Prognose:


Done where?

ifyalways:


http://paternitytestnigeria.com/prenatal-dna-paternity-test/

Loisemm:
Hmm. Tough one.
For me, it depends on the kind of woman you are dating. Is she loose. Is she a faithful kind of woman.
Your answers should help you decide whether to marry now or wait and see.

Gistboxblog:


Well, what prompted me into asking questions after this long while, having considered her faithful and accepted the pregnancy without ever questioning if it was mine, is because, I borrowed her phone recently and stumbled upon some questionable messages, dated early February. My suspicion was more aroused by one message in which she was discussing her period with another man. She has somehow rationalized them. Still, I have doubts, and she doesn’t know I do.

Cc: prognose, zed7, sisisioge, Katier00, becca2011, appsdope, kimbraa, eyinjuege.

PS Please, don't quote this comment. I would have to remove it for indicative info.

Gistboxblog:


Well, what prompted me into asking questions after this long while, having considered her faithful and accepted the pregnancy without ever questioning if it was mine, is because, I borrowed her phone recently and stumbled upon some questionable messages, dated early February. My suspicion was more aroused by one message in which she was discussing her period with another man. She has somehow rationalized them. Still, I have doubts, and she doesn’t know I do.


PS Please, don't quote this comment. I would have to remove it for indicative info.

Gistboxblog:
On a scale of one to ten (ten being most likely), what are the chances of me being the father?

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To start with, I am unfamiliar with the female biology.

She has a 28-day cycle. Her last period ended on 14th January — to the best of my knowledge.
We had sex on the 15th January (my first time, but the umpteenth time for her — not complaining). Then, we had intercourse again on the 28th and 29th of January.

From the 5-9th February, she continuously hinted that she might be pregnant having noticed changes in her body. Afterward, she confirmed she is pregnant on 11th February.

Today, according to scans, she is roughly 23 weeks pregnant, and I have been supporting her. However, she doesn’t want to give birth outside of wedlock, so we intend to go to a marriage registry soon.

Now, the only reason I’d walk her down the aisle is the baby (not that I don't want to marry her or that I do not love her, not just ready for marriage yet). I want her (the unborn child) to be born in a functioning family, not a baby-mama context. Nonetheless, I am worried the baby might not be mine. Obviously, we can conduct a DNA test once the child is born, but it would be too late if the child turned out to be someone else’s. Worst, I’d be a divorcé at a tender age. I am not up to 30, but I am very comfortable.


I need fertility experts, women, doctors to please tell me what they think.

Based on the timeline of her cycle, period, pregnancy signs, our sexual relations and such, what are the chances that I am the father?


MODIFIED:
Don't get me wrong, I am not looking for irrefutably decisive conclusions, just prospects, likelihood.

Gistboxblog:
@dyt
You are obviously biased.
So, according to you, a woman discussing her menses (whether it flowed or not) with another man, especially when their message’s history clearly depicted that there had been an affair between them, shouldn’t justify their partner’s suspicions? Or you missed the part where I said the messages were “questionable”? You never bothered to ask what “questionable” really meant. Also, you needn’t generalize, could have waited (or asked) for specifics or draw conclusions based solely on the information at your disposal.
I stated earlier that it was rationalized. The woman’s basis was that the affair with the man had ended prior to meeting me, which is now false.

Gistboxblog:
I just dodged a fast one.
I have approached her with the facts you guys provided me with. And as it turns out, she saw her “ex,” so to say, who is an undergraduate (she even sent him money recently, my money), in January too, before and after she visited me. Right now, she claims she is unsure about who the father of the unborn child is, but I am confident I am not the father. I have canceled the marriage and would inform my family.
I guess it’s all just a lesson.
Thank you all so much — Cc:

Gistboxblog:
I just dodged a fast one.
I have approached her with the facts you guys provided me with. And as it turns out, she saw her “ex,” so to say, who is an undergraduate (she even sent him money recently, my money), in January too, before and after she visited me. Right now, she claims she is unsure about who the father of the unborn child is, but I am confident I am not the father. I have canceled the marriage and would inform my family.
I guess it’s all just a lesson.
Thank you all so much — Cc: Mindfulness, prognose, zed7, sisisioge, Katier00, becca2011, appsdope, kimbraa, eyinjuege, Holocene.

Gistboxblog:
I just dodged a fast one.
I have approached her with the facts you guys provided me with. And as it turns out, she saw her “ex,” so to say, who is an undergraduate (she even sent him money recently, my money), in January too, before and after she visited me. Right now, she claims she is unsure about who the father of the unborn child is, but I am confident I am not the father. I have canceled the marriage and would inform my family.
I guess it’s all just a lesson.
Thank you all so much — Cc: Mindfulness, prognose, zed7, sisisioge, Katier00, becca2011, appsdope, kimbraa, eyinjuege, Holocene.

becca2011:


Calm down and don't conclude yet. My 2 pregnancies, hubby didn't release inside me, we practiced withdrawal method and I still got pregnant. So don't conclude you ain't the father yet. How did you even come to the conclusion sef, best bet is to undergo DNA when d child comes, even though they say DNA ain't cheap

Aquariann:


It was never your baby in the first place. Just a case of Alpha fvcks, Beta Bucks. She was looking for a comfortable life for herself and her child and you were the perfect "provider" candidate. Every female moniker that commented on this thread prior knew this fact.

Also, because she took your virginity you were in a haste to marry her?

There were too many red flags to ignore. First of which you guys live in different cities. Secondly she was rushing you to the registry.

As a side note my man, never get married in the registry. You have a whole lot to lose.

And for crying out loud, Can you just stop having unprotected sex? What is wrong with you guys? Fathering someone else's child is the least you should worry about. I've seen the look of regret on the faces of several young and comfortable guys like you when a positive HIV result was handed to them.

Mr. lover man, I hope she's now an ex? The fact that she's cheating on you, lied about ending things, gave your money to her true love (father of the child) is unforgivable. Not to mention attempting to pass another man's child to you and force you to marry her.

Holocene:
Trust the women to defend one of their own. The things women of these days do and try to hook it up to a dude really scares the poo outta me. What sane woman will discuss period and ovulation with another man who ain't hitting that asss. Bruv, don't be misled and intimidated into getting married like say na one big trophy.

Marriage is not a one day thing, it a a lifetime and if you make the mistake initially, it's a lifetime of regrets. NEVER MARRY OUTTA PITY.

Holocene:
What sane woman will discuss ovulation with another man who ain't hitting that asss..

zed7:


And you wanted to wife a hò. When will we men learn? Never let the p get the better of you ever!!!

Dyt:


Why didn't you question her on seeing the messages?
You had to bring it to where no one really cares if you both end up good or worse?
What happened to communication?

You couldn't entail your fears to your partner but could give out every info to those that don't give a hoot about any of you

Good luck with your mind getting twisted oo

Gistboxblog:


Thanks for your input. Nonetheless, I know why I bothered to bring it here (and I am now glad I did) for experienced, unbiased, second opinions. If anything, it afforded me with informed opinions on how to proceed.

Dyt:


Not every man.takes life the hard way

There could be reasons for getting to that
You eat too much
You are moody
Your look terrible

Casual discussions

Flips hair

Gistboxblog:


Thank you, Aquariann. Yes, she is now an ex. But I won't be throwing her out immediately as she is heavy. After she got pregnant, we started living together so that I could take care of her, but that will change soon.

Dyt:


Not every man.takes life the hard way

There could be reasons for getting to that
You eat too much
You are moody
Your look terrible

Casual discussions

Flips hair

Holocene:

Lol, is he a doctor or a nurse?

crackhaus:

Not every woman..no, scratch that.
Most women are not so flippant to discuss things like cycle, period, and ovulation, with just any guy.

I know you're probably going to ask me if I'm a woman to make such claims..
Well you have to be honest with yourself here. Perhaps you can say things like that to your male friends, but that would make you the exception, definitely not the usual.

A good number of my friends happen to be of the opposite sex and I can tell you for a fact that for every one of them I've had that kind of gist with, we were either already intimate or about to get intimate.
What kind of fuckery will make me go about discussing ovulation or menstrual cycles with a woman who is just a 'FRIEND'? Am I one of her girlfriends or what exactly

This guy has every reason to be suspicious, as a matter of fact he should be worried.

Dyt:




I wouldn't know
I read the chat and didn't see nothing to cause a fuse

She said she was cranky
Turned gourmand

And the guy asked why
She said she thinks its ovulation

That was it
Nothing more

**rolls eyes****

Holocene:


Ok, let's imagine you see your boyfriend or husband discussing about his erection and payload volume with another lady who ain't a doctor or healthcare professional at best....then you would come here and raise hell over his head...
What is fuckeddup is fuckeddup...stop rubbing anointing oil over it to make sell.

Dyt:


Yes sir
To you men
Its wrong

Not gonna do this with you
Y'all win