her. I had my fair share of struggle and people that deeply wronged me and I was hurt just like her for a long time. I only started appreciating the little they did for me and let go of the bitterness when I became much older and in a financially liberated

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by pocohantas(f): 11:36am On Jun 20, 2018
Sterope:
It is not about the wives' happiness


People find it easy to intimidate those they consider inferior or at their mercy.



That's true, I know it is about intimidating a weaker person.
But sometimes, these women and very unhappy creatures.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by hisgrace090: 11:38am On Jun 20, 2018
Afec1000givers:
your father did not believe in you, your aunt won't make heaven...let me be frank, you won't make heaven either if you do not forgive all your offenders. Replan your life and move forward.Thank God you re alive and you can be educated to any level of your strenght.Try to avoid bad choices of sustainance. If you are having problem starting allover again pls contact me on 07063351645
.



She will forgive when the appointed time come and will also make heaven as well.


May it be well with her.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by magicminister: 11:39am On Jun 20, 2018
yeyerolling:
very common tale, 2 of my cousins ran away from our house lol. my mum was harsh to them i no go lie.

If you see such thing going on in your household and do not correct it, then you’re as bad as your mum�. Such. Shame!!

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 20, 2018
izzou:
grin

First rule of life: Nobody owes you anything

Your Aunt is actually wicked angry but I expect you to look at where you are now, and smile over the past, but instead, you decided to keep hurting yourself by lamenting and to worsen the issue, you had to even post it on social media.

[b][/b]If I was your fiancee, I would cancel our engagement just because of this singular reason. I can't afford to love someone who prefers to take personal and sensitive issues to the world[b]


But your aunt wicked sha grin[/b]

Bottling this up could lead to depression
Depression to suicide.
Don't fault her for sharing, It's her way of coping.
Best you can do is tell her to forgive and live her life.

I thank God you are not her fiancee, you'd probably beat the s.hi.t out of her for talking.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by magicminister: 11:43am On Jun 20, 2018
I do not condone the actions of the woman but did the father for one day send money to support her upkeep and education??
This is a woman that is financially struggling with her own children yet you expect her to raise her brother’s child without financial support

The only issue I see here is poverty.

Owu na bastard.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izzou(m): 11:43am On Jun 20, 2018
topcatking:


Bottling this up could lead to depression
Depression to suicide.
Don't fault her for sharing, It's her way of coping.
Best you can do is tell her to forgive and live her life.

I thank God you are not her fiancee, you'd probably beat the s.hi.t out of her for talking.

I didn't say I will beat her naa sad

And besides, I already told her to move on

I just can't stand people who rubbish other on social media. The internet never forgets, you know
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Kamnelly(f): 11:46am On Jun 20, 2018
thesicilian:
Forgive those who wrong you, and do unto others as you would them you.
Easier said in it??
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izovibration(m): 11:47am On Jun 20, 2018
Please forgive her and forget. Your tomorrow will be better
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Yinxies(f): 11:47am On Jun 20, 2018
hisgrace090:



If you in anywhere resemble this woman, repent now.

You are a growing child. Maybe someday you will understand
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by kunleweb: 11:47am On Jun 20, 2018
izzou:


I didn't say I will beat her naa sad

And besides, I already told her to move on

I just can't stand people who rubbish other on social media. The internet never forgets, you know


I just can't stand people who rubbish other on social media


And what gives you to right to censor what goes on the web. Why address someone's pain as rubbish? The innocent lady posted it on her FB page, it was someone else who went to scoop and post it here, however bad, couldn't you just moved on. You rushed to make FP but with a very very emotionally detached comment. You take lightly the pain of others and discard it as worthless, do you know what she went through first hand? Yes, you went through stuff Sir, but then yours is dear to yours just as hers. If it's that stuppid, then is it more worthless than pornography?? At least you would have watched porn one time or twice, and it was cool even if you stopped. Then another individual's life is much less important that you find it easy to treat as waste. Go and repent, you're arrogant. Your feet has slipped bro

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Kalex01(m): 11:48am On Jun 20, 2018
So wicked

Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by vickydevoka(m): 11:50am On Jun 20, 2018
from my experience Most women that put on such scarf are usually wicked. eg. watchman n deeper life women. # if u know u know

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by hisgrace090: 11:54am On Jun 20, 2018
Yinxies:


You are a growing child. Maybe someday you will understand

My advice remain you repent now not someday.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izzou(m): 11:57am On Jun 20, 2018
kunleweb:



I just can't stand people who rubbish other on social media

And waht gives you to right to censor what goes on the web. Why address someone's pain as rubbish? The innocent lady posted it on her FB page, it was someone else who went to scoop and post it here, however bad, couldn't you just moved on. You rushed to make FP but with a very very emotionally detached comment. You take lightly the pain of others and discard it as worthless, do you know what she went through first hand? Yes, you went through stuff Sir, but then yours is dear to yours just as hers. If it's that stvpid, then is it more worthless than pornography?? Atleast you would have watched porn one time or twice, and it was cool even if you stopped. Then another individual's life is much less important that you find it easy to treat as waste. Go and repent, you're arrogant. Your feet has slipped bro

Stop getting all emotional and cry on my shoulders grin

What did calling her aunt out to the whole world change? Absolutely nothing.

Did you also think about that? No. Because you too emotional to think about tomorrow than today

What happened to talking to a psychologist? Why come to the whole world to do it? Do you even know if that was the training she needed to be where she is now? Joseph was sold into slavery for 13 years, but he still saw it as part of the plan for his life grin

Like I said, if I was her fiancee, I'll break up with her just because if this. I so detest it. And you could actually jump off the third mainland bridge if it hurts you too



And yes, I'm actually arrogant
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Albinoworwor: 11:58am On Jun 20, 2018
thesicilian:
Forgive those who wrong you, and do unto others as you would them you.

Some sores don't heal

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by nonix22(m): 11:58am On Jun 20, 2018
Earthbound:
Behind this bright and beautiful face lies a terribly hurt personality.

I'm in no position to judge her aunt but the lady in question should try to see a psychologist (if she can afford it). Childhood memories (good or bad) ave a lasting effect on a person and it shapes us into the adults we become. Parents who send their kids to live with relatives are the biggest kinds of cowards.
Ur comment makes too much sense
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by enemachris(m): 11:59am On Jun 20, 2018
Viralkid:
I really don't understand why people bring their personal shitt on social media, what is the benefit of writing this long epistle.
She claims she is free of their wickedness, it may be true physically but it's never true in mind as long as you haven't forgiven them.
Olori bruku. Is dis one okay at all? cant u keep ur dirty mouth shot If you dnt have any thing to say? embarassed embarassed embarassed.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by mimicue(f): 12:03pm On Jun 20, 2018
izzou:


Stop getting all emotional and cry on my shoulders grin

What did calling her aunt out to the whole world change? Absolutely nothing.

Did you also think about that? No. Because you too emotional to think about tomorrow than today

What happened to talking to a psychologist? Why come to the whole world to do it? Do you even know if that was the training she needed to be where she is now? Joseph was sold into slavery for 13 years, but he still saw it as part of the plan for his life grin

Like I said, if I was her fiancee, I'll break up with her just because if this. I so detest it. And you could actually jump off the third mainland bridge if it hurts you too



And yes, I'm actually arrogant


I’m not sorry to say this , but you’re a fool .. you failed to realize that people handle situations diffently. Sometimes some people
Feel sharing thier pain is the fastest way to feel better , personally I wouldn’t do it . Although I had through my own share of pain , but there’s nothing wrong in speaking out , let the girl talk , let her feel free to say what she wants.. the only problem is someone as dumb as you can never understand how she feels , because you were never in her shoes , emotional trauma can last you a life time . If you like go to psychologist , the only thing we try to manage it but u will always remember it

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by kunleweb: 12:04pm On Jun 20, 2018
izzou:


Stop getting all emotional and cry on my shoulders grin

What did calling her aunt out to the whole world change? Absolutely nothing.

Did you also think about that? No. Because you too emotional to think about tomorrow than today

What happened to talking to a psychologist? Why come to the whole world to do it? Do you even know if that was the training she needed to be where she is now? Joseph was sold into slavery for 13 years, but he still saw it as part of the plan for his life grin

Like I said, if I was her fiancee, I'll break up with her just because if this. I so detest it. And you could actually jump off the third mainland bridge if it hurts you too



And yes, I'm actually arrogant


Ok Sir Thank you Sir
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by lilyheaven: 12:08pm On Jun 20, 2018
eyinjuege:
All the fault lies with your father.
Your father should have sent you to school, why did he send you off to become someone's maid?
Why couldn't he just face you añd train you as his responsibilty?
He played a major role in this drama, the earlier you face the truth, the better
Being a parent is more than just having s3x and borning the pikin.
You have to be ready to take up the responsibilty of raising your child, and not fob the child off on someone else. Your father is the loser here, as your wicked auntie is still living her life with all her own children educated. Your father couldn't even check on you from time to time to see how your school work was going. He has a lot to answer for.
This is not to excuse the wicked aunt, but rather to point out the root of the problems in your life.
You are on point.
If her father was dead, it could have been different.
Her father didn't care of her education, her father didn't care of her clothing, he just dumped her there.
Assuming her mother was still alive, does it mean her father will not contribute financially in her upbringing.
We have great Fathers, and we have sperm donors.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izzou(m): 12:08pm On Jun 20, 2018
mimicue:



I’m not sorry to say this , but you’re a fool .. you failed to realize that people handle situations diffently. Sometimes some people
Feel sharing thier pain is the fastest way to feel better , personally I wouldn’t do it . Although I had through my own share of pain , but there’s nothing wrong in speaking out , let the girl talk , let her feel free to say what she wants.. the only problem is someone as dumb as you can never understand how she feels , because you were never in her shoes , emotional trauma can last you a life time . If you like go to psychologist , the only thing we try to manage it but u will always remember it

Why are you sorry to call me a fool? If I wanted to insult you, I would. But at least, we know who the fool is in terms of behavior, don't we? grin

Like I asked, what did typing it on facebook change? Will it make her to forget? Absolutely no.

My piece of advice to you, yes you, is always think first, before you act. Just as how you called me a fool for expressing my own opinion

I'm usually nice on Wednesdays though grin

Shalom smiley
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izzou(m): 12:09pm On Jun 20, 2018
kunleweb:



Ok Sir Thank you Sir

You are most welcome smiley
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by mimicue(f): 12:12pm On Jun 20, 2018
izzou:


Why are you sorry to call me a fool? If I wanted to insult you, I would. But at least, we know who the fool is in terms of behavior, don't we? grin

Like I asked, what did typing it on facebook change? Will it make her to forget? Absolutely no.

My piece of advice to you, yes you, is always think first, before you act. Just as how you called me a fool for expressing my own opinion

I'm usually nice on Wednesdays though grin

Shalom smiley

Read well , I’m not sorry to call you one . But I won’t argue with you , because this is baseless .. I just realized that your iq is too low to comprehend whatever I will say so have a good day

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by kunleweb: 12:14pm On Jun 20, 2018
mimicue:



I’m not sorry to say this , but you’re a fool .. you failed to realize that people handle situations diffently. Sometimes some people
Feel sharing thier pain is the fastest way to feel better , personally I wouldn’t do it . Although I had through my own share of pain , but there’s nothing wrong in speaking out , let the girl talk , let her feel free to say what she wants.. the only problem is someone as dumb as you can never understand how she feels , because you were never in her shoes , emotional trauma can last you a life time . If you like go to psychologist , the only thing we try to manage it but u will always remember it



Sis let's discuss biz in private. Saw your post. Let's talk setting up biz and life improvement
Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by yoged(m): 12:17pm On Jun 20, 2018
izzou:
grin

First rule of life: Nobody owes you anything

Your Aunt is actually wicked angry but I expect you to look at where you are now, and smile over the past, but instead, you decided to keep hurting yourself by lamenting and to worsen the issue, you had to even post it on social media.

If I was your fiancee, I would cancel our engagement just because of this singular reason. I can't afford to love someone who prefers to take personal and sensitive issues to the world

But your aunt wicked sha grin
one man's food is another man's poison. If you cancel your engagement with her , another man who is far more better than your entire life will give her another one ring and Marry her . The ocean is big enough for fishes. 2 wrongs doesn't make a right.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Ayotemide(f): 12:18pm On Jun 20, 2018
Yinxies:
It may not be ad bad as she is painting it. Children tend to feel maltreated when they live with people other than their parents.

I also think she is being ungrateful. No matter what, they took you in. At least be grateful for that.

The best revenge is to bevome successful in life


Yinka, did you live away from your parents?? if your answer is no, you have no moral rights to claim a mistreating a child is 'not as bad'.

you either empathise or move on.

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Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by lilyheaven: 12:20pm On Jun 20, 2018
MarieSucre:
:Her father sha. Which one is taking her to her aunty to teach her home training? Don't ever pass on your responsibility as a parent to someone else. undecided undecided

The man did not even check up on her, are you saying through all those years he did not become financially responsible enough to take her back? He is truly an irresponsible man. Make trumpet just blow jare, this world is going to hell, dis on wey fatherly love no dey again for this world.
Some fathers are like that, fathers that leaves their responsibilities to their wives.
Instead of me to have this type of father , better he just .....

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