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Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by MrGift(m): 1:28pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Frankyboy1: So true, my friend once dated a girl who was engaged, as in she Dey sample the ring Fo Hand. My Nigga will be banging her and her fiancé will call, bros with dick inside her puxxy she will answer her fiancée call and even tell him “I love you” I think guys that fall in love are those who haven’t done some crazy stuff.. trust no babe, because an average girl doesn’t know what she wants so they can always be vulnerable. 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by enonche85(m): 1:29pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Simplep: U forgot to ask a question, why did she hide the real reason for wanting a number in respect to someone who the OP is suspecting is wooing her?. Don't forget that she never hide stuffs from him, so why now?...in my opinion, he has every right to be worried knowing the kind of person that she is. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by enonche85(m): 1:34pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
giftlygifted: Lmao!...no be lie aswear! One of my stupid friend, when u tell him u have a new babe, the first thing he says is,...u don fvck her?. If u say no, he'll say then she's not ur GF yet. 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by williamdeluxe(m): 1:37pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
I personally think a breakup should happen in
person.
It's far more respectful.
However in this day and age, a phone call is
better than a text or a snapchat or a random
FB post.
Point is, any rules that used to exist on this
topic are no longer applicable. We live in a
tech world.
So my advice is, be a good person.
Don't hide behind technology.
Respect the time you had together.
Breakup in the most honorable way possible
for your situation.
I wish you the best. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Tonero231: 1:40pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
The issue here is your girlfriend's gullibility. Its really frightening. U have been with her for 3 yrs. If u have entertained this fear of her not being able to handle little things or manage herself, all these yrs,then u should think twice abt the relationship |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by enonche85(m): 1:44pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Frankyboy1: This ur points are the bitter and gospel truth that most folks will not want to accept, especially the 2nd line I edited. 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by enonche85(m): 1:50pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
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Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by zaralady: 1:50pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
buske: Permit me to say you are an egocentric, arrogant, insolent....... You don't even know how to talk to people, you are so immature and insecure. You think everybody is out to get you, this lady has the nicest heart to me and from the look of things she actually cares for you, she might be indecisive and easily deceived but damn! Who doesn't have a weakness?. Yours is even worse and you are here judging her when you are so so wrong. Why will you break a relationship of 3yrs because she wants to get a rev number for a male friend?? How does that relate to cheating??. Or isn't she allowed to have male friends again?? . The fact she needs the Rev contact mean her friends need some spiritual help which she wants to keep between herself and the guy, must you know everything??.... how old are you again?? You graduated from the university 3yrs ago and life haven't told you things?? A school cert wouldn't do this!!! That geh is better off without you. 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by divine2288: 1:51pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by enonche85(m): 1:55pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
udemzyudex: 1k for 12gb?, pls explain lil further ![]() |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by zaralady: 1:58pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
kenlinzo: Thank you ooo...what the way he keeps pressing on answers one will wonder if he is her dad or hubby. He doesn't even respect the gal at all...... how can u break up with someone whose 3yrs u took just like that??over the fone for that matter without a concrete reason?? This is why babies shouldn't be going into relationship because they don't know way commitment is.... |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by udemzyudex(m): 1:58pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
enonche85: Are you in lagos? |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by enonche85(m): 2:00pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
udemzyudex: Yes I am. Lekki phase 1. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by fynex(m): 2:04pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
dukeprince50: Nigerian match is 4pm |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Elsalvator38: 2:05pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
[i]For get that beach she ain't loyal ![]() |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by YouareaBITCH(f): 2:09pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Never trust those guys that advice u to 1.Bleep a girl and move on. 2.Don't love,it's childish 3.Every woman is a hoe don't give a damn about them. 4.Forget that bitch,she ain't loyal Those guys are the very ones that worship their gf's in the room,they can't even talk back to their gf's when they speak,spend on them like Oyibo magas.Forming boss online. Na those kine guys deh mumu pass. My advice 3 years is a long time for u both to give to ur selves and just mess it up so casually.Go talk things out with ur girl. Their's a reason uv bin with her all these while. 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by gurunlocker: 2:10pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
You and the lady are kids.... Wish it's possible to unread this Bullshit. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by kinibigdil: 2:12pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
buske:This part really made me lol |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Lerumo: 2:14pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Until you have evidence that she's cheating you can't make accusations. But you can discuss with her that you are not comfortable with her friendship with this person and you want to her to cut off the friendship. Don't draw conclusions on a hunch. Being friends first before being is a relationship is a good thing. You can talk to her as a friend when things are not going ok. If things don't work out, you can break up and still remain friends. 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by delishpot: 2:15pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Frankyboy1: False. If he is the type that doesn't like her talking about men around him she might lie. The issue here is that she doesn't even know how to lie sef. Some will weave a story around it just to hide the truth. She just tried to use gra gra to avoid talking more about the issue. Not all men Bleep everything they see. Giving bed to a friend in your home to Bleep another mans future wife is a taboo and speaks so much about your lack of morals and so how can a foul person like you judge someone else? 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Chukazu: 2:15pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
I still can't see where she lied. Withholding information from you is not the same thing as lying mbok ![]() |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Puntiff: 2:18pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
PrinceCEE: This is a very serious young man. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by DukeNija(m): 2:19pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
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Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by DukeNija(m): 2:23pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
delishpot: I don’t think you should blame the guy whose house was used for a suspicious transaction. They are both adults and the onus rests with the person getting married to keep herself for her husband. That being said, the ops girlfriend is obviously having an affair. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by delishpot: 2:24pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
statusquoante: If you truly fear God you would not say this cause the only thing left is for you to do it physically. But by your write up you have already done it in your heart so it is judged as done because even the bible said so in Matthew 5:28 . Stop punishing yourself, chose one to do it and face the music or to truly serve God by keeping your body and mind wholesome. 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by kinibigdil: 2:24pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
kenlinzo:Am tempted to ask you o, how long did your last relationship last? How many relationships have you been in? Infact what is relationship to you? I will appreciate answers to this questions or am I even wasting my time, all this shidren on public forum. See people are different, so are relationships depends on who you are with. You can't even talk about his relationship that you know nothing about, just the little you heard about his relationship you are already drawing conclusion, how he wanted to quit the relationship, someone say he is confused as to if he had made a mistake and you say he wanted to quit, if he wanted to quit why did he bring the issue here 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Puntiff: 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
delishpot: If she even needs to lie, she shouldn't still be with him. Surely, there are many open-minded men who would love to date her. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by Boomboost(m): 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
buske: I'm friends with this kind of girl currently, I initially had a romantic interest but I had to get over it. ...they have a good heart and a moral standard but they're imperfect especially when it comes to intelligence, so you having a Romantic relationship with her is doomed, try staying friends anyway. Everyone is replaceable, you will find someone else so will she. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by delishpot: 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
DukeNija: The bible says flee from evil and do not mingle with bad crowd. If God decides to strike he might even choose the brothel owner who makes his home available to fornicators and adulterers before facing individuals for their own sins. Just like when Govt wants to clamp down they first destroy the hideouts or accomodation where evil people or law breakers hide before facing the criminals or offenders themselves. Plus if he has such lose morals why is he yapping and condemning the other? The man knew he was sleeping with someone's betrothed and he saw no qualms in it. How is that morally ok? 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by kinibigdil: 2:34pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
zaralady:@bolded she better be o, so because one is a graduate he shouldn't have relationship problems? Perfectly educated woman, professional relationship expert will ask to see both partner to give an advice on way forward, have you asked yourself if he has moved on since you are have already concluded, and did you or the lady drag him here to share his story and seek clarity... Yeye de smell. Spits on comment... Conductor drop me here! I no go again... @op abeg it is not every comment here you read to make meaningful decision o, just imagine sharing your story under Oshodi bridge, where the audience are all manner of people from different background and experiences, tomatoes sellers, shoe shinners lol and you will be forced to hear the one's whose voices are louder,? Guess who? Agbero's does that mean they are the right ones? No! But take time read through there is a word from wise one's take it and run with it, I will say this we don't have institutions that handles this cases professional, I don't know if Yaba left give relationship advice, churches are the ones I that does this, some of them de try but it is still not done by professional's, that is why regardless of wrong advise and bashing when you post your story on Nairaland I believe if comments like this one above is not the first you see, lol you will get something here @ buske 1 Like |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by delishpot: 2:35pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Puntiff: Go and tell those women and men killed by their spouses even as they stick it out with them until their end. Many people don't know how to move on. They'd rather stay and keep lying to save the so called relationship. We can not deny that many men and women lie to avoid negative or unwanted reaction from their partners no matter how small and unnecessary the lie. |
Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by statusquoante: 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
delishpot: You have a point, only that it is not valid. Temptations must come. To your mind and physically. The most important thing is what you do with it. You can't stop a bird from flying over your head but you can stop it from perching. I won't give in to those thoughts and I try my best to discard them as soon as possible. |
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