The Talk with Vanessa is a podcast hosted by Vanessa Willie, a certified Relationship and a Marriage Coach. The show features counseling on real issues being faced by people in today’s society. Contemporary issues like addiction, abuse, and relationships are understandably given particular focus and listeners are encouraged to talk about their various problems to get counseling, therapy, basic help when needed and a support system to get through life’s challenges.

In this episode, Vanessa speaks to Ifunanya. See synopsis below..



He seemed like the perfect man. He was all she ever wanted in a man, her Prince Charming! And when he proposed, she screamed a resounding Yes!

But a few months into their marriage, her perception changes. She starts to notice some disturbing traits in her man. One late night, after a lot of persistent inquiry on her part, he opens up.

“I’m gay.” He breathed resignedly.

In this emotive podcast, Ifunanya tells about her ordeal in a loveless marriage, where she has endured physical and emotional abuse and nights bereft of affection and sex; and about her passion to seek a better life for herself and her children.

They’ve been married for seven years, Ifunanya said, and most times, they have sex in 3-4 months intervals. They both have two children together.

She said he doesn’t support her or the children and she’s been the one shouldering the responsibilities.

Listen below:

http://thetalkwithvanessa.com/2018/07/891/

Don't forget to subcribe to our Soundcloud channel.
We post podcsats every Friday.

its very prevalent in SA. gay men who marry then seek dick later on, usually secretly. we call them the "After 9s". and their wives are our bread and butter. we killing dat pvssay.

CC lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique, fynestboi, biafranbushboy, makydebbie, divepen1

Really feel bad for her imagine turning your own husband gay pussy must have been bad smh

TheTalkWVanessa:
CC lala.sticlala, my.nd44, Domini.que, fyne.stboi, biafranb.ushboy, maky.debbie

Because she couldnt Bleep well

This issue of a man being a gay is far beyond what an ordinary mind can understand.
I can just imagine the legions of stubborn demons hovering around them all.

This is seriously serious.....

MISEDUCATIONS:
its very prevalent in SA. gay men who marry then seek dick later on, usually secretly. we call them the "After 9s". and their wives are our bread and butter. we killing dat pvssay.

Why specifically in SA?

Yellowdayzee:


Why specifically in SA?

i can only speak for where i am. i dont know if its happening in zambia or ghana etc. im not in those countries.

TheTalkWVanessa:


The Talk with Vanessa is a podcast hosted by Vanessa Willie, a certified Relationship and a Marriage Coach. The show features counseling on real issues being faced by people in today’s society. Contemporary issues like addiction, abuse, and relationships are understandably given particular focus and listeners are encouraged to talk about their various problems to get counseling, therapy, basic help when needed and a support system to get through life’s challenges.

In this episode, Vanessa speaks to Ifunanya. See synopsis below..



He seemed like the perfect man. He was all she ever wanted in a man, her Prince Charming! And when he proposed, she screamed a resounding Yes!

But a few months into their marriage, her perception changes. She starts to notice some disturbing traits in her man. One late night, after a lot of persistent inquiry on her part, he opens up.

“I’m gay.” He breathed resignedly.

In this emotive podcast, Ifunanya tells about her ordeal in a loveless marriage, where she has endured physical and emotional abuse and nights bereft of affection and sex; and about her passion to seek a better life for herself and her children.

They’ve been married for seven years, Ifunanya said, and most times, they have sex in 3-4 months intervals. They both have two children together.

She said he doesn’t support her or the children and she’s been the one shouldering the responsibilities.

Listen below:

http://thetalkwithvanessa.com/2018/07/891/

what is this rubbish! How your husband be gay?
That's barbaric! Why bring it here on social media when his name of identification is not mention.
So you can't raise alarm to attract people from immediately environment so that they will lynch that barbaric evil man to death
So you can't report to the police, so that he can be arrested and jail because he is criminal? eeh?
You are a gay too for not reacting to the internal stimulus!!!!!

Klinee:
what is this rubbish! How your husband be gay?
That's barbaric! Why bring it here on social media when his name of identification is not mention.
So you can't raise alarm to attract people from immediately environment so that they will lynch that barbaric evil man to death
So you can't report to the police, so that he can be arrested and jail because he is criminal? eeh?
You are a gay too for not reacting to the internal stimulus!!!!!

to slap u dey hungry me

that's indecency at it highest level... y don't he get a long tube filled with excreta n insert his organ?

Lie Lie story. he aint gay! he is Bi

mistel:
Lie Lie story. he aint gay! he is Bi

listen to d podcast, oga.....D huzzie na GAYbriel

I would hav called you a fool but i would b insulting foolish people.

Klinee:
mumu! senseless animals your days on earth are numbered, keep on with your gayism.

I would hav called you a fool but i would b insulting foolish people.

mistel:
Lie Lie story. he aint gay! he is Bi

So if a man is Bi he is not Gay?

smh dullards everywhere

GODPUNISHUNA:


So if a man is Bi he is not Gay

smh dullards everywhere

i swear..awon GAYbriel ASSociation (GAY-ASS)

meanwhile, wer are the mods.. Diz is fp material

uncle lalasticlala, oya carry go.

Klinee:
what is this rubbish! How your husband be gay?
That's barbaric! Why bring it here on social media when his name of identification is not mention.
So you can't raise alarm to attract people from immediately environment so that they will lynch that barbaric evil man to death
So you can't report to the police, so that he can be arrested and jail because he is criminal? eeh?
You are a gay too for not reacting to the internal stimulus!!!!!

OrestesDante nd ChiefAzubike go finish dis wan!!

MISEDUCATIONS:
i can only speak for where i am. i dont know if its happening in zambia or ghana etc. im not in those countries.

so ur a toyboy smh

How can you marry a gay without knowing?
His lack of interest in pre-intimacy should arouse your suspicion.

NisforNicky:


so ur a toyboy smh

you're thinking like a woman.
for a man any sex where he doesnt pay is a jackpot. why do you think men wish to be raped?

Klinee:
what is this rubbish! How your husband be gay?
That's barbaric! Why bring it here on social media when his name of identification is not mention.
So you can't raise alarm to attract people from immediately environment so that they will lynch that barbaric evil man to death
So you can't report to the police, so that he can be arrested and jail because he is criminal? eeh?
You are a gay too for not reacting to the internal stimulus!!!!!

So primitive

Amarabae:
How can you marry a gay without knowing?
His lack of interest in pre-intimacy should arouse your suspicion.

aunty listen to d tape....dey even had sex b4 marriage

d man na expert, i swear. Poor woman

NisforNicky:

aunty listen to d tape....dey even had sex b4 marriage

d man na expert, i swear. Poor woman

Mumu Shut-up! you foolish goat! I feel like killing you!

LivingFree:


So primitive

You son of goat, do you consider the gravity of that act called gayism

TheTalkWVanessa:


The Talk with Vanessa is a podcast hosted by Vanessa Willie, a certified Relationship and a Marriage Coach. The show features counseling on real issues being faced by people in today’s society. Contemporary issues like addiction, abuse, and relationships are understandably given particular focus and listeners are encouraged to talk about their various problems to get counseling, therapy, basic help when needed and a support system to get through life’s challenges.

In this episode, Vanessa speaks to Ifunanya. See synopsis below..



He seemed like the perfect man. He was all she ever wanted in a man, her Prince Charming! And when he proposed, she screamed a resounding Yes!

But a few months into their marriage, her perception changes. She starts to notice some disturbing traits in her man. One late night, after a lot of persistent inquiry on her part, he opens up.

“I’m gay.” He breathed resignedly.

In this emotive podcast, Ifunanya tells about her ordeal in a loveless marriage, where she has endured physical and emotional abuse and nights bereft of affection and sex; and about her passion to seek a better life for herself and her children.

They’ve been married for seven years, Ifunanya said, and most times, they have sex in 3-4 months intervals. They both have two children together.

She said he doesn’t support her or the children and she’s been the one shouldering the responsibilities.

Listen below:

http://thetalkwithvanessa.com/2018/07/891/

Don't forget to subcribe to our Soundcloud channel.
We post podcsats every Friday.

We have just posted a new podcast about a lady whose biological father was molesting her. Click the link below to see it..

https://www.nairaland.com/4602629/father-started-molesting-age-6#69137626

GODPUNISHUNA:


So if a man is Bi he is not Gay?

smh dullards everywhere

I never insulted but thanks for your immaturity. when a man is gay in the strict sense, he don't do women, or else other men won't do him. you can't be gay and fvcking your woman and birthing kids. other gay dudes will slice your cokk for dinner. the guy is bi. is you don't get it, check what sexual orientations are!

mistel:
I never insulted but thanks for your immaturity. when a man is gay in the strict sense, he don't do women, or else other men won't do him. you can't be gay and fvcking your woman and birthing kids. other gay dudes will slice your cokk for dinner. the guy is bi. is you don't get it, check what sexual orientations are!

You are very dull. A Bi-Sexual sleeps with both men and women. When a man sleeps with a man what is he called?

Seems to be you are Bi-Sexual hence the defense to prevent people calling you Gay