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LadyJasper:

Hope you won't marry any of these beings too, I mean, you can't marry what you don't trust, they could bear your kids and that would be super disastrous!

marriage isn't on my To-Do-List. I've gone through a hell lot in the hands of women. When am 30yrs I will adopt a child. Boy child. I was done with women the very day I was sent to jail.

Why get married in the first place if it is this tough these days ?

LordKO:

There's a tiny line between the actions of an unassuming, kind, loyal and selfless woman (person) and a desperate one. Mistake the former for the latter at your own peril; that a woman offers you the best of herself doesn't automatically mean that she's desperate. There's no healthy relationship without mutual self-sacrifices.

Spot on!!! Wish I could like this a thousand times.

That's why relationships aren't meant for boys but for men.

steefi07:


True relationship has no formula . Be yourself have fun what will be, will be

����u make sense jare

Even in architecture

MissJoy29:

Spot on!!! Wish I could like this a thousand times.

That's why relationships aren't meant for boys but for men.

Tell them

There are lots of sensible comments on this thread.
I'm impressed.

Organism000:
Why get married in the first place if it is this tough these days ?

seriously!
of course it's tough but know this; marriage is quite tough when the couple start initially,usually when they are young but as old age comes gradually companionship becomes sweeter than honey, children become irreplaceable; that's when you'd realise that marriage is the sweetest thing two people can ever experience.

Massmike:

seriously!
of course it's tough but know this; marriage is quite tough when the couple start initially,usually when they are young but as old age comes gradually companionship becomes sweeter than honey, children become irreplaceable; that's when you'd realise that marriage is the sweetest thing two people can ever experience.

Your analogy is true, but only to humans who do not know the real nature of multi-dimensional existence. Your kids and wife are a host of a decoy, but an absolute necessity in order to pass on the DNA epi-genetics advancement to your bloodline, but then there is a real reason to life than kids and wife and love, Love is the energy you need to transmute your positive thoughts into material reality.

If marriage becomes an issue, by all means you can have kids without being married and continue with your Soul Mission on Earth. Falling in love is not subject to being married. People fall in love daily without being married. So, we should learn to divorce Love from marriage and marriage from Love, so we can discuss about Love without having to make it seem inter-dependency on marriage.

Marriage is not natural, but a human construct. If one meets his/her twin flame, by all means try to be married to secure such partnership, but if one hasnt met such a partner, it is more of a problem getting married to a strange entity.

mimimile93:
marriage isn't on my To-Do-List. I've gone through a hell lot in the hands of women. When am 30yrs I will adopt a child. Boy child. I was done with women the very day I was sent to jail.

I'm sorry for that but please don't give up yet, you can still give it a try dude

Hope this applies to men also holding back on their wallet? Women will always clap for such one-sided submission

It might work for some people and might not work for others

Princedapace:


I thought I was the only who felt irritated by the piece.

Lol

How people in this country think marriage is the all and all of every relationship beats my imagination..

My dear OP, there is no calculation or steps that is guaranteed in life as long as love is concerned..

Some people did all the styles in the world and still got their guys to marry them and boomm, the marriage collapsed after few years.. Or became horror after few years..

Some didn't even do anything, they were just them selves and the guy married them and boom, the marriage crashed after few years or became horror after few years..

And on the other hand, some acted in the opposite direction and still experienced blissful marriage..

Bro, forget all these analyses.. Humans are different.. What u will appreciate in ur partner may not be what I will appreciate in my own partner..


Also, that a relationship didn't lead to marriage doesn't mean it was a total waste of time.

Exactly. So on point

The problem we have is that men are given the final power to decide the faith of ladies happily ever after. Truth is people are different, there re ladies who naturally love working nt cos dey wanna impress d guy, I have been with a number of ladies and I have noticed that some re hardworking and some are lazy, there re d ones that when they enter a home that is untidy, unconsciously they see themselves trying to keep things in order, it doesn't even have to be their bf, such ladies wen dey even visit their female frnds u will see dem putting things in place, they just don't like things scattered or dirty, if u re dating such gals, u will think shez doing it to impress u, BT No!. as a result of what people say, some of these gals try nt to do much but a sane man will notice it, he will definitely know a hardworking lady (dem no fit hide laziness)

there are some that are naturally lazy but they really like a guy and feel they have to get him to like them, so they go out of their comfort zone to clean up, they see it as real work, such gals, their bf house will be spotless BT their rooms will be a jungle. this type of gals re of two types, the type that will pretend and in d process get used to it, and d type DT will pretend nd wen dey feel dey have d ground, dey change bk

there are also gals DT are so lazy and den since feminism came, they hide behind it and say "I cannot suffer myself for a man DT at d end will go and marry anoda woman" These type of gals are just lazy, forget any trash they will say about "am I ur maid?" its just laziness speaking

Reading comments
I swear Nairaland is full of mad people lol

sarahade:


Exactly. So on point

your DP, more like a lady who likes quietness ..

Are u such a lady?

Princedapace:


your DP, more like a lady who likes quietness ..

Are u such a lady?

Yes sir.

I keep telling folks, don't give your all in a relationship. They still won't hear, less really is more, the harder you try, the more irritating you get.

sarahade:


Yes sir.

but im not a 'sir' I really dislike that prefix though

How are u doing?

Princedapace:


but im not a 'sir' I really dislike that prefix though

How are u doing?

Ok.
I'm fine and you?

Henitan24:


I'm sorry for that but please don't give up yet, you can still give it a try dude

nothing anyoone wud do or say that will make me get emotional with women.
My mind is numb towards them especially naija women.

Women showed me pepper. I am where I am now because of a woman. They made my progress happens backward.

I see them as sex objects since that's what they proved to be..

mimimile93:


nothing anyoone wud do or say that will make me get emotional with women.
My mind is numb towards them especially naija women.

Women showed me pepper. I am where I am now because of a woman. They made my progress happens backward.

I see them as sex objects since that's what they proved to be..

OK then dear, guess you've already made up your mind on that. Just make sure you're good and do everything you need to be happy. You deserve the best the world has to offer.

sarahade:

Ok.
I'm fine and you?

im fine dear, thanks for ur understanding.

Most quiet people are intelligent.. I guess u are...



Nice to meet u.

Princedapace:


im fine dear, thanks for ur understanding.

Most quiet people are intelligent.. I guess u are...



Nice to meet u.

I'm not quiet o but I'm very gentle

Massmike:
the point is in knowing the type of person your partner is. Some people like mysterious some don't. Not every body has time for mysteries or you think everybody is Sherlock Holmes.
just be wise

Spot on!

sarahade:


I'm not quiet o but I'm very gentle

Hahahahaha.. where are u from?

Henitan24:


OK then dear, guess you've already made up your mind on that. Just make sure you're good and do everything you need to be happy. You deserve the best the world has to offer.

women are the mistake creatures of the creator. Fear women. Even the Devil does not know where women sharpen their daggers.

ibietela2:
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False

false what?
This forum is for contributing to topics not negating comments.
So Mr man contribute and please let it make proper sense

ibietela2:
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False

everyone let's contribute wisely