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Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by soberdrunk(m): 9:09pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Habiodunz(m): 9:09pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by BOJO123(m): 9:09pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Are you a chronic masturbator? ![]() |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Palmerbarry: 9:10pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Open the literature section on Nairaland and read "Life Of A Shy Guy" by infant, it'll help you. https://www.nairaland.com/4222866/life-shy-guy#63100817 |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by IfidonJohn: 9:10pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Work on yourself by learning to talk via a mirror. |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Ajaodolapo(m): 9:10pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Benblaq:why would you jst assume that he is a Christian? Y'all ever really think that not everyone is a follower of the n! Nazarene? |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by sureheaven(m): 9:10pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Quickly go and meet *I am shai* |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Engrchuks2011: 9:11pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Join a social gathering in your church E.g choir. be an active member and watch out the effect on you. |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Davechuks30 make sure you do things that bolster your confidence by dressing smart and clean. Try to associate more and make friends with both sexes, so you are not a recluse, practice against your mirror and believe in yourself more. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by zicoraads: 9:11pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
It's the age. You are still a kid. You will eventually get over it naturally. You won't even know when it happened. You attended an all boys school? |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by ajayiopy: 9:11pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Read books like power of public speaking .you need to get a topic ,research on it,do you presentation in front of your mirror ,record it and listen to it. When you are loaded upstair public speaking is nothing |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by safarigirl(f): 9:11pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Davechuks360:see you. You can even join choir and evangelism crew and you call yourself shy. Even to go to church in school, I no fit. I dey here five years, I no fit join one thing, that is how shy I am Oga, you go dey alright. You are just in your first year 1 Like |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Firstly you need boldness, if you're a Christian when a Bible verses is been called try to stand up and read, have it in mind always that no one will kill you or even laugh over your mistakes even if you made a mistake. I'm once in your shoe but I get it off by reading bible when a verse is been called up 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by chendstone01(m): 9:12pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
start making friends with guys dat talk dirty i mean very raw like yam were dy never cook it will help u build your confidence i did it and it worked for me 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by ComzyB(f): 9:13pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
I know how you feel, OP. |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by flow26(m): 9:14pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
There is a club called toastmasters Check online for the closest one to you. Give it a try . I promise you won't regret it. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by nabegibeg: 9:14pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Davechuks360: Dey form ARO for hall 3 boys hostel and go to the blocks near Anao lane close to hall 2, female hostel and start to dey misbehave After all these I mentioned your shyness will disappear |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by columbus007(m): 9:15pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
shy away from yourself and run. |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by oluwasegun007(m): 9:15pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
QuietHammer:Haba! |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by nabegibeg: 9:16pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
WhySoShy: You just created this profile for this thing wey you read You get spiritual problem 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Jobabori(m): 9:16pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Benblaq:This is a good advise. Not for sexual tasks as he said. Relating with new set of girls not only boost your confidence but improve your self esteem. I attended a boy's only school and can easily relate with your problem 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by greggng: 9:17pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Go drink erujeje shyness go disappear....but when u wan insert yiur Kini inside that thing, you no dey shy again |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by tayooluwole: 9:17pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Op sorry to say... I think this is whom you are and I doubt if anything possibly can be done about it... |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Zimmermann(m): 9:17pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by itsmeurLady(f): 9:18pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Go to church that will inspire you positively, a church that reminds you to constantly say positive words to yourself, a Church that will stir up the gifts in you, a church that will help you discover your purpose for living, study the word of God. Let the words so infiltrate your being, it worked for me, it will also work for you... used to be a very shy girl but now I can talk to crowd without even blinking 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Bimmiie(f): 9:21pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
QuietHammer:Really??! ![]() |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by edogu(m): 9:21pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
XingXhang: You just got someone inspired! Thanks! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Davechuks360: Why do you give a flying fuvck about what people think or say about you. let me give you a way out, just imagine everybody is a potato when speaking to them, always look at the space between thier eyes, it gives an impression like you dey full of confidence and seeing into thier souls. P.S if you be Muslim don't look into elders eyes woh, that's disrespectful 1 Like |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by jibs4lv(m): 9:24pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
DonPiiko:I also hate viewing and news paper centre argument with passion , maybe because I don't know much about sport sa ![]() Now my advice to you op, never give a fvck on what other see or think no matter what, weather you can speak or write good English or not, never weigh yourself down, just do your thing and make sure you always looks good. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help; I'm Too Shy by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Download YouTube videos of motivational speakers, practice learn from them, you could even learn from your pastor when he/she talks in church. Then when your asked to speak in your class, practice first by looking beyond their heads, look at the wall at their extreme,dont look at their eyes, because if you do you will faulter... If you do these things your confidence would just surge like fine water from a spring... And also, lest I forget it could be demonic, pray about it, this is the most potent remedy that solves all issues in this world. ![]() |
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