XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

Dami12345:


See the shitttt this girl is writing. Boy are you a slave??

Guy tell her to leave the stuff there and walk away, obviously if she does that's the last time you buy ANYTHING for her.
Set standards, what rubu

Bass123:
Just go to bed and snore. You are still a baby what does that takes away from u. Does that makes u less of a man? Go to bed joor!

Sarkae:
hmmmmmmmmmmm, u re angry, I know I dint offend u sha. Thanks I understand, thanks for ur contributions. God bless

XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

XhosaNostra:


Enough said. Because only a boy would be bìtching about that sort of thing.

Sarkae:
i just asked because to wanted to know more, not because I felt I was right. Ur answer is too aggressive. It's obvious u are shouting there. Calm down

selfwife:
sometimes,it is best you do what suits you.Anyone can carry the bag.for me,as long as i will like to carry it,my man will not allow.there is no big deal about who carries it.

Dami12345:


Only a bitch, would be so callous to not contribute anything in a relationship.

XhosaNostra:


Far from being angry but alright.

Sarkae:
hallelujah. I just wanted more wisdom, I dint conclude I was right. We learn everyday n I am open to corrections which was the reason I asked, just make it friendly. It will be more welcomed

XhosaNostra:


But I was being polite I don't know how I could have written it any differently. It honestly wasn't meant to be caustic.

XhosaNostra:


All over a plastic bag, really? Grow up & also mind the massive, much heavier chip on your shoulder while at it because not everything in a relationship is about tìt for tat.

XhosaNostra:
The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag

XhosaNostra:


But I was being polite I don't know how I could have written it any differently. It honestly wasn't meant to be caustic.

ranmoor:
is it heavy? If yes, u should carry it without complaints. Is it more than 1 bag? If yes, u should carry out of it. Any other thing, just leave her, if she likes she should leave it there. do not let any girl start making u do stuffs, do things because u want to. trust me in few months, she will be telling u its your duty to be doing her laundry

MISEDUCATIONS:
according to these lowlife modern women, a man must earn the money, buy the food, carry it, and when at home they'll complain cooking isnt for them and after eating complain doing dishes aint a woman thing.
you nigerian guys are too nice for your own good. come to Southern Africa and see women who find joy in shopping, cooking and doing dishes. .
i swear next you gona be putting food in these lazy creatures' mouths. man up for once. you are big act like it.

austyn0:
Pure childishness...

Op,, how you go de reason share the duty of carrying common polythene bag all because of sey you foot bill? E no suppose,, your shoddie for that matter, you for just carry am ma to show your romantic side..

My female friends know me as a joker,, I jokingly push them into carrying whatever I buy,, provided them de there, except it is heavy...This no be matter na.

Timewilltell2:



That is because they are illiterate slaves and are used to it. Here our men get us house girls and gate boys because they have money and our culture and economy is better . We are not slaves, we have education. Deal with it.

MISEDUCATIONS:

and being educated what stops you from getting your own?

Timewilltell2:



Nigeian men are men not like you. They prefer catering for their women unlike you lossers. Who want to sleep for free, naija men pay for it.

MISEDUCATIONS:
according to these lowlife modern women, a man must earn the money, buy the food, carry it, and when at home they'll complain cooking isnt for them and after eating complain doing dishes aint a woman thing.
you nigerian guys are too nice for your own good. come to Southern Africa and see women who find joy in shopping, cooking and doing dishes. .
i swear next you gona be putting food in these lazy creatures' mouths. man up for once. you are big act like it.