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Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 10:34pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Eve fam.. Just this evening I went strolling with my girlfriend to get noodles, bread, egg and soft drink for dinner. And after the purchase she insisted I carry the nylon which content I paid for. I feel it shouldn't be so, since I paid for it her contribution should be carrying it home. Not just eating it alone, n d store its just a few trek to my house. Am I right or wrong on this? |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by SUPERPACK: 10:41pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
go and sleep. 10 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:47pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that? If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS! 5 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Bass123(m): 10:51pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Just go to bed and snore. You are still a baby what does that takes away from u. Does that makes u less of a man? Go to bed joor! 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Dami12345: 11:08pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: See the shitttt this girl is writing. Boy are you a slave ![]() Guy tell her to leave the stuff there and walk away, obviously if she does that's the last time you buy ANYTHING for her. Set standards, what rubu 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 11:10pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: XhosaNostra:hmmmmmmmmmmm, u re angry, I know I dint offend u sha. Thanks I understand, thanks for ur contributions. God bless |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:12pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Dami12345: Enough said. Because only a boy would be bìtching about that sort of thing. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Bass123:only babies point out babies. My question is very simple, am I right or wrong? U ask if it makes me less of a man? For u to go get stuffs for the house with ur wife n she watch u pack it up n down? This is not about her quota, it's just courtesy. Then why tldid she follow me way up to the junction? To watch me buy it n bring it back home? Gaskiya I can't even guess ur gender with this level of thought.. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Sarkae: Far from being angry but alright. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by selfwife(f): 11:17pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
sometimes,it is best you do what suits you.Anyone can carry the bag.for me,as long as i will like to carry it,my man will not allow.there is no big deal about who carries it. 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 11:17pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:i just asked because to wanted to know more, not because I felt I was right. Ur answer is too aggressive. It's obvious u are shouting there. Calm down 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Dami12345: 11:19pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Only a bitch, would be so callous to not contribute anything in a relationship. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:21pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Sarkae: LMAO @ shouting. I'll trying to add a few smileys next time, to show my current state of mind. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 11:22pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
selfwife:Thanks so much, I guess I made a big deal outta it. I will learn not to see things of such as big deal... 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Erm.... what happened to being an adult ![]() It doesn't matter who carries the damn bag! But since you paid for it, the contents belong to you, so carry your shopping and go! Can I ask who cooks the contents? Who washed the dishes after the contents were eaten? After you answer this truthfully, you'll understand who should be kind enough to carry the bag... I can't believe we're having this discussion but... let's go with it ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:25pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Dami12345: All over a plastic bag, really? Grow up & also mind the massive, much heavier chip on your shoulder while at it because not everything in a relationship is about tìt for tat. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MissRaine69(f): 11:35pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Both of you need to grow up. So splitting the load did not occur to you? And if it was about who paid for what why did you not go alone? Or better why did you not give her the money to go and do the shopping? |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 11:35pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:hallelujah. I just wanted more wisdom, I dint conclude I was right. We learn everyday n I am open to corrections which was the reason I asked, just make it friendly. It will be more welcomed |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:40pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
Sarkae: But I was being polite ![]() |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 11:48pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:polite? That thing sounded like my mum was about to slap d shit outta me. Well thanks I picked out the msg though. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Dami12345: 1:02am On Jul 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Coming from the partner who wants all the benefits and none of the losses. Besides if it's no big deal why didn't she carry it? ![]() Why is it such a big deal for her to just pick it the fuvck up. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by austyn0(m): 1:11am On Jul 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Pure childishness... Op,, how you go de reason share the duty of carrying common polythene bag all because of sey you foot bill? E no suppose,, your shoddie for that matter, you for just carry am ma to show your romantic side.. My female friends know me as a joker,, I jokingly push them into carrying whatever I buy,, provided them de there, except it is heavy...This no be matter na. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 5:30am On Jul 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:i told you many times before. you are too angry. see how everyone is telling you the same thing?? 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 5:35am On Jul 01, 2018 |
according to these lowlife modern women, a man must earn the money, buy the food, carry it, and when at home they'll complain cooking isnt for them and after eating complain doing dishes aint a woman thing. you nigerian guys are too nice for your own good. come to Southern Africa and see women who find joy in shopping, cooking and doing dishes. . i swear next you gona be putting food in these lazy creatures' mouths. man up for once. you are big act like it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by ranmoor: 6:03am On Jul 01, 2018 |
is it heavy? If yes, u should carry it without complaints. Is it more than 1 bag? If yes, u should carry out of it. Any other thing, just leave her, if she likes she should leave it there. do not let any girl start making u do stuffs, do things because u want to. trust me in few months, she will be telling u its your duty to be doing her laundry |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 6:42am On Jul 01, 2018 |
If it was a heavy nylon I bet she knows she doesn't need to tell me, I know it is too much for her to carry. It's just filled with wat we will eat for dinner. 4noodles, 3 eggs, 4 pure water and that's all. I felt it's not worth the share weather I foot the bill or not. N I feel she just wanted to share d load which wasn't necessary. Even if u want me to carry it, there is a way to present it rather than presenting it in a way that will make me feel less thank a man. U don't have to manipulate me then feel ur charm is working.. He'll no |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 6:43am On Jul 01, 2018 |
ranmoor:it wasn't heavy at all. It's what u can pull from Canada to China. I just had issue with her motive. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Timewilltell2(f): 6:47am On Jul 01, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: That is because they are illiterate slaves and are used to it. Here our men get us house girls and gate boys because they have money and our culture and economy is better . We are not slaves, we have education. Deal with it. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(m): 6:49am On Jul 01, 2018 |
austyn0:she said; Beb, it doesn't make sense why we will walk together n I will be the one holding the nylon?. Which means it will b an everyday stuff. To be sincere. What that suppose to be my work? |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 6:51am On Jul 01, 2018 |
Timewilltell2:and being educated what stops you from getting your own? |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Timewilltell2(f): 6:52am On Jul 01, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: Nigeian men are men not like you. They prefer catering for their women unlike you lossers. Who want to sleep for free, naija men pay for it. |
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 6:55am On Jul 01, 2018 |
Timewilltell2: MISEDUCATIONS: |
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