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Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by omooba969(m): 11:36am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Ok |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Can we swap? |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by masks(m): 11:37am On Jun 22, 2018 |
buske:@op....hmm....this is hard to say.but just let her go. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by overall90: 11:37am On Jun 22, 2018 |
It's like am the only one that is confused about the whole story. @op,please how does her asking for Rev David number ended up being you finding out that she is cheating with a guy after so much dragging? 4 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by OlufemiWhit(m): 11:37am On Jun 22, 2018 |
dukeprince50:6pm for which country....Na 4pm for naija 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by OMEGA009(m): 11:37am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Lala, pls move this to the children section. Mtcheeew 4 Likes
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Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Hedonisst: 11:37am On Jun 22, 2018 |
You these small boys and your endless woman problems. 4 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Politicowizard(m): 11:38am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Things are happening. Currently in the same shoe with op. Life is a walking shadow! |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Nobody: 11:38am On Jun 22, 2018 |
*To give you a picture of what I'm talking about, with a very confusing episode...a man once collected her phone and practically walked away with it in broad daylight without any form of resistance. Another episode; The other day, after waiting for about 5 months to get the complete amount to purchase a phone, she took the whole sum and gave it to a person she hardly knows and we've been looking for him ever since* This part got to me...... Made the girlfriend to seem like a dumb person. How can someone collect phone and one will just be looking on without resistance? The second part...... 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Nobody: 11:39am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Guy, I didn't bother reading, the headline itself tells it all. You 've done the right thing. Thumbs up. Don't come back again and do the wrong thing. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by asawanathegreat(m): 11:40am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Nawa oo things dey happen sha |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by TheEminentLaity: 11:40am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Guy, you are just her emotional tampon. her girlfriend that is a guy. She hooked up with a real man. Sorry, take it on the chin and work on yourself. You seem young, don't get involved in an emotionally draining relationship. Getting heavily invested in relationships not advisable for any unaccomplished (I assume) young man. Relationships are greatly skewed to be beneficial to the woman, that's why they try to hold down an attractive man to get him in an exclusive relationship so that they can put in their overinflated mundane issues among things the guy should worry about. As a young man, it's better to get laid whenever you want without being in a relationship, leaving the emotions for the broads, while you focus on your life ambition because the more accomplished you are the more attractive you become and the bigger your pool of selection for finer and more well behaved women. From what I read, You are a simp* - don't worry, many men once were, and a lot still remain - She dropped the call on you and you began to worry and think ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Saff(f): 11:42am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Pre teen problems. I can’t relate 3 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by masterfactor(m): 11:42am On Jun 22, 2018 |
abeg which dstv station go show Nigeria match ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Emytea(m): 11:42am On Jun 22, 2018 |
facing dat kind of challenges bro, at times i even regret dating, i have catch her red handed upto 3 times and she will always have an excuse d funny part is after every thing she will still accuse me of wrong doing that is woman for u,,, but never d less i wount say u are at fault bcas u did notin wrong |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by gaventa: 11:43am On Jun 22, 2018 |
But why if you don't know something, say you dunno. Someone new in Lagos cannot ask you for direction o.choi. Nigerias match is by 4pm[ ![]() |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by nuele(m): 11:44am On Jun 22, 2018 |
U still don't have a case against her, atleast not crystal clear. Even in court of law, fair hearing is demanded. You just can't throw away a beautiful and relationship for such a regular matter( even I face such). Back to the main matter: u need to learn to trust and work hand in hand as a couple, your distrust in giving her the father number is alarming, even if you not giving her, let it be that its for confidential reasons, here you took it personal. My mild evaluation so don't castigate me. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by cooooooks(m): 11:46am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Oboy, your English structure is quite poor. I can barely understand you. 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Viking007(m): 11:46am On Jun 22, 2018 |
dukeprince50: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by kenlinzo(m): 11:46am On Jun 22, 2018 |
buske: You must always learn to respect the opinions of ur partner in a relationship if u want to succeed in it. She has given u the reason why she needed the number from u so why press further for unnecessary answer if u are not looking for an avenue to break-up with her. To me, the girl never did any thing wrong. U'r just been jealous unnecessarily. U have been with a girl for 3yrs now and u still don't trust her, the girl sef try to stay with u this long. Pls grow up and amend ur ways with her. Even if u don't want to be dating/sleeping with a girl/boy again doesn't mean u should break up with her. Boy/girl relationship is not only for sex but for companionship. Note: For the fact that u are dating a girl/guy doesn't make u a lord over her/him, it is only marriage that gives u the overall privilege over ur spouse.. 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by udemzyudex(m): 11:47am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Op is a sissy, stop acting like a woman, I bet your attitude piss her off. You want to know everything, you want to also make decisions for her etc. Guess you're just too predictable for her liken. Go get a life bro. 3 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by nuele(m): 11:48am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Abeg help me ask ooo overall90: |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by udemzyudex(m): 11:50am On Jun 22, 2018 |
masterfactor: Showsports TV, stream with your phone using Ntel sim #1k for 12gb and never miss any world Cup football match ![]() |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Sunnybabe(m): 11:50am On Jun 22, 2018 |
redcliff:u deserve some accolades ...... |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by oluwatodimu1(m): 11:51am On Jun 22, 2018 |
My guy, if a lady could just dish out things she needs especially by thawarted individuals, then she has background issues... imagine your future with such: your life's investment cld b whisked away. as for d affair, relationships arent do or die. i tell my fiancee that she is very free if she wants to quit: no hard feelings |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Talknochip(m): 11:52am On Jun 22, 2018 |
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Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by ebukaka12(m): 11:54am On Jun 22, 2018 |
giftlygifted:God bless you �� |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by bejeria101(m): 11:54am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Welcome to my world! She went back to her ex who got her pregnant,she gave birth to twins and he got married the week the twins were born. For her mind she thought she was smart abi? 3 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by ikept(m): 11:54am On Jun 22, 2018 |
OP, I believe u guys share something unique, and both of u need to let go of whatever anger u feel presently, and work things out. Two wrongs can't make a right. Best wishes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by teemy(m): 11:56am On Jun 22, 2018 |
@buske, the problem caused now is more than what was in place before. She purposely did not tell you about the guy because she believed you could take offence or overreact and guess what? You did not disappoint. While technically she did not lie, she hid something from you but you should know everyone deserves a place of keeping things to themselves and trying to force them might not be the best and when after learning the info you now show forth anger like this, I bet you it would be like passing through the eye of a needle before you can be afforded that kind of trust. Try to live free and without heaviness of heart or burdened by what your partner is doing or is not doing. You cannot know it all. You just need to tell your partner not to 'do anything that would jeopardize our relationship' and believe they would adhere to you. That is the risk of doing the relationship business ad in all businesses, there are no total guarantees. Try not no build on the heart pressure dear. I just hope within this few days of your 'breakup', someone has not decided that 'since I have been accused of doing what I have not done, I might as well kuku do it' and dearie, it would be your fault should you decide to apportion blame so what you have to do, do quick. Lastly, emotions for other persons apart from our partners would always come as we go on together and so it is better to learn to build a working defense for such incidents. Wishing you well - Teemy 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by jtjohn(m): 11:56am On Jun 22, 2018 |
youngest85:you guys won't kill someone with laugh on nairaland.......lolzzzzzz |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Greatzeus(m): 11:57am On Jun 22, 2018 |
dukeprince50:6pm ![]() ![]() Well those of us in Nigeria will watch the match by 4pm today. Besides no match has been played at 6pm. It's been 1,4 and 7pm. |
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